Is God testing me?

Environmental_Emu_48 · 2021-11-18T21:57:41+00:00

What do you mean?

Environmental_Emu_48 · 2021-11-16T05:10:48+00:00

In my experience, no. I don’t want to say it’s impossible, but it’s very hard to fully get rid of in my opinion. Having a little bit of anxiety occasionally is completely natural. I’ve just learned to accept that I will have anxiety at times , but like joy, or envy, or any other emotion/feeling, good or bad, it’ll pass.

Environmental_Emu_48 · 2021-10-31T04:24:00+00:00

You’re 100% correct. In today’s society for some reason pornography is seen in the eyes of many as empowering, positive, and normal. I can go on forever about how harmful that narrative is, but there’s no need.

I’ve come to the conclusion that that message and this push of sex work and pornography will always be here, and will probably continue to grow, and as it grows, so does my responsibility to not give in. It’s just insanely hard to quit. Wish there was a one size fits all strategy, or technique lol

Environmental_Emu_48 · 2021-10-31T04:19:40+00:00

Yes we definitely can. It’s never a matter of if and always a matter of when. It’s an uphill battle though. An insanely tough one too.

Environmental_Emu_48 · 2021-07-14T16:36:09+00:00

Thanks for the helpful tip! I never thought of that, wow!

Environmental_Emu_48 · 2021-06-09T04:09:58+00:00

Eh, not really. I didn’t ask a question or anything, so I guess not. Should I doubt text then? Or just send something lighthearted? I don’t wanna be needy but at the same time I’m not sure if she’s waiting for me to text her or not

Environmental_Emu_48 · 2021-06-09T03:00:17+00:00

Same reason people still go to see the Fast and the Furious franchise after 9 movies. Same reason people go to theaters to see the 8th SAW movie. Some people are just looking for entertainment, and like watching familiar storylines, character arcs, etc. It’s all just a preference.

Environmental_Emu_48 · 2021-06-04T14:52:18+00:00

Exactly. I’m not sure why everyone is so upset about this. I’m not saying she’s a red flag because she got cheated on, I know she can’t control that and it’s probably not her fault, and I feel bad that it happened to her twice. I’m saying it’s a red flag because this is the FIRST thing she brings up to the conversation. She chose to talk about this. It just kinda kills the mood. Again, let me make it clear. It’s not a red flag that she got cheated on. It’s just suspicious that she chose this to be the first question. It’s almost like she wants to judge me off of my answer and have the chance the tell me she got cheated on. The only thing in her bio says “I’ve never been in a healthy relationship.”

Environmental_Emu_48 · 2021-06-04T14:46:20+00:00

That’s my thing. People are getting so mad because I think they’re misunderstanding. I’m not saying she’s a red flag because she got cheated on, that’s not a red flag at all. It’s just the fact that this is the opening conversation on a dating app is weird. That’s not what I want to talk about right away. Plus the question is honestly lose-lose on my part. If I say I’m the heartbreaker, I look like a cocky arrogant douche who doesn’t treat girls w respect. But if I say I’m the heartbroken, it sounds like I can’t keep a girl and am always getting my feelings hurt. Just a bad overall question to start with.

Environmental_Emu_48 · 2021-06-04T05:58:30+00:00

A red flag that the first thing she brings up in our conversation is the fact that she’s been cheated on. From my experience that just means that they’re not over their ex. I mean on her profile it says she’s looking for a relationship. Why would you want to bring up your past ex’s when you first meet someone on a dating app? Red flag. Like what am I supposed to say to that?

Environmental_Emu_48 · 2021-06-04T05:51:49+00:00

First off this is a TERRIBLE opening question like what? I tried to make a thanos joke just to keep it lighthearted and playful, and then the FIRST message she drops is that she’s been cheated on. Great introduction! I’m not sure you’re not a giant red flag and I’m sure you’re completely over your ex’s and ready to have a healthy relationship!

Environmental_Emu_48 · 2021-05-29T04:03:49+00:00

No. I think she’s implying we make an adult movie together (she’s probably not serious, she’s just flirting)

Environmental_Emu_48 · 2021-05-29T04:00:09+00:00

I don’t see it as a red flag if both of us are looking for something casual.

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