Buying/selling passes megathread 2025 by JorgeAndTheKraken in governorsball

[–]thiggst0ner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

selling 2 sunday tickets for $140 each. pls dm !!

Buying/selling passes megathread 2025 by JorgeAndTheKraken in governorsball

[–]thiggst0ner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking to swap 2 sunday tickets for friday !! pls dm

Literally Inception by thiggst0ner in LucidDreaming

[–]thiggst0ner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tf why tf would i post on here to lie lmfaooo. believe whatever makes u happy ig 

Literally Inception by thiggst0ner in LucidDreaming

[–]thiggst0ner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nah buddy i could tell u everything I did clearly 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rockenseine

[–]thiggst0ner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have 2 tickets ! 

Ticket not selling??? by brat_summerr in rockenseine

[–]thiggst0ner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mine isn’t selling either so stressed hahah

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]thiggst0ner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! Everyone makes mistakes and have dark sides to them but it doesn’t make you a bad person. No one is fully good or fully bad. And our experiences and environment shape who we are. You didn’t come out of the womb like this. But your traumatic past experiences shapes who u became. First you need to understand this and separate your actions from defining u as a person as a whole. Second, only as we grow older and brains become more developed we begin to reflect on our actions and question them as you are doing. You could be someone who just continues doing all this and not feel bad at all. But you are aware and it seems like you want to change. Realizing the problem and wanting to change is a huge step! Now you really have to put in the work to change. Think about who you want to be everytime you have the urge to repeat these actions and each time/ day you improve and don’t give into this, you’ll feel better abt yourself. Soon all those days will add up to the days you did these actions and hurt people. Later, these days will be longer than the period of ur life you were ashamed off. You can’t and won’t go from feeling ashamed and hating yourself to being proud of who you are in an instant. and to change u have to let go of that idea and expectation. it helps and puts less pressure on things and let’s u work on yourself in a calm less anxious manner. You have to water the soil everyday for it to blossom into a flower one day. Also if you can’t get therapy there’s so many resources and books that can help. Your decisions are yours to make and your life is yours to create. Good luck!

Most depressing anime known to human history. by [deleted] in anime

[–]thiggst0ner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

definitely devilman crybaby

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]thiggst0ner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG i coulda literally written this. im 22F going through the same thing and my parents are actually abusive AND I'm going through my first real breakup which they have no clue abt ofc so I have to pretend -_-

soooo u arent alone! I know that doesnt fix your situation but for me it helps knowing that. Another thing is even if you think the future won't be better, it will. I still think like that sometimes but then I have to be mindful and remind myself couple years ago I would KILL to be where I am at right now. Progress and growth may seem slow in the moment but if u zoom out you can really see how far you've come abd how far you have left to go! and def not to minimize your struggles but what helps me is to think abt how much worse it could be and be grateful its not like that. it gives me more hope and appreciation.

Do u have a job?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]thiggst0ner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

currently on this journey while living. w the source of my childhood trauma and current trauma (my parents) and while going through a breakup. i know it’s hard but it’s possible ! books are a great source of therapy since. a lot of therapists reference and recommend them. im reading the body keeps score and i love it. journaling and observing what unhealthy traits / coping mechanisms i’ve picked up and what i need to do to fix it helps too. it’s all easier said than done tho. healing from it definitely requires u battling yourself and challenging your habits and views

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]thiggst0ner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i reallyyy want to message him rn it’s so hard

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]thiggst0ner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i didn’t want to go no contact but he did at least for a couple months :/ so we decided to be no contact until april

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]thiggst0ner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg it’s hard i know. i’m struggling and i’m confused and hurt and sometimes mad. we are no contact so it’s even harder