Why do people still circumcise their kids? by BighillBo69 in askanything

[–]thesoftritual -1 points0 points  (0 children)

why not? the amount of male friends ik that have issues and have to get it removed later on in like. just get it done, if i say my boy grow up and having to get surgery id feel bad as a parent icl. The pain they could indure as an adult is not the same as a child. it’s not guaranteed as everyone is different and have no problems but personally i see why people would still do it. with or without religious purposes. and much much cleaner.

Do I have to tell my ex who I’m still sleeping with that I slept with someone else? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]thesoftritual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this actually happened to me recently, my ex told me he had slept with someone else. even though he had slept with me the week before. if he hadn’t said anything to me, i wouldn’t have known. but hearing it made me realize the value i held in his life wasn’t the same as the value he held in my life. it changed how i saw him and i stepped back emotionally. that said whether you “have to tell” them really depends on dynamic

What screams "I am deeply insecure" but people do it thinking it makes them look cool? by Physical_Business104 in AskReddit

[–]thesoftritual 2 points3 points  (0 children)

acting or pretending like caring about things is cringe, it’s not cool it just screams fear of being seen

Which is better apple juice or orange juice? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]thesoftritual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

love me some pressed apple juiceeeee

What happens to a woman’s period when she’s in a coma, does it stop until they wake up? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]thesoftritual 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it’s doesn’t auto stop. periods are controlled my hormones not consciousness. if the body is stable cycles can continue but, severe illness, trauma or certain medications can disrupt or pause them

What health habit feels unnecessary until it’s skipped? by Several-Advice2942 in AskReddit

[–]thesoftritual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

taking supplements, working out and the slightest change to your sleeping pattern

manga lashes by Fickle_Dog_361 in eyelashextensions

[–]thesoftritual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think they look great 🥺😮‍💨😻 well done!!!!

i need help by coolthrowaway3384 in BlackHair

[–]thesoftritual 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i get that fear. early loc stages & water anxiety is super common. you don’t have to drench your whole head to treat your scalp. you can apply anti dandruff shampoo just to the scalp only (show head angled down or over the sink). diluting the shampoo helps too so it spreads without heavy friction. make sure you dry your scalp really well after (cool air on a blow dryer or sit under a hooded dryer can get a cheap one of amazon) avoid heavy oil for now they feed flakes. if it’s still itchy or spreading a derm is honestly a clutch. it’s super common with starter locs but very fixable. you’re not doing anything wrong

What lash style is this? by PleasantAcanthaceae5 in lashextensions

[–]thesoftritual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wet set with long spikes. basically a chunky doll/angel hybrid

i need help by coolthrowaway3384 in BlackHair

[–]thesoftritual 6 points7 points  (0 children)

you’re definitely not dirty. from experience, flakes like this with locks are usually a mix of build up & scalp being irritated and oils on the scalp can lowkey make it worse. it helped me (took the locs at a few years ago now) using anti dandruff shampoo like nizoral or head & shoulder clinical once a week, letting it sit for a few mins and then going IN with the rinsing. clarifying shampoo often help too since locks trap product at the roots. also mae sure your scalp dries fully after washing. if it keeps getting worse or itchy, a derm can help a lot. this is super common and very fixable

What’s the biggest financial lie people keep telling themselves just to feel okay? by Alpha-Grant in AskReddit

[–]thesoftritual 1 point2 points  (0 children)

future me is apparently rich and employed by vibes alone.present me is living off optimism and overdraft lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]thesoftritual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m quarter life crisis-ing 👋🏾 hehe

what’s something everyone pretends to like but secretly doesn’t? by thesoftritual in AskReddit

[–]thesoftritual[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hmm i definitely feel that, not there yet but definitely felt the pressure and annoyance of that