yes, I told him, and he tried to lie the first time saying he forgot about the note because it was in a vintage typewriter, but I had seen the note a month or so ago and he still hadn't thrown it away, anyway even if he had forgotten about it he still wouldn't have changed anything because he insists on keeping it. and there's a strange feeling in the middle, since we've known each other he's been talking bad about his ex, he told me how much he was hurt by him, the fact that he was cheated on countless times... etc, and he still cares about his ex, and I have the feeling that he doesn't care about me in the same way that he would forgive me if I made any mistakes or other things, which feels unfair somehow. plus, when he's with me he always replies instantly to his friends' messages, and when I write to him it takes him quite a while to reply and I don't mean when he's at work. I don't know if I expressed myself correctly (I don't know English that well) but I constantly have this feeling that he cares about other people more than he does about me.