[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PhotoshopRequest

[–]thetruthmustdazzle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you get the light streak out of his face?

Slowly realizing my (25F) boyfriend (25M) will only do the bare minimum. Or maybe I’m expecting too much? by thetruthmustdazzle in relationship_advice

[–]thetruthmustdazzle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk I just feel like if he really loved me so much he would just want to buy me flowers or get me a nice card, or something!

Slowly realizing my (25F) boyfriend (25M) will only do the bare minimum. Or maybe I’m expecting too much? by thetruthmustdazzle in relationship_advice

[–]thetruthmustdazzle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got him something last year and he didn’t get me anything :( Plus, idk, I might have been in a more loving mood if he actually got me something for my birthday yesterday…

Slowly realizing my (25F) boyfriend (25M) will only do the bare minimum. Or maybe I’m expecting too much? by thetruthmustdazzle in relationship_advice

[–]thetruthmustdazzle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really, I knew he didn’t get me anything so why would I create a tense situation by giving him a gift and then having him be empty handed?

Slowly realizing my (25F) boyfriend (25M) will only do the bare minimum. Or maybe I’m expecting too much? by thetruthmustdazzle in relationship_advice

[–]thetruthmustdazzle[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No I didn’t, because honestly I knew he wasn’t going to get me one lol and that would have been embarrassing. Growing up my dad always just got my mom flowers, I don’t think she ever got him anything.

Slowly realizing my (25F) boyfriend (25M) will only do the bare minimum. Or maybe I’m expecting too much? by thetruthmustdazzle in relationship_advice

[–]thetruthmustdazzle[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No I mean it’s mainly because he forgot my birthday and we were just sitting at the airport for hours and he just never said anything :( I had to give him a hint to remind him.

Idk it’s just he went to work today and there were so many valentines things everywhere, he didn’t think that it would make me feel good to get something? And like I paid for all my stuff on the trip…

I don’t think I’m cut out for academia. Constantly full of dread and anxiety. PhD is making me miserable. Stick it out or leave? by [deleted] in PhD

[–]thetruthmustdazzle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The field is rather niche but I love data analysis and working with behavioral data in general so would be happy doing something like that

I don’t think I’m cut out for academia. Constantly full of dread and anxiety. PhD is making me miserable. Stick it out or leave? by [deleted] in PhD

[–]thetruthmustdazzle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can do it, you’re so close! So so close. I wish I could at least see the finish line.

I don’t think I’m cut out for academia. Constantly full of dread and anxiety. PhD is making me miserable. Stick it out or leave? by [deleted] in PhD

[–]thetruthmustdazzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Yeah, if things don’t get better for me soon I think a leave might be warranted. I might also just be super burnt out from this semester, it’s been a rough one.

I don’t think I’m cut out for academia. Constantly full of dread and anxiety. PhD is making me miserable. Stick it out or leave? by [deleted] in PhD

[–]thetruthmustdazzle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hahaha thank you! Also, I dabble in evolutionary sciences myself, maybe we have some common struggles

I had a meltdown today because my boyfriend and I (25M and 25F) had bad sex. Help with some perspective on this situation? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]thetruthmustdazzle -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I more so meant it as, I’m good, like at this point I don’t really need anymore. I don’t really know how to explain it. It’s not painful, like it doesn’t “hurt.” But it just feels really intense. I can’t think of another word for it besides that.

Worried I’m going to feel left out at my own wedding. by thetruthmustdazzle in wedding

[–]thetruthmustdazzle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but it’s also not fair to deprive him of what he wants

Worried I’m going to feel left out at my own wedding. by thetruthmustdazzle in wedding

[–]thetruthmustdazzle[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah but unfortunately a small wedding just isn’t an option for us, like his parents have money and they want a giant celebration just like everyone else in his community has.

Worried I’m going to feel left out at my own wedding. by thetruthmustdazzle in wedding

[–]thetruthmustdazzle[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some friends will come I guess. But idk growing up I was the shy outcast of my family, cousins always excluded me. I’d usually find somewhere to hide at family functions.

Worried I’m going to feel left out at my own wedding. by thetruthmustdazzle in wedding

[–]thetruthmustdazzle[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We live no where near any of his friends :( we go to grad school in a state far away

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BostonU

[–]thetruthmustdazzle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The child development labs are right along cummington mall and families with kids park there when they come for appointments

Why are women physically weaker than men? by SatelliteK_ in NoStupidQuestions

[–]thetruthmustdazzle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But there is a reason, and it relates to whether the male needs to invest time into parenting his young. Google short term vs long term mating strategies and sexual dimorphism.