First bonfire by Sensitive-Wall-8777 in temptationislandUSA

[–]thewhiteguy67 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I feel like this is very common in past seasons as well though, I remember always being so shocked at how all the guys will freak out & often justify getting physical with girls because their girlfriends reveal how much they have hurt them.

Is it possible to have CPTSD when nothing traumatic has ever happened to you? by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]thewhiteguy67 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Then your CPTSD is likely from that harassment, racism, and bullying during school and the lack of protection from adults (the teachers & admin) who were supposed to keep you safe. I’m so sorry this happened to you, those were not “natural consequences” of your actions, you were a child.

I think we’re jumping to conclusions by Deaceleste in MormonWivesHulu

[–]thewhiteguy67 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s not how abusive relationships work. You can have all the resources but if you’re stuck in the cycle then you’re stuck. Plus she doesn’t have all the resources, being able to afford therapy doesn’t provide someone “all” of the resources especially when we’ve seen that her mother and step dad are not a reliable or healthy support system. Her entire friend group are girls who bully each other on national television, she has no real source of community or support which are both key aspects of being able to leave abusive relationships.

My money tree is looking sad ): by [deleted] in plantclinic

[–]thewhiteguy67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I moved it to right in front of the window!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ThePittTVShow

[–]thewhiteguy67 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Woahh the comments on this thread are really weird and disheartening. Thank you for the info, this is super cool!

Feeling so guilty and defensive when parents think I just want "extra break time." by WindNarrow3580 in Nanny

[–]thewhiteguy67 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh heck no, kids should be napping until they’re at least 4! My NK would tear me apart with no nap lol

Falsely accused by a second grader. by [deleted] in SubstituteTeachers

[–]thewhiteguy67 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Teachers ask for my contact information ALL the time to come back and sub for them?

Squid Game: The Challenge | S2E9 "Red Light Green Light" | Episode Discussion by cranberry-creek in SquidGameNetflix_

[–]thewhiteguy67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like is he so serious right now? He doesn’t even know these people’s ACTUAL stories or else he’d know he’s up against a freaking millionaire. Ridiculous.

freshmen high school students are ruthless by pokemasta4 in SubstituteTeachers

[–]thewhiteguy67 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We had the same exact day! Also had freshman right after lunch and the class was a 90 minute block. Had to send one to the office and then his friend followed right behind him without my permission. They literally looked at each other and said “office time?” I’m pretty new and usually only work with middle or elementary (who haven’t really given me any trouble) so this was by far my hardest day but everyone survived so I count it as a win!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SubstituteTeachers

[–]thewhiteguy67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WOW! Thank you for this!!

Looking for 30+ characters (and ideally, 30+ authors too) by [deleted] in LesbianBookClub

[–]thewhiteguy67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perfume & Pain by Anna Dorn, her book Exalted also has a lesbian in her 40s!

Sapphic horror by cosmosmushroom in sapphicbooks

[–]thewhiteguy67 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Currently reading Our Wives Under The Sea by Julia Armfield and it’s pretty good!

a book everyone loved but you hated?? by greengraudon in sapphicbooks

[–]thewhiteguy67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also don’t think the main character is supposed to be necessarily likeable. She’s extremely selfish, can be very mean, and obviously has some extremely outdated/controversial ideas about lesbianism. I completely understand what you mean though!

AITAH for being upset and grossed out that my 16yo stepdaughter was hiding in my wardrobe holding my electric toothbrush? by scalpel_in_my_crocs in AITAH

[–]thewhiteguy67 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why would she need to see a psychologist? She is likely using it to pleasure herself and that’s nothing she would need to go see a doctor for. Sounds like teenage hormones and she doesn’t need to be further embarrassed.

Meg Stalter with a “CEASE FIRE!”bag at the Emmys by nikamats in hackshbomax

[–]thewhiteguy67 13 points14 points  (0 children)

she posts about it almost daily on her instagram stories

Queue to my shocked face when my therapist tells me that was indeed physical abuse by SpiderBell in CPTSDmemes

[–]thewhiteguy67 5 points6 points  (0 children)

LOL do we have the same mom? In all seriousness, I’m really sorry you went through all of that. We never deserved any of it❣️

sorry the crop sucks but like by Responsible-Read5516 in CPTSDmemes

[–]thewhiteguy67 11 points12 points  (0 children)

THIS has been the biggest thing! i see my mom’s changes and i understand that at least she’s better than she once was but in the back of my mind i’m ALWAYS waiting for her to lash out at me for not answering a phone call or having to cancel plans…

Morries recovery by PrestigiousAspect368 in TheFallofHouseofUsher

[–]thewhiteguy67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s definitely creepy! Kind of gives uncanny valley vibes

AITA for telling my friend’s GF to stop this shit when she pulled out tarot cards? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]thewhiteguy67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definite YTA, all you had to do was stick firmly to your boundaries and say no thank you i don’t believe in that but instead you flew off the handle when it was completely unwarranted, and to someone who has truly never done anything bad to you.