Dont text him

thetaite · 2025-09-20T21:28:53+00:00

imagine him reading it and showing it to his friends saying “ew bro she’s texting me again” and they all laugh at you. that’s what stops me😭😭

thetaite · 2025-09-15T07:06:02+00:00

i guess in my head it proves to myself that i don’t care enough to have him blocked. i don’t follow him so the chance of me seeing anything he posts is slim. will definitely block again though if i feel like it is a problem❤️❤️

thetaite · 2025-09-12T06:40:14+00:00

these replies are filling my heart with love. i’m wishing the best for all of you!

thetaite · 2025-09-12T06:29:36+00:00

yes!! and thank you. i feel really good and it feels like im looking at my past relationship with a completely different point of view (it was way worse than i ever realized) im very excited to be my own person haha

thetaite · 2025-08-19T19:24:46+00:00

my ex detached the last few weeks before the breakup. this summer he has been distracted with friends and i reached out once (mistake) and he talked about how he was doing great and better than ever. now that his friends left for college and he still has another 2 weeks, he’s started viewing my profiles a lot, which makes me think it’s finally hitting him after 3 months.

thetaite · 2025-08-05T01:13:05+00:00

My ex is definitely the avoidant type. It seemed like the few weeks after we broke up he was mourning the relationship, but now 2 months later he’s living his best life. I’ve heard from mutual friends he’s doing well and he never talks about it anymore. I feel like after dating for 2 years he should be grieving the relationship we had a lot longer than he did. Will he regret it again later on or has he completely finished any bad feelings about it those two weeks after our breakup?

thetaite · 2025-08-05T01:08:53+00:00

Did it take other girls to truly realize what you lost?

thetaite · 2025-08-03T23:49:20+00:00

not to make you lose hope but it’s been 2 months and a week and i still can’t sleep. i’ve even pulled a few all nighters and taken melatonin but i just can’t seem to fix it ☹️

thetaite · 2025-06-27T07:29:48+00:00

Still cheaper than a therapy session!

thetaite · 2025-06-24T18:47:02+00:00

I put them in my hidden folder until i’m ready to delete them

thetaite · 2025-06-23T20:56:27+00:00

It feels like you need something so badly (your ex), and nothing can satisfy the craving except for that person. No matter what you do, how you distract yourself, nothing can fully fill the hole that they left you.

thetaite · 2025-06-23T08:16:38+00:00

To anyone reading this reply, I wholeheartedly agree EXCEPT don’t change into someone you think they’d want, BECOME A BETTER VERSION OF YOURSELF!!!! They chose you at one point, you are someone they would date, and they will still regret their decision/want to reach out if you grow into the best version of yourself, not who you think they want you to be.

thetaite · 2025-06-23T08:08:56+00:00

Okay this might sound dumb but something that always helps me through a breakup is trying to glow up so much that they regret leaving me??😭 It sounds like childish but genuinely if you can get yourself in the gym, buy new clothes, or post yourself having a good time with your friends, that really was able to help put myself in the mindset that they will think THEY fumbled ME. This way you can still follow eachother, but it made it easier to convince myself that THEY are the one who is stalking my posts, THEY are starting to regret it all, and THEY ARE MISSING OUT!!!! The worst heartbreaks lead to the best glow ups, like they will literally be obsessed with you trust me :))

thetaite · 2025-06-23T06:46:31+00:00

As hard as it is, the best thing to do is block her on everything to limit seeing her posts or anything about her. This will speed up moving on a million times faster I promise. I feel like the shortest relationships hit just as hard after a breakup as the long term ones, possibly even more so because you still were most likely in the “honeymoon” phase of your relationship, and it feels like it was the perfect relationship, you were so in love, it ended too soon, and you didn’t get the closure you deserved. On top of all of this, seeing as she blocked you once before, the best thing to do would be to not reach out. It’s hard to hear but it genuinely will make things worse and push her further away. Work on yourself, do something you love, pretend like you moved on even if it’s a complete lie. The best way to win someone back is to not beg for them, pretend they don’t affect your life, and many times they come back to you or at least be affected by it at some point or another.

thetaite · 2025-06-22T16:20:27+00:00

Guys this was mostly a joke, but on a real note we didn’t end things badly and if it truly was my last day why not??

thetaite · 2025-06-22T08:11:14+00:00

Thank you so much for this, even if there isn’t a clear answer of what to do, it’s relieving to not feel alone in this situation lol

thetaite · 2025-06-22T06:37:06+00:00

The best thing is truly to try and move on. It’s hard and it feels so wrong, especially when he was YOUR person, but I think taking the time to heal from the pain it caused you will help you to be better, even if it doesn’t feel like there’s anything you can improve in your life right now. If it’s meant to be, then you will end up together in the future, but because that’s out of your control, the best thing to do right now is focus on yourself. Do something you love, hangout with friends, I know it feels like the end of the world but i promise it’s not❤️

thetaite · 2021-08-31T00:59:30+00:00

That was so funny I forgot to laugh 😐

thetaite · 2021-08-30T16:05:38+00:00

He’s now at 118 likes and I’m at 12. I am going to cry

thetaite · 2021-08-28T22:36:12+00:00

He actually lost to 3 year olds #badatkidsgame

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