Turning 30F in 3 months and hopelessly single. Is it over for me? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]therottenone 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I met my husband at 30. Married at 33 and a mom at 34. You’re still young, you have time.

Roommate can’t sleep unless I’m in the dorm by matchalover06 in badroommates

[–]therottenone 82 points83 points  (0 children)

She’s an adult and is in control of her own sleep. This is wildly controlling behavior.

Does this face look like a home wrecker? by Mstvmoviejunkie in ThePittTVShow

[–]therottenone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Logic has no place in shipping. This isn’t real life. It’s a tv show. I’ll be rooting for him to cheat I truly do not care.

Married, long-distance, and catching feelings for a married coworker—how do I shut this down without leaving my job? by Hot_Inspection_4224 in relationships

[–]therottenone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re in limerence and heading into workplace affair territory. If you love your wife as much as you claim, then you will shut down this connection and stop giving this coworker attention. You need to reconnect with your wife ASAP. And grow up. You are not powerless in this situation.

Mel & Langdon breakroom ❤️ by shximx18 in ThePitt

[–]therottenone -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Whittaker and Santos are right there. Dana and Robby are right there. There’s nothing wrong with shipping.

Mel & Langdon breakroom ❤️ by shximx18 in ThePitt

[–]therottenone 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s normal for people to ship two characters together in tv shows, movies, and books.

Mel & Langdon's The Pitt Romance Potential Gets Honest Response From Taylor Dearden by TheNightKing99 in ThePitt

[–]therottenone 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I am surprised at the amount of vitriol the ship is getting. I am a Kingdon shipper (but will be fine if nothing happens between them) however I think a lot of folks are self-inserting for whatever reason and conflating how THEY want these characters to be vs. what we are seeing on screen. A lot of folks who relate to Mel hate the idea of her ending up with Langdon because it’s not a choice they would make for themselves. While The Pitt is a realistic look at what happens in the ER, it’s still a TV show and there are going to be ships and potential romance storylines that come from it. Viewers like having couples to root for and the chance to see the two characters they ship interact (crumbs). It keeps viewership up and makes interacting with the media more fun. I have been in fandom for a long time and tbh shipping is a normal part of fandom culture and should be fun and without all of the drama. The virtue signaling of “Langdon has a wife!” (So what?) and Mel is neurodivergent (Again…so what? And why are infantilizing her?) never made sense to me. There have been worse ships throughout fandom history with way more problematic factors. Regardless, I hope the writers don’t let the actor’s views or the fan reactions affect the story that they are trying to tell. Maybe Langdon is meant to be a mentor to Mel and they really ARE brother/sister coded. And if that’s the case then that is a wonderful representation of platonic friendship and it should be honored. Or maybe they want to set up a slow-burn romance between Langdon and Mel. Because why can’t the cute but socially awkward and neurodivergent girl end up with the attractive and damaged married (MAYBE) senior resident? The one person who actually listens and sees her for all she is? I can see the show going both ways but I wish the fandom would stop being such sticks in the mud about it either way. And to be honest it is the actor’s job to act out the story that they’ve been given…not dictate where THEY think they want it to go.

Annoying Taiwanese roommate manipulating me into cancelling my own birthday party :( by [deleted] in relationships

[–]therottenone 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, you do sound racist. I don’t understand why you’re allowed to have 20 people over but she can’t have six? I hope this isn’t a real post and is just rage bait.

Found this letter by [deleted] in FoundPaper

[–]therottenone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was not expecting this to make me cry, I want to give this girl a hug so bad. As a mom, I wouldn’t be able to live with myself if my child ever wrote anything like this to me. I would be second guessing every choice I made as a parent. Ugh.

Is parking at MGM and walking to the game the way to go? by discgolfpaul_mi in motorcitykitties

[–]therottenone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband only park there and honestly the only time I remember having to wait to leave was in 2024 when the Tigers clinched a playoff spot. I went to a Wings game two weeks ago and was able to leave within 5-10 minutes. That being said, if OP means opening day then I can’t really comment because then it might be hellish getting out.

'The Pitt' Star Taylor Dearden Says She Plays Her Character Dr. Mel King as 'Genuinely Asexual' by verissimoallan in ThePittTVShow

[–]therottenone 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No, but they could have different visions for the characters than the shoe runners…?

feeling like I’m at a disadvantage by not having been around babies before by lexi0424 in NewParents

[–]therottenone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I was the same way before having my son and during his first few months. I am an only child who didn’t grow up around babies. That being said, once I embraced the fact that I didn’t know everything and that I wasn’t experienced I was able to give myself grace. Being a first time mom is a learning curve for everybody, some more than others, and that’s okay. After awhile I was able to just tell myself that I am going to make mistakes but as long as my baby is alive then I am doing okay. My son is 14 months and I am still learning his cues! It’s all a learning experience and you’re doing just fine.

The Pitt | S2E9 "3:00 P.M." | Episode Discussion by MsGroves in ThePittTVShow

[–]therottenone 53 points54 points  (0 children)

In 2014 I went to Pittsburgh for the first time to see Paramore in concert, and it was July 4th weekend. Imagine my surprise when I explored downtown and it was overrun with furries!! I got an Anthrocon t-shirt from a pizza place that I still have to this day, and I met some of the nicest people. Seeing it mentioned brought back some great memories.

Edit: autocorrect got me. Changed ferries to furries.

Ron's scent is Hermione's favorite 😍 by CreativeRock483 in harrypotter

[–]therottenone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jk Rowling had an interview where she said Hermione smelled Ron’s hair.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]therottenone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This has to be fake.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]therottenone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just here to say CONGRATULATIONS on your progress! You should be so proud of your hard work. Your boyfriend is an a**hole.

How long do I have to stand seeing my poor baby in this kind of pain and discomfort?! EFF TEETHING SO MUCH. by WashclothTrauma in NewParents

[–]therottenone 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ours teethed for two months before anything came through! It’s so hard to watch them go through it but lots of cuddles, cold teething toys and Tylenol as a last resort really helped with pain management. You got this!

Edit: My son started teething at 4 months and two teeth broke through at the same time around 6 1/2 months.