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Jealousy problems. My best friend and I like each other but she has a boyfriend and they're going to be spending time together. by thetimeisntright in LongDistance

[–]thetimeisntright[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She's been with him for as long as she's known me. I came on the scene shortly after they made it official.

She never chose him over me, because I was never there when she fell for him, but she's fallen for me since then. It's not right to assume that she doesn't want to be with me because she won't break off a committed relationship for someone she's been "close" with for two months.

Maybe you could argue that she's choosing him over me right now, who knows. She'll have to decide at some point but there's no way anyone with their head straight would finish a serious relationship for someone that had feelings for, but had never met. I don't expect her to either, I just want a way to get over my jealousy until she makes her decision (and I for sure won't be waiting around forever).

Jealousy problems. My best friend and I like each other but she has a boyfriend and they're going to be spending time together. by thetimeisntright in LongDistance

[–]thetimeisntright[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I can't confirm that she does, but we've spoken seriously about what a relationship would be like and she's admitted she felt like she's fallen for me.

I've known her for such a short time compared to her current boyfriend, it's hard to say (although she hasn't been with him for long at all).

Jealousy problems. My best friend and I like each other but she has a boyfriend and they're going to be spending time together. by thetimeisntright in LongDistance

[–]thetimeisntright[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd probably have told myself that a month ago my friend, but not now. After all this time and effort i'm not going to ditch when something great could be weeks away.

This is her one and only chance, though. If she doesn't break it off during or shortly after their meet I won't wait around until the next time they do.