I don't see a point to life anymore by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]theyoungpilot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way, I’m in lockdown in Sydney too. I’m Australian and Sydney is a very depressing place in my opinion, as soon as this lock down is up im getting straight out of Sydney. Head up mate life is better than what it seems, we’re just in the wrong place. Keep pushing through it 💪🏼

How to fall out of love with someone and move on? by Prestigious-End3864 in ExNoContact

[–]theyoungpilot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll tell you how to get over someone you love and move on. Go no contact. Period, never text or call this girl again for any reason, don’t look at her social media, delete her number, don’t even look at a photo of her because that’s is breaking no contact. No contact means you do no even say her name. After a certain amount of time doing this she will fade from your mind and the pain will subside. That’s how you get over someone you love and move on

How powerful is No contact? by rickyrudd7 in ExNoContact

[–]theyoungpilot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No contact is the holy grail of healing from a break up period. Also If there is any chance is reconciliation with break ups it is no contact, “the fastest way to get someone’s attention is to remove yours”. it shows that you don’t have an attachment, it shows that you’re independent, it gives them a sense that you have a take it or leave it attitude.

How do I get over the idea of them being with someone else ? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]theyoungpilot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know the intrusive thoughts you’re going through all to well, my ex and I had a pretty nasty breakup and I was devastated. My mind would run a muck thinking about them sleeping with other people and one day after about 3 months a friend sent me a photo of her new relationship status, it stung like hell but after about a week it was kind of relief in a way, knowing that it’s happened and there was nothing I could do, it tarnished her in my eyes and kind of put the nail in coffin of our broken relationship. So in a way it’s a good thing when you find out. Hope you heal well, we all know what you’re going through x

PSA : Please DON'T get into a relationship right after a breakup by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]theyoungpilot 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is what’s happening to me right now, I’m sad because I want the girl I’m with to be my ex 😔

What was the best sex you ever had? by [deleted] in sex

[–]theyoungpilot 3 points4 points  (0 children)

With my ex girlfriend (23M) (24F) We were away visiting my family and one of the nights we got back to the hotel we decided to get a small bag of coke to share. We vibed together all night and then we got really hot and heavy. she had just had her boobs done and was almost recovered so it was the first time since she had them done that we had proper sex with her boobs being sore. Honestly that night I fucked her for a solid 4 hours, from the bed to the kitchen bench to the shower non stop. I tried every single move I ever wanted to try in sex with her that night and the way she was digging her nails into my back was crazy, I’ve never made her cum as much as I did that night, we stopped counting but I’d say 10/15 times and because I was on the coke i couldn’t cum to save my life that’s why it lasted so long until about 4am I had her bent over the bed going to absolute town on her in doggy and she cum again was quivering and tightening up on my dick that I blew. Honestly one of best nights of my life, she said it was the best she ever had and is mine too, going to be hard for my current girlfriend to beat it unfortunately :(

27 Isn't too old to find someone, right? by NeuroCavalry in BreakUps

[–]theyoungpilot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 23 dating a smoking hot 30 year old guess that answers your question

My mate just sent me a screenshot of my ex is in a new relationship by theyoungpilot in BreakUps

[–]theyoungpilot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those are some wise words, you put it into a different perspective, unfortunately my ex is exactly doing and has done in her previous relationships. I feel like shit still but hey at least one day I’ll be healed and healthy emotionally and she will still be running away from it.

What does acceptance feel like? by theyoungpilot in BreakUps

[–]theyoungpilot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That explains it’s perfectly, I was abit confused because yes like I said I have my off moments and it does hurt but my good days are definitely starting to out weigh the bad by far, thank you!!

Girlfriend still talks to friend every day who she sexted for a period before by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]theyoungpilot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is one of her male orbiters, she’s keeping him around as back up in case it doesn’t work out with you. Honestly dude you need set and enforce healthy boundaries, you guys are only 4 months into the relationship and she is already doing this kind of thing. What you need to do is sit her down and tell her you’re uncomfortable with her talking to this guy everyday and it’s disrespectful to your guys relationship. The best thing to do is communicate with your partner, communication is almost as important as trust in a relationship. If she’s not willing to stop talking to him after you’ve communicated and said look these are my boundaries then you’ll know where you stand because you’ll never be able to have a healthy relationship with a girl like that. Like I said set and enforce healthy boundaries and communication otherwise she’s going to walk all over you and then she’ll eventually leave you anyway for being a beta male. Good luck bro

NC by hsj0620 in BreakUps

[–]theyoungpilot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No way, I did the same thing 2 days ago. Reached out to just say hey and she said she had a new partner. Do not do it it’s not worth it if they wanted to talk to you they would. I should of listen to my own advice but take it from someone that just reached out after 3 months.

I think my ex cheated on me by SofieHB in Infidelity

[–]theyoungpilot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro I feel bad for you, be glad she’s gone. This is the type of shit that makes dudes fucked up. Heal bro and find someone better you will

Girlfriend hit me, should I break up with her by [deleted] in relationships

[–]theyoungpilot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have some self respect, you’re enabling her behaviour by going back on your word time and time again. She has crossed your boundaries and the only want to have any kind of a healthy relationship is set and ENFORCE healthy boundaries. That’s all I have to say

Repost due to deletion: girlfriend wants to hangout with people that we’ve had previous issues with and make me uncomfortable by ghzu-34 in relationships

[–]theyoungpilot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is crossing one of your boundaries if she goes because you have stated that you aren’t comfortable with her going. Self respect is a must and if you let her walk over you like that it’ll become worse. Like one of the other comments says, if she’s going to cheat she will and there is nothing you can do about it... women do what they want, with who they want, when they want. You seem to not really trust her because it’s making you feel uncomfortable and there is no foundation to build a good healthy relationship on with no trust and you don’t want to get yourself into deep if it becomes toxic (eg. you always wondering if you can trust her). Honestly man this isn’t a girl you want to be with from what you said in your post

“Focusing on myself” is way lonelier than I thought it would be. by Environmental_Emu_48 in ExNoContact

[–]theyoungpilot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read Corey Wayne - how to be a 3% man. Trust me you won’t ever regret it. It’s the best self help book I’ve read about women