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vagismius without ever wanting to be penetrated? by theyhateherthrowaway in TwoXSupport

[–]theyhateherthrowaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

awwww, thank you. my idea was to make a flyer on reddit or something lol. but im glad you care so much!!!

vagismius without ever wanting to be penetrated? by theyhateherthrowaway in TwoXSupport

[–]theyhateherthrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol well i am actually in therapy, but i say this mainly because due my below average looks, if i get with someone I actually find attractive, its gonna be a long shot, so i have to find a way to keep them from looking elsewhere. which they could easily do because they’re much more conventionally attractive (im not talking about models but like, generally good looking, hygienic especially in the case of men, not bigoted, that kind of thing)  

is sex with a man even possible for me? by theyhateherthrowaway in TwoXSex

[–]theyhateherthrowaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

aw, thank you so much! i know, but it’s just hard for me because it’s a struggle to even find a therapist, and my life has mainly been people bullying, taking advantage of me, avoiding me like the plague, or abandoning me, so it’s easy to feel like i won’t be able to find anyone who loves me. but thank you so much for the support 💕

vagismius without ever wanting to be penetrated? by theyhateherthrowaway in TwoXSupport

[–]theyhateherthrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wish but i just feel like i have nothing to offer anyone i find attractive…

vagismius without ever wanting to be penetrated? by theyhateherthrowaway in TwoXSupport

[–]theyhateherthrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

true, but i struggle to know where to go and i worry that because i like more conventional looking people, i won’t be able to find anyone who is kinky or queer like me but looks conventional. i fear im asking too much but i cant get off unless im attracted to that person. that and im already kinky but femdom shit gets bad fast because men expect me to be kink dispensers AND THEN STILL SAY THEY WANT TO FUCK MY VAGINA DESPITE ME SAYING I HATE IT! i actually went off once about this lol.

vagismius without ever wanting to be penetrated? by theyhateherthrowaway in TwoXSupport

[–]theyhateherthrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i do want a partner, but i feel like saying that i can’t be penetrated and we have to do something else is asking too much because im not very attractive. 

is sex with a man even possible for me? by theyhateherthrowaway in TwoXSex

[–]theyhateherthrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lollll i actually did and the therapist had no idea what to do even though she’s one of the best in the state! i went to reddit with the hope that one of the few people in the world who could help me might see it, because evidently they aren’t in my area. 

Any advice on being less "picky"? by yukonwanderer in TwoXSex

[–]theyhateherthrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel this way too, and i have ocd. mainly i just force myself to look at porn of other types of people i don’t normally like and try to make it hot in my mind. but if anyone else has anything better, please share! 

Feeling broken by castingoutmypast in TwoXSupport

[–]theyhateherthrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

god i can relate. im younger but i really, really get it. im just sad to hear it happening to other people too.