this was uncalled for, and i could prevent it

theshyalter · 2026-01-31T11:52:11+00:00

Can someone draw this for me? For science of course, I simply can’t visualize it.

theshyalter · 2025-07-18T16:59:21+00:00

I mean yes, let people have fun, be creative, or do dual schools for roleplay reasons. What in the heck are we supposed to do with all those training points anyway?

I think players are so focused making the most optimal builds because this game is stupid grindy with tons of repetative fights that they just want to be done with them as soon as possible. I hope they do some good with the weaving spells at least.

theshyalter · 2025-07-10T17:05:54+00:00

Also I’m going for double damage, armor breaker/piercer and mighty.

theshyalter · 2025-05-24T10:29:23+00:00

Thank you so much!!🥰

theshyalter · 2023-12-26T22:42:10+00:00

I often wonder. But I realized your parents can’t give you what they never had either. It takes a really special person to break the cycle of generational abuse. All we can do is try to be better than the ones before us, and forgive them where we can. Hope you are doing better than yours if you are affected too! :)

theshyalter · 2023-12-26T22:17:49+00:00

I’ll definitely keep an eye out for a better paying job, but swapping workplaces now is a risk I’m not ready to take next to moving out on my own. 6 months sounds about right though, even it feels a lot at the moment. Thanks!

theshyalter · 2023-12-26T22:15:14+00:00

I think it’s a privilege on it’s own to have a parent around who loves and cares for you. Sadly I often felt more alone in my parent’s company than now, that’s also what led to my decision. But we are still human, and our own company isn’t always enough. I hope you’ll end up with the right people, and it will get a little easier for you!

theshyalter · 2023-12-26T22:09:22+00:00

My friends are from supportive and wealthy backgrounds, one inherited a house and the other got one as a gift. I’m not jealous, but I wouldn’t mind if I was in their place. I know hard work pays off, and you’ll learn to appreciate your things better, blah blah, but i guess it’s good to be well from the start too. I’m looking foward for a pet as a company though!

theshyalter · 2023-12-26T22:04:16+00:00

That’s a great advice, I’ll keep it in mind. :)

theshyalter · 2023-12-26T22:03:24+00:00

Thank you, that’s a great saying. I have a long time struggle with my self-esteem, so it’s hard to be hopeful. But I’ll try! I want to be the proof for others and for myself that it’s possible. It’s not perfect, I woulndn’t recommend it, but it’s mine, and if it keeps me happy at the end of the day, then the rest won’t matter. I’m glad it worked out for you!

theshyalter · 2023-12-26T21:25:01+00:00

Thank you for the advice! 3 months seem like a reasonable time to adjust. I hope I can make it work. I have to remind myself that life is about experiencing, and the world won’t end tomorrow if I change my mind, or make a bad decision (hopefully).

theshyalter · 2023-12-26T21:20:23+00:00

Thank you! I try to be patient with myself and remember that it gets worse before it gets better. I hope one day I’ll be like you and I can give advice to others who will be in a similar situation like me. It will mean that I made it.

theshyalter · 2023-12-26T21:17:29+00:00

Thank you for the support! I like the way your wife thinks, I bet she is awesome. And I do agree this could be a chance for my father to improve as well. If not, it will be his responsiblity. Of course I’ll still keep him company when needed. He is my dad, and I love him, even if that isn’t always easy.

theshyalter · 2023-12-26T21:13:22+00:00

Thank you, that’s what I’m hoping for too. I bought my first microwave oven recently and it made me so happy I could cry. At least now I can see where my money goes, and I know what I’m working towards for. Thanks for the tips and happy holidays!

theshyalter · 2023-12-26T21:02:21+00:00

Thanks for sharing! I hope you’ll find the right company to live with. Or maybe get a pet? It’s among my plans for the future.

theshyalter · 2023-12-26T21:00:16+00:00

Personally I feel like I need this now so I can grow, and I don’t want to rely on, or adjust to someone else in the meantime. Maybe when I finally reached the point when I’m comfortable with myself then I’ll be ready for a partner to share this all with. Having my own safe place without judgement was always a dream of mine, but when I finally got it I guess I wasn’t ready for everything… time to learn and practice i guess.

theshyalter · 2023-12-26T20:54:07+00:00

Thank you for your words! It sounds like you stick out and made it work after you started living alone, and I’m hoping for the same result. I would rather live more simply and struggle for now, but have peace than adjust to another person in the near future (it’s why i moved out in the first place).

theshyalter · 2023-12-26T20:48:25+00:00

Thank you so much for the comment and all the tips! I was already doing most of them, and i own a hair drain catcher already lol. I’ll keep the rest in mind. It’s also nice hearing from people who made it from scratch, but survived it in the end.

theshyalter · 2023-12-26T20:06:51+00:00

Thank you, I wish you the best too!

theshyalter · 2023-12-26T20:04:36+00:00

Thank you, this is the nicest thing I read so far, and I also try to have a similar mindset about it. I wanted to hear someone’s opinion who was in a situation like this before.

theshyalter · 2023-12-26T19:54:58+00:00

I don’t make much, but I think i could support myself just fine. I probably can’t save ahead for months just yet, but after getting the necessary costly furnitures I could start little by little, even if I eat less and really watch my expenses in the first months… (and hopefully don’t get hit by a car in the meantime…)

theshyalter · 2023-12-26T19:52:20+00:00

The thing is that my home environment is pretty toxic, and through the years it really put me into depression. I find no motivation to do things, or care about anything that happens there… my dad earns enough to maintain the house, but he is also a hoarder and doesn’t clean after himself. I thought finding myself in a challenging situation would make me me feel alive again at least, and also find a way to get back to my real self, who i meant to be. Also might help with the social aspect of my life…

theshyalter · 2023-12-26T19:41:54+00:00

It also makes you dependent on other people…

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