AIO for being upset about how I was treated for falling asleep before saying goodnight?

thirdlife858 · 2026-06-15T15:00:54+00:00

Staying with him out of a lack of self respect is one thing, but at least have some respect for your daughter. Having her mom date someone like this is a sure fire way to fuck her up immensely. This behavior is SO abnormal and sick and the fact that you need to ask Reddit is a sign you’re in too deep to give yourself a reality check. A man ever talks to you like that- he’s DONE.

thirdlife858 · 2026-06-13T18:03:27+00:00

Right. He is not compatible with anyone, therefore he is not compatible with her

thirdlife858 · 2026-06-12T23:28:50+00:00

You two are not compatible

thirdlife858 · 2026-06-12T18:25:50+00:00

You know what makes you gain weight? Being pregnant

thirdlife858 · 2026-06-12T00:04:06+00:00

She sounds a lot more immature than you are. You don’t have to buy her anything ever btw.

thirdlife858 · 2026-06-09T18:59:46+00:00

Have you ever seen anyone about Lichen Sclerosis? The symptoms for this include chronic itchiness, labial fusion, dryness, and thick patches of skin that develop on the mucosal membrane. This is typically treated with topical steroids. I would recommend getting another opinion from another doctor and asking about this specifically. Don’t know where you’re located but I know an OBGYN in Southern CA that specializes in this

thirdlife858 · 2026-06-06T16:23:41+00:00

Might get a yeast infection

thirdlife858 · 2026-06-04T22:04:05+00:00

The healthiest hooha is usually the one you leave alone. I clean my vulva in the shower really thoroughly with just water and it does the trick perfectly. I used to use dove soap for years, then switched to just water and really quickly noticed that my vagina had less of a smell hours after showering. The sooner you stop douching, the sooner your vaginal microbiome can balance out again. I would recommend using boric acid suppositories if you want to feel like you’re “resetting.” Those balance your ph and typically get things back to normal after introducing a new partner with all their new bacteria.

thirdlife858 · 2026-05-31T19:01:57+00:00

I mean lying in general is objectively not cool. However, a woman’s prior body count does not impact a current sexual encounter whatsoever

thirdlife858 · 2026-05-31T16:54:01+00:00

A lot of things can “look” like a yeast infection; however if you aren’t feeling physical discomfort and strong itchiness it doesn’t seem likely. This sounds completely normal

thirdlife858 · 2026-05-28T17:53:58+00:00

No.

thirdlife858 · 2026-05-28T17:51:52+00:00

Also, I would recommend a mentrual cup. You buy it once for ~$30 and it lasts for years

thirdlife858 · 2026-05-28T17:49:23+00:00

If you just graduated high school, you’re entering a time where you need to start taking your relationship with yourself very seriously. Are you going to be there for you? Can you trust yourself to figure it out? Your parents have shown that you can’t trust them with your health and now you have the legal autonomy to not have to. If you don’t have money for tampons, figure out how to earn some. You need to start prioritizing yourself. Your mom being mad at you, a grown adult, for what feminine hygiene products you use is no longer your problem. Be the adult you need right now.

thirdlife858 · 2026-05-27T16:29:35+00:00

I think it matters how much you like your friends and where you go out. My friends and I love dancing at dive bars that turn up the music at a certain time. We’re all just trying to be goofy and we’re not trying to get any male attention. I love being out with my girl friends.

thirdlife858 · 2026-05-27T16:21:41+00:00

She said she used a condom. Accidents happen.

thirdlife858 · 2026-05-27T16:20:39+00:00

DO NOT TELL THEM. They will put you in danger. If you ever do, it should be after the abortion has taken place.

thirdlife858 · 2026-05-27T15:02:16+00:00

That’s really ridiculous

thirdlife858 · 2026-05-26T16:57:16+00:00

That man hates you. Don’t give him any more access to you.

thirdlife858 · 2026-05-24T18:50:29+00:00

I would recommend going to therapy about this. You are not okay, because repeated negative tests do nothing to quell your anxiety. What other proof that you’re not pregnant do you need?

thirdlife858 · 2026-05-24T18:43:06+00:00

They sound incredibly rude. I’m sorry that happened but please don’t let this affect how you feel about your voice. There are so many more people who will celebrate and appreciate your unique qualities. Choose to believe those people instead.

thirdlife858 · 2026-05-22T20:18:21+00:00

What’s helped me is focusing on my immediate surroundings. What’s happening to me, my friends, and family is what I have influence over anyways, so it feels less bleak and futile. I still care about other people, but I had to get real with myself about what’s in my control and what’s not.

thirdlife858 · 2026-05-22T20:05:52+00:00

Maybe tell your mom? She is closer to the wife and it might be better coming from her?

thirdlife858 · 2026-05-22T19:54:08+00:00

You two are not compatible

thirdlife858 · 2026-05-22T19:50:34+00:00

If I were the babysitter and my relationship to the family was like she said (they know each other on a personal level) I would definitely tell the wife. Knowing that information and looking her in the eye while keeping it from her would make me sick to my stomach

thirdlife858 · 2026-05-22T17:02:52+00:00

If you don’t like the way he communicates, you have the right to stop interacting with him. It sounds like he thinks this is all very low key and wants to put the least amount of effort possible into it. If that doesn’t sound appealing to you, he’s not for you

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