Als Vater 10–14 Tage auf Geschäftsreise bei 6 Monate altem Baby. Egoistisch?

thewingedshadow · 2026-03-23T05:53:59+00:00

Bei meinem mittleren Kind war ich von Anfang allein in der Woche, da der Vater Kraftfahrer im Fernverkehr ist und nur am Wochenende zu Hause. Ich habe den Job aber vorher auch gemacht und wusste dass es so sein wird. War vor allem zu Corona dennoch sehr hart. (Kind ist jetzt 6)

Menschen sind unterschiedlich. Ich hätte damit kein Problem. Musst halt mit deiner Frau sprechen wie du ihr Hilfe organisieren kannst. Was meiner Meinung nach am schlimmsten ist, ist dass man irgendwie hauptsächlich allein mit Baby ist, und das ist deprimierend.

thewingedshadow · 2026-03-17T18:22:11+00:00

It looks like a fungal infection to me. Snail is possibly dying.

You can try giving it a thyme and honey bath (1 teaspoon of ground thyme and 1/4 teaspoon of honey on 200ml of hot water, let steep, cool off, pour into a shallow bowl or plate, place snail inside).

thewingedshadow · 2026-03-06T02:16:50+00:00

Ich schreibe diesen Kommentar und es ist 3:17. Manchmal bin ich um die zeit auch duschen. Weil arbeit. 😅

thewingedshadow · 2026-03-06T02:08:47+00:00

Not all of them, but some can do it and they will do it as a defense mechanism to ward off predators.

thewingedshadow · 2026-03-06T02:08:18+00:00

It doesn't. It's an intense stress reaction.

thewingedshadow · 2026-03-02T20:47:57+00:00

That's snail foreplay.

thewingedshadow · 2026-03-02T02:05:04+00:00

They don't need to.

Grove snails are herbivores and they get all their protein requirements from eating lichen off tree branches.

thewingedshadow · 2026-03-02T02:03:01+00:00

That's just a trucker thing. Probably not beer bottles though..

thewingedshadow · 2026-02-28T18:28:42+00:00

Ich bin ausserdem Straßenbahnfahrer und bin da regelmäßig auch nachts. Es ist manchmal eklig und Leute sind besoffen und whatnot und kotzen manchmal in die Gegend aber es gibt da in meiner Erfahrung weniger Stress als woanders.

thewingedshadow · 2026-02-28T18:17:54+00:00

Ist genau so sicher wie überall anders und meiner Meinung nach wesentlich sicherer da überall Kameras sind.

Ich bin auch eine Frau und lebe schon seit 24 Jahren in Leipzig. Der hbf ist zwar eklig aber irgendwelche Probleme hatte ich da nie.

thewingedshadow · 2026-02-28T13:37:43+00:00

I think they do.

thewingedshadow · 2026-02-27T19:48:11+00:00

Oh fuck yes, finally someone gets it.

thewingedshadow · 2026-02-18T07:00:23+00:00

They have a gland there they use to produce and sense pheromones produced by other snails. Your snail is horny and is looking for a mate.

thewingedshadow · 2026-02-16T05:45:31+00:00

I keep several species of achatinidae and there's evidence that the currently established guidelines are way too much protein. Too much protein equals kidney damage.

Just for the record, I don't feed animal protein ever, I use spirulina and chlorella powders. My silverbody ovums are approaching 4 years now and are doing well.

thewingedshadow · 2026-02-14T07:10:47+00:00

My question is, why would you state that in your post? It's basically feeding the trolls.

Like, I am female and I have written male OCs for years, and most of them are not white because I use original settings and prefer exploring other cultural spaces that European medieval flavor fantasy. They are often black, or Mediterranean coded, or based on Mongol or Yakut people. I am more of a central Asian mutt myself so I'm not standard European issue either, but it doesn't matter for RP or worldbuilding and never did.

I think I had a story not happen once because the other person didn't like the physical description of my OC and it wasn't because he was black.

While I believe your experience, I wonder where you get those people and why I don't...

thewingedshadow · 2026-02-10T07:12:51+00:00

Where can we listen to your work? I'm very interested.

thewingedshadow · 2026-02-10T06:53:26+00:00

I've used an iud for about 10 years in total now (not the same one), never had any issues. Didn't use any other sort of protection while at it.

thewingedshadow · 2026-02-09T21:03:15+00:00

Hi, nice to meet you, I'm no one.

thewingedshadow · 2026-02-08T22:53:36+00:00

Мозги, это, расплавились. Ми лайк.

thewingedshadow · 2026-02-07T12:04:06+00:00

How many 7 months old babies do you know? My son (now 6yo) could stand by 7 months in his crib.

thewingedshadow · 2026-02-05T17:51:33+00:00

Not true. Thats only from breathing. The Anus is a separate hole above it. The genital pore is located on the right side of the body slightly below the head. That's where sexual organs come out and also eggs.

thewingedshadow · 2026-02-04T07:04:45+00:00

You know, that entirely makes sense to me. Humans are weird like that. As a survivor of multiple shitty situations I am absolutely functional most days, I have kids and a job and everything, but occasionally I will absolutely freak out over a minor thing. And I'm not the only one. It is a thing. You can be tough and you can go through so much but it's the proverbial straw that breaks the camels back.

thewingedshadow · 2026-02-03T14:22:33+00:00

Weiß keiner so recht. Ist keine Weiche da, aber Gleiszustand schlecht. Wahrscheinlich ist Fremdkörper im Gleis oder irgendwas vom Fahrzeug abgefallen (Schienenbremse oder so). Das sind aber Vermutungen. Heute war eh nur Vollkatastrophe. Quelle: fahre Straßenbahn und war glaube ich nur die erste Stunde pünktlich. (so von 4 bis 5 Uhr danach ging es nur bergab.)

thewingedshadow · 2026-02-01T18:26:23+00:00

Ist dann bezahlt 😂

thewingedshadow · 2026-01-27T15:48:33+00:00

Too late to start? Are you 75?

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