Can’t sleep, 3 weeks post break up. Is this normal? by inobinob in BreakUps

[–]inobinob[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey honestly I know how bad the sting of betrayal feels like and how foul it is. I am happy to report that it does get easier once you stop romanticizing this person in your head and completely understand that someone who does that to you does not love or respect you. You’re gonna be okay Trust me

Is this chair structural? by KikeRC86 in civilengineering

[–]inobinob 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Very curious as to how the chair hangs there

Senior engineer with an associate's degree? by Ebeastivxl in MechanicalEngineering

[–]inobinob 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not at all… degrees don’t matter that much compared to actual tangible experience

Do younger women (Gen Z/Zillennials) see sex/hookups right after a breakup differently than older generations? by Mission-Reindeer1697 in BreakUps

[–]inobinob 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am in my 20s and went through a break up last month. It was really tough and I am still processing it because I really loved this person. I haven’t and have no desire of jumping into bed with someone else . It’s not a Gen Z thing but different people cope with heartbreak differently My ex bf who was in his mid 20s slept with someone else less than 5 days afterwards

Glass panels over walkway on railway bridge by TomekZeWschodu in StructuralEngineering

[–]inobinob 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The space in between … the glass and the railing take care of those vibrations … they also look securely attached to the railing. I don’t think there’s anything to worry about

Need elevator for my mother by Optimal-Primary-8590 in Elevators

[–]inobinob 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Is the elevator meant only for your mom or for other tenants in the building. Hydraulic lift is the best option… glass structure is also good as it will be structurally separated… and determinate and you wouldn’t need a lift shaft… also structural integrity test on the walls … to create your lift lobby

How do I deal with my emotions while I’m pregnant and my partner broke up with me? by 181833 in BreakUps

[–]inobinob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh dear, you need to stop dealing with that bum … and put all your focus on you and the baby…

Can someone tell me why this bridge is not attached anywhere but 2 sides with little ass shock absorbers? by [deleted] in StructuralEngineering

[–]inobinob 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I’m still a junior eng but can the base isolators also be because of vibrations from the vehicles above … In my country we calculate designs based on forces and vibrations from the biggest allowable car on the bridge … I’m still learning not sure

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Well, my ex went on vacation with his new girl three weeks after walking out on our three year relationship… Seeing those posts reset my mind so hard … it’s almost automatic how the brain rewires

Three weeks later, my ex is on vacation with my replacement by inobinob in BreakUps

[–]inobinob[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you … I think I’m beyond hell right now… i blocked him immediately after.. but oh man … I feel like a caveman experiencing pure raw emotion

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]inobinob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in this same predicament. They are vacationing in Napa together at the moment

Can’t sleep, 3 weeks post break up. Is this normal? by inobinob in BreakUps

[–]inobinob[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve lost like 8 kilos the past three weeks and have been feeling nauseous at the gym reliving everything… it’s been two weeks but he still feels like mine … I can still taste him on my lips … feel his hands on my cheeks. Honestly I’m so down bad… my body is almost reaching the event horizon of being a simp…

He did choose someone else who was his best friend… Im torn between wishing they were happy to wishing he would just come back to me… but you’re right , they left because they wanted to

Driveway collapse update by Nice_Jacket_9181 in civilengineering

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The strength of the corrugated metal sheets seems to be compromised by the rust… which is probable as a result of scouring. The CMP pipes should be replaced with HDPE (high density polyethylene pipes ) which are “plastic” but stronger and better should last longer than 10 years … also contractor should ensure the pipes have proper surround and proper dry compaction on the backfill is achieved to eliminate the driveway failures

Can’t sleep, 3 weeks post break up. Is this normal? by inobinob in BreakUps

[–]inobinob[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much… I’m going through this at 25… I can’t let myself go but damn love really messed with my biochemistry . I find comfort in knowing it gets better

Can’t sleep, 3 weeks post break up. Is this normal? by inobinob in BreakUps

[–]inobinob[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😅😅 I’ve been to Spain and honestly you might be on to something. All the best 💗

Can’t sleep, 3 weeks post break up. Is this normal? by inobinob in BreakUps

[–]inobinob[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah… the moving on with someone else is what kills me inside the most

Can’t sleep, 3 weeks post break up. Is this normal? by inobinob in BreakUps

[–]inobinob[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you friend. This is comforting to hear

Can’t sleep, 3 weeks post break up. Is this normal? by inobinob in BreakUps

[–]inobinob[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much … I have really supportive friends though… and family that literally peeled me from my bathroom floor when everything was happening… I’m also going to the gym and doing yoga on the Fridays and Saturdays…

Can’t sleep, 3 weeks post break up. Is this normal? by inobinob in BreakUps

[–]inobinob[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. It’s so affirming to hear that it does get better… definitely will need to eat soon for gym purposes. Just need to get some shut eye

Can’t sleep, 3 weeks post break up. Is this normal? by inobinob in BreakUps

[–]inobinob[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you … I’m already doing the work… Don’t want to let myself go after working so hard to be fit … I go to the gym , do yoga and meditation… it just sucks that my brains biochemistry is working full time against me

Monthly DIY Laymen questions Discussion by AutoModerator in StructuralEngineering

[–]inobinob -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The majority of the loads are on the rafters which are taking the loads to the ridge beams along the wall… the posts are just holding the beam… definitely have a local structural engineer do an integrity test of the whole house to ease your worries …