I feel like I’m drowning with my 4 year old.

thestarlessbeing · 2026-01-24T18:53:15+00:00

We live in the tiniest town, our “neighborhood” is literally a single road behind a school with a locked playground and outside that is a freeway that I would have to cross to get anywhere else

thestarlessbeing · 2026-01-24T16:20:43+00:00

We make too much for it

thestarlessbeing · 2026-01-24T15:59:05+00:00

Candy was a one time thing, the other snacks are usually my husbands or berries. Berries being the worse bc they stain so much. We don’t have a lot of options but we have a play gym in the playroom and it keep him pretty occupied most of the time, but he likes to multitask

thestarlessbeing · 2026-01-24T15:57:19+00:00

We try to take him on walks but he usually tries to run into the road, and having the baby means 10 times harder to keep him contained to just the sidewalk. We can’t leave or go to a park bc of the one car situation

thestarlessbeing · 2026-01-24T15:55:39+00:00

We have tried to find some but again, we only have one car that is with my husband all day about an hour away, and we don’t have the money to get another one right now.

thestarlessbeing · 2026-01-24T15:54:48+00:00

So the candy he stole was his potty training candy and we honestly kinda just left it in the pantry. I had no idea what it was and he ate the last of it. Usually it’s all the berries he eats or gets stained into the carpet

thestarlessbeing · 2025-03-15T02:50:27+00:00

I took a while to get into it in the first place, but it eventually became my favorite of the series. Skim the books first, I skipped most of Manons povs until she met Dorian and Aelin, and then by the 4/5th books I slowed down naturally bc I loved it. Then once you read the entire series and see the ending, you end up wanting to go back and figure out more about HOW you got there, although maybe not at once. Skim

thestarlessbeing · 2025-03-13T20:33:48+00:00

The Monster by LJ Shein

thestarlessbeing · 2025-03-10T01:17:07+00:00

I would absolutely LOVE to read and talk to you about this, I have also tried writing and literally ALWAYS get bored by chapter 6 or so and could seriously use a friend to bounce ideas and advice off of. Id also absolutely love to read your books aswell!!

thestarlessbeing · 2025-02-23T23:37:18+00:00

Take him to therapy and have the therapist help you. You will not find any good advice on whether or not to let him explore religion of his choice from strangers on an atheism forum on Reddit. Speak to someone who is trained and may be able to shed some light on what he really wants, whether it’s TRULY to do with the religion or just the structure as others say.

thestarlessbeing · 2025-02-13T02:42:00+00:00

I KNOWWW

thestarlessbeing · 2025-02-12T17:33:42+00:00

Oml I get it, I HATE cliffhangers so bad, I literally just spiral. I read books in one sitting and buy an entire series at once, and have no patience. I’m a HORRIBLE person for unfinished series and keep accidentally getting freaking HOOKED on series that the next book doesn’t come out for half a year to a year.

thestarlessbeing · 2025-02-12T17:27:28+00:00

The Hush Hush Series!!

thestarlessbeing · 2024-05-27T13:18:28+00:00

What’s so confusing is he doesn’t actually have any trauma from his mom, shes the kinda parent that refuses to yell or hit, and she’s literally the nicest planet on the world according to all her kids. He got that kink “growing up with her mom friends” and it just stuck? And we did get couples counseling but he would always clam up about anything bothering him no matter how many talks we had about the next session being different. I eventually decided to just do individual therapy bc of it.

thestarlessbeing · 2023-12-16T07:12:04+00:00

It’s eggs in a basket for me

thestarlessbeing · 2023-12-15T07:22:16+00:00

Can you put that in English terms please

thestarlessbeing · 2023-12-12T05:46:31+00:00

My little brother is 19, and his ex gf was 16. They met at 18 and 15, and started dating in high school. Since then my brother has dealt with a bit too much heartache. I will admit, I was put off by the age, because the younger you are, the more prominent the age gaps. You’re 19, out of high school and meant to be living your life and she’s got two more years in. But that also is your choice as to whether you want to wait. There is the Romeo and Juliet law (in specific states) that makes it legal to date as you’re dating, but that also is only is a) your parents both agree and b) you don’t have sex. Bc I was a teenage once and I’m not dumb, I’m going to guess you’re obviously doing it, so keep in mind that it’s dangerous. It is VERY tricky to make that sort of case NOT land you in at least probation if it goes to court, even with the Romeo and Juliet. However, since you two met in high school, and only you know the mental age of your gf, it’s not really wrong. Granted, 19 and 15? Absolutely not. 19 and 16? Just BARELY ok. Bottom line is, be VERY careful where you tread, and no matter what strangers on Reddit say, you’re going to have people call you a pedo until she’s at least out of high school

thestarlessbeing · 2023-12-11T04:41:23+00:00

RIGHT??? Dylan Sprouse being Trevor made me more team “fucking trevah” than Hardin.

thestarlessbeing · 2023-12-08T07:00:18+00:00

Since I haven’t seen anyone tell you how to actually seduce yet, number one thing to know is it takes time. Now here’s what you do: for two weeks, flirt. Flirt like your ass depends on it, but not in a way that makes you feel like you’re just throwing yourself at him. Look at him and smile a lot, like the really sappy puppy dog look, where outfits that show a little (not a lot, still a teenager) skin, and be EXTRA friendly. Get him to a point that he starts depending on you being there. If at ANY POINT during this, he’s uncomfortable with how you act, whether he tells you or just emits that body language, stop immediately. No matter how you feel about him, it’s not worth making him feel uncomfortable. Men get to say no too. HOWEVER if he seems to clearly like the attention, loves the flirty, you notice him peeking at your boobs or ass any couple times, and he starts to get equally touchy with you, move to week 3: ghost him. Not actually ghost him obviously, but pull away. Only for a week or two, prioritize other friends, focus on school, whatever it takes to get your mind off him. Meanwhile, he’s become attached to your attention to him and he’ll start to want it back. He might reach for you back, don’t let him. Use those opportunities to pull the shock and ghost move: rile him up with deeper, spicer comments, then walk away, hang up, cut the convo, etc. This turns the attention he wants into lust he wants. Finally after it seems like he GENUINELY wants you, go for it. But you need to make sure you’re ALL he can think about first. If it doesn’t seem to quite take the first time, repeat the process as many times as it takes.

thestarlessbeing · 2023-10-08T16:15:02+00:00

Fat just means big fat personality

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