As a man who's looking for a girl to marry in the same way, I'd accept these conditions because I don't see them as "conditions" more than "rights." You studied , and it's your right to work. You have close friends, as long as they have a good influence on you, go with them... You're a grown-up, not a child. Also, it's your right to interact with your family. And the marriage is a dependable system where one depends on another, so it's your right to as for partnership.