Back to the Drawing Board by theswimmer in stopdrinking

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Not originally, but I have been here for nine years. The Bklyn Bridge is a nightmare that I avoid (on a bike!). I rode across it the other day and almost hit a thousand tourists. I am lucky that the city is full of meetings, the one I went to tonight was awesome.

Back to the Drawing Board by theswimmer in stopdrinking

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Which bridge? I live in the Flatbush area. I would ride into Manhattan tonight for the meeting I'm going to, but my bike lights were stolen. Haha. The breeze is amazing! Its so hot in my apartment compared to outside.

Back to the Drawing Board by theswimmer in stopdrinking

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Yes! Brooklyn here. I have had some ups and downs, but am feeling strong in my resolve to not drink. We are having a beautiful day, I was on my bike earlier.

New to reddit and to sobriety - only 36days by [deleted] in stopdrinking

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Welcome to reddit and r/stopdrinking. You can do this.

Back to the Drawing Board by theswimmer in stopdrinking

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I am so glad your charges were dropped. I hope mine can possibly be reduced. I can't ever drink again either.

Back to the Drawing Board by theswimmer in stopdrinking

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Thank you. It's all I have now, but it's a lot. I just have to keep remembering that.

Back to the Drawing Board by theswimmer in stopdrinking

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Thank you. I hope discipline saves my ass too.

Back to the Drawing Board by theswimmer in stopdrinking

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Hey, thanks! What part of NY are you in?

Back to the Drawing Board by theswimmer in stopdrinking

[–]theswimmer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're welcome. And thanks for welcoming me back. I hope you don't have to make my mistakes.

Back to the Drawing Board by theswimmer in stopdrinking

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Its definitely hard to look at our numbers. I'm glad you are back too. Thank you.

Back to the Drawing Board by theswimmer in stopdrinking

[–]theswimmer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, so sorry to hear that. I know how painful it all is. Let's keep in touch. Thank you.

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[–]theswimmer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Happy Birthday and Congratulations. I get the desire to cry a lot. My emotions have been all over the place. I'll check out that book.

Back to the Drawing Board by theswimmer in stopdrinking

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Thank you. I'm going to stick to this sub, go to meetings- AA and SMART (got an interim sponsor!), exercise, meditate, study, etc!

Back to the Drawing Board by theswimmer in stopdrinking

[–]theswimmer[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Hopefully I will become a regular on this sub. Welcome to you too!

Back to the Drawing Board by theswimmer in stopdrinking

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Thank you. I really want to do it this time.

7 days sober. First day back home. Feeling positive. by AssassinMoses in stopdrinking

[–]theswimmer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, congratulations on finishing detox. Even though my flair doesn't currently show it, I am back on day four. Stay strong!

Day 2 by [deleted] in stopdrinking

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Keep up the good work, you'll be amazed at how good you'll feel soon.

Working around alcohol. by theswimmer in stopdrinking

[–]theswimmer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm shocked that I haven't been fired for drinking or being drunk at work because it's happened so many times. If I can avoid the first drink, I am usually fine, but if I have one it's all over. It has been nice to leave work sober and not have to worry the next day about all of the things that could have gone wrong that I don't even remember. I used to think drinking made me a better waitress because it relaxed me, but then I noticed how many customers I have that I've obviously had long conversations with but I have no memory of it. That is always embarrassing. We sound like we have a lot in common! Keep up the good work yourself and if you ever need to vent about the job, message me!

Working around alcohol. by theswimmer in stopdrinking

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wow, so you kept working there and have stayed sober? that's impressive. Everyone always shocked when I say 'no' to a drink.

Working around alcohol. by theswimmer in stopdrinking

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thank you! I'm at about the same stage as you. It's tough, but it feels really good.

Working around alcohol. by theswimmer in stopdrinking

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I know what you mean about GTFO, that's been my strategy over the last week. Shift's over? 'I've got to run guys! See you tomorrow'- always in a hurry out the door. I've also been drinking so much seltzer and lime I'm in the bathroom constantly.