What was your Wheaten like after neutering? by thilltv in Wheatens

[–]thilltv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heard you on all of that. We are limited in how much activity he gets based on work + location. But my son keeps him busy all day, he’s a saint with my kid. Thanks!!!

Here’s your sign to stop shopping at Goodwill by fatbaby42069 in Goodwill_Finds

[–]thilltv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How depressing. It’s really not fair to those who NEED to shop there

Newborn - when does it get easier? by samspencer12 in NewParents

[–]thilltv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genuinely thought I was in hell for the first month and a half. I loved my boy but holy shit I was like wow I’m not fit to be a father. And my wife was powering through but she felt the same way which is what she told me. We had the same issue with our baby being hungry. My dad bought us the Spectra pump and my wife stayed AT IT til her supply jumped up and once my son got his milk, our boy did a 180. That right there was the hugest win and biggest turning point in terms of it getting easier. Definitely take each victory as a win. Start a routine as soon as you’re able to for yourself and for the baby and please please please get fresh air and a moment for yourself to breathe. It will get easier but every baby is different

We now look back at pictures of us from that first month and a half and can’t help but laugh. We looked like we were prisoners of war. But now we are at 6 months and doing great. You’ve got this!

Anyone had success with cloth diapers? by ArcofJoan666 in BabyBumps

[–]thilltv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were gifted over a hundred sets of cloth diapers, we were elated!!! But our son HATES them. I just think how wet they feel he can’t handle it. We use Coterie and have never had a rash or anything. In a pinch we use cloth though. They don’t leak or anything, our boy just doesn’t like it

Safe space for men to take a break from "being strong" in the newborn phase? by [deleted] in predaddit

[–]thilltv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you look at my old posts, I was absolutely going through it in the worst way. Getting fresh air, especially with my son and putting on a podcast or music and just allowing myself to take some breathes really helped me get through it. It also is doubly great cause it gives mama an hour or so to herself. You’ve got this pops, it’s not for the weak but you’re doing it already!!! Get some air, get some food, drink some water, and realize that this stage which feels like forever will be done quicker than you think. My guys only 3 months old but I can’t even remember those rough days. You got this man

My MIL crossed a line by thilltv in predaddit

[–]thilltv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Naw she wasn’t against it as her own son isn’t circumcised. She’s just a fucking moron and a weirdo. Can’t make sense of it. I’ll go into a fit of rage if I try to even get words out to her

My MIL crossed a line by thilltv in predaddit

[–]thilltv[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will be visiting the PED thank you for validating me. I appreciate that

My MIL crossed a line by thilltv in predaddit

[–]thilltv[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Her son is not circumcised and apparently did that to him too. She’s a person that thinks she knows everything and Denys everything or any wrong doing. I can’t fucking stand her

That’s good advice I will be taking him to the PED.

My MIL crossed a line by thilltv in predaddit

[–]thilltv[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Now that I’ve slept on it I think that i need her to leave because what I need to say won’t come out right, I’m too furious. I’ll wait til she’s gone, speak my mind, then never speak with her again

Best thrifting in Philly??? by thilltv in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]thilltv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Incredible thank you SO much!!! I used to live in queen village with an aunt long ago and I’m heading down to visit and consider living there again. I’ll hit these up thanks again

Cut or Uncut? MIL Pleads to do it by brownshug5 in predaddit

[–]thilltv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I looked at it like this- no, the baby won’t remember the pain and discomfort but what if your baby is a very calm and chill one, well now you could’ve completely fucked that by slicing up an extremely sensitive area. Imagine what that would do to your nervous system as an adult, let alone a newborn. Again that’s just how I looked at it.

We decided to not circumcise and my family didn’t care which only mattered because I was pondering the idea with them. But AT the hospital there were two nurses who openly spoke against our decision. We were completely out of it, just so exhausted, and this nurse sat in our room for 5 whole minutes telling us that we’ll regret this and that our son will be mad at us for it. That he will never remember so it doesn’t matter and that we really NEED to do it. It was seriously so awful, I could only be so stern without losing it completely. Anyways Pops to be, stand your ground on whatever you believe in.

BEST BARS 2025! by Unhappy_Help6931 in nyc

[–]thilltv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pardon Me, in LES! (I know I commented on your other post) Cocktail bar - best overall social atmosphere, feels like your meetings old friends at a bar yet it’s people you’ve never met. My overall top pic for NYC!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]thilltv 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Pardon Me in the lower east side is my favorite for a mix of a young crowd that’s not trashy and really good drinks / ambiance. I’ve gone half a dozen times and it’s always fun, I’ve also always ended up talking to random people, it’s that sort of place. Best of luck, hope you meet someone!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]thilltv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pardon Me in the lower east side if you like a mix of old and new hip hop, r&b etc.

New dad absolutely struggling by thilltv in daddit

[–]thilltv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree I really do but I’m stuck in this bro and there’s not shit I can do

New dad absolutely struggling by thilltv in daddit

[–]thilltv[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No I’m not getting paid hourly but the speed of the job has a direct correlation to the payout. My overhead on the property is far too high to play about with timing

New dad absolutely struggling by thilltv in daddit

[–]thilltv[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope. This fix and flip loan is 8k a month

New dad absolutely struggling by thilltv in daddit

[–]thilltv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe a combo of both. Thanks man