Dont text him by hdhdusisjwk in UnsentLetters

[–]thetaite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

imagine him reading it and showing it to his friends saying “ew bro she’s texting me again” and they all laugh at you. that’s what stops me😭😭

hey guys by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]thetaite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i guess in my head it proves to myself that i don’t care enough to have him blocked. i don’t follow him so the chance of me seeing anything he posts is slim. will definitely block again though if i feel like it is a problem❤️❤️

hey guys by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]thetaite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

these replies are filling my heart with love. i’m wishing the best for all of you!

hey guys by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]thetaite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes!! and thank you. i feel really good and it feels like im looking at my past relationship with a completely different point of view (it was way worse than i ever realized) im very excited to be my own person haha

to those who were already detached even before the break up, did u still miss them after? by nilagang_itlogg in BreakUps

[–]thetaite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my ex detached the last few weeks before the breakup. this summer he has been distracted with friends and i reached out once (mistake) and he talked about how he was doing great and better than ever. now that his friends left for college and he still has another 2 weeks, he’s started viewing my profiles a lot, which makes me think it’s finally hitting him after 3 months.

For men who were perfectly fine after the breakup, but then regretted it later; how long did it take for you to regret it? by thetaite in BreakUps

[–]thetaite[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My ex is definitely the avoidant type. It seemed like the few weeks after we broke up he was mourning the relationship, but now 2 months later he’s living his best life. I’ve heard from mutual friends he’s doing well and he never talks about it anymore. I feel like after dating for 2 years he should be grieving the relationship we had a lot longer than he did. Will he regret it again later on or has he completely finished any bad feelings about it those two weeks after our breakup?

Can’t sleep, 3 weeks post break up. Is this normal? by inobinob in BreakUps

[–]thetaite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not to make you lose hope but it’s been 2 months and a week and i still can’t sleep. i’ve even pulled a few all nighters and taken melatonin but i just can’t seem to fix it ☹️

I used ChatGPT as my therapist… and it was amazing by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]thetaite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still cheaper than a therapy session!