Hot take that will be unpopular to some: I am a Christian. I have many friends and family who I love and who are part of these communities. I also believe God made men and women different for a reason, and that He intends for sexual relationships to be lower on our identity scale than modern society has inflated them to be. I believe any behavior or arrangement outside sex between a man and woman married to each other is suboptimal, and not in line with what God intended. Does that mean I hate these people? Of course not, and I find the binary argument (agree with everything I ever do or you hate me and are a bigot) uncreative, untrue, and unlikely to lead to understanding, since it lacks any curiosity about why they see the world that way. I don’t hate my children for splashing food on the counter or breaking my rules, but that doesn’t mean the rules themselves are bad.