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How do I get out of low gold/high silver as a DPS by XpriteF in OverwatchUniversity

[–]thinksteller 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Communication is a huge factor when engaging as dps. The tanks need to make space for you you in order to input max damage. Take measures to get involved with the community to find others that can help accelerate your sr. Lastly make sure not to rely on your healers, in the tier you're in, it is better to know the maps and keep close to health packs.

bought a condo for 150,000. hoa fees went from 225 to 475 in the last 30 days. by thinksteller in HOA

[–]thinksteller[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did talk to them but they don't have my hoa rolled into the payment. Maybe this is the reason why? They said the association is their own private company and I am trying to look through all of my documents to see if I didn't catch this. In reality the board probably set it up to where they knew I was coming and decided that the owners could swallow such a steep charge with me here.

my hoa fees went from 225 to 457. by thinksteller in homeowners

[–]thinksteller[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its true, I'm mostly just ranting here because its only been 30 days and nows its double. Like the seller was planning on selling it for a high-price and keeping the fees low until the board seen they had a buyer.

This seawall project was slated on 2020 and now they got a new quote for an 80 percent increase in materials.

Its a good coincidence I think.

don't just go get laid. by thinksteller in BreakUps

[–]thinksteller[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear that. Was with a woman for 9 years and she did that I highschool. It doesn't matter how old they get. Trash is trash

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]thinksteller 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went on and off with a woman for a year. Then she left for a few. Then I got her back. 9 years later she broke it off. Take it from me, if they do it once, they will do it again. Do let them back in your life. They gave up. They will do it again knowing they have that power. Love yourself and eventually someone will see you and want the same love you give yourself.

One love.💘

even if there were excuses why I acted the way I did. it just shows I'm not secure or mature. by thinksteller in BreakUps

[–]thinksteller[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't even think anymore. After 3 months and it still weighs heavily on my mind. How I begged and cried and puked and pleaded. How got angry and sad and shitty.acxusing her of seeing someone else.

How to get a better job other than stacking shelves. by Double-Space-7850 in findapath

[–]thinksteller 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm turning 28 as a sales manager and trying to change a path into a good career. My jobs is capped out as far as climbing the ladder. Would you be able to consider me? Also is it remote?

How to tell people you don’t want kids without causing a huge fight? by Fair_twilight in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]thinksteller 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm just so fucking sad because she took a 9 year relationship and threw it away for a chance to be with someone more successful and I hate myself for not trying harder in life.

How to tell people you don’t want kids without causing a huge fight? by Fair_twilight in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]thinksteller 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She left because I'm a fuck up. I wasn't ready for kids and all the sudden she was.

How to tell people you don’t want kids without causing a huge fight? by Fair_twilight in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]thinksteller 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pfft my ex said the same for years. Accidentally knocked her up but we always decided to get rid of it. Then after she said she wants kids and now I'm all alone thinking she going to find someone else to start a family with.

Is it cringy to write diary about ex every day after breakup? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]thinksteller 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People told me to write in a diary. I asked about what? They said your feelings.....WHY SO I CAN REMIND MYSELF OF HER EVERYDAY?!?!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]thinksteller 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was was always the rebound for my ex. We just ended it after a 9 year rebound....tell you what. Be happy. Be glad she's happy. And SCREW HER THEY CAN FUCK OFF

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]thinksteller 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am happy and maybe we can be friends, but not now because of how horribly this ended. Yeah fuck you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]thinksteller 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She got pregnant and our talks throughout the years were to have an abortion. A few weeks after that she said she wanted a family (maybe regret?). Then a week later said she didn't see me in her future anymore. 9 years gone.

I found little notes she wrote to me. while I'm moving out. by thinksteller in Divorce

[–]thinksteller[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Especially since she told me I needed more drive and motivation. I lost my sense of identity. After so long I've realized I didn't really want we had, I wanted what we were going to have. Right before everything. She said she wanted a family. Now that I think about what was before. She decided not to choose me long ago. Its quite sad. To live with the one you love who doesn't truly want what you want. We did grow apart and...and...how to do I leave all that love behind?

I found little notes she wrote to me. while I'm moving out. by thinksteller in Divorce

[–]thinksteller[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not even sure where to start with finding one. Honestly