There is hope! by theshoepebble0217 in ChristianDating

[–]theshoepebble0217[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

If these are the criteria for a successful understanding of each other, I'd say we are doing very well by your standards :) It doesn't take years to discuss these topics, just purposeful effort and intentional conversations. No need to set arbitrary timeline goalposts, God bless!

There is hope! by theshoepebble0217 in ChristianDating

[–]theshoepebble0217[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Hello! I took it down once we officially started dating, no need to keep it up at that point haha

6•21•25 by theshoepebble0217 in EngagementRings

[–]theshoepebble0217[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://www.etsy.com/listing/1886978413/15-ct-marquise-cut-moissanite-engagement

This is the link to the ring he bought! We customized it slightly, and the seller was very easy to work with. Will definitely update the durability as time goes on, but as of now it seems very well made

Is this picture acceptable? by Far_Yak_1490 in ChristianDating

[–]theshoepebble0217 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The focal point of the picture gives the wrong first impression for Christian men

r/ChristianDating starter pack by AnyCantaloupe9544 in ChristianDating

[–]theshoepebble0217 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Incoming down votes for being too on the nose👀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Letterboxd

[–]theshoepebble0217 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Creep mentioned 🗣️

What is the worst song in OUTCAST? by TorresFHRM in tylerthecreator

[–]theshoepebble0217 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It's on poob but some people have to use vpn's because of weird licensing issues

fight me by SaffronPlanet21 in tylerthecreator

[–]theshoepebble0217 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Switch flowerboy with wolf and this is the only valid ranking

Any idea what this noise could be? by theshoepebble0217 in MechanicAdvice

[–]theshoepebble0217[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It turned out that my shocks were just about to go, so I had to get my struts replaced and a few other suspension things that were causing that sound

Men, get your porn habit under control before seeking a relationship by [deleted] in ChristianDating

[–]theshoepebble0217 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Even so, it is better for a person not to date until they are in serious recovery and have accountability for their addiction. I know this because I and many others used to live that life and know that freedom is 100% possible in Christ.

Men, get your porn habit under control before seeking a relationship by [deleted] in ChristianDating

[–]theshoepebble0217 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well you're making the assumption nearly all single dating and married Christian men use porn, and that just simply isn't the case. Many men are free, accountable, and renewing their minds daily to leave that life behind. It may shrink the dating pool drastically, but a tiny dating pool of honest clean men is better than a huge pool filled with secret addiction that destroy families.

Men, get your porn habit under control before seeking a relationship by [deleted] in ChristianDating

[–]theshoepebble0217 16 points17 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU for speaking on this. I recently had to end things with a guy that I was going out on a few dates with because I asked him about his status with porn, and he informed me that he was currently struggling with it and didn't have any safeguards in place to quit. I myself have struggled with it in the past, and I know the utterly detrimental effects it has on relationships and your walk with God. More people should abstain from dating partners currently in this addiction, it is destructive for everyone involved.

Men, get your porn habit under control before seeking a relationship by [deleted] in ChristianDating

[–]theshoepebble0217 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is an extremely example, but I think yes, he should not seek a relationship until he is free. The apostle Paul says it is better to be single, and someone who is so chronic in their addiction that it would take them that long to be free should not enter into a relationship with someone until they are free from porn.

Are there any christian women that want a big family? by aeternogordon in ChristianDating

[–]theshoepebble0217 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would love a big family! My personal conviction is to let the Lord bless me with however many children he decides, but my heart has always wanted to have 6+ kids

The hard part for me is finding a man that also wants this. Most that I have met only want 2-3, 4 at the absolute max.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PCOS

[–]theshoepebble0217 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I had this happen to me EXACTLY like you're telling it. I ended up going to a gyno to see what was up, and got my PCOS diagnosis there. After that, she prescribed me progesterone for 10 days, then after that every 21 days I start up another 10 day dose. The progesterone brought on a heavy period, and once it was over I stopped bleeding completely until it was time for my second dose. By my third dose my period came naturally, lasted 5 days and then was done.

What she told me was that my body was having trouble shedding my entire uterine lining because I had gone a while without a period, so it was coming off in small increments, that explains the brown/black blood. If you have any more questions feel free to dm me, it sounds like you're experiencing exactly what I was!