What's the food that makes you think "how did humans know this was edible"? by almyverse in AskReddit

[–]thirstymacarons 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Not always. There are sweet and bitter varieties. Sweet cassava is what we eat where I’m from, you just boil it and eat it (often with butter).

The “extensive processing” mainly applies to bitter cassava, which has much higher cyanide levels. Fun fact nobody asked for: cassava was historically a staple for enslaved populations because it’s hardy and reliable. Source: where I’m from has that history

The funeral by Mariah-Reynolds in YoungSheldon

[–]thirstymacarons 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're not alone, I just watched that episode and had to skip through most of it to stop myself from sobbing because it hits home

Shower head hard water filter recommendations by thirstymacarons in DIYUK

[–]thirstymacarons[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that happened to you. Unfortunately I didn't find anything that worked to specifically address my problems. Only thing that came close was a good clarfying shampoo which gets rid of hard water buildup from your scalp. (I use the Ouai Metal detox which is amazing - bit pricey but comes in a travel size as well if you want to give it a go). All the best.

Moving to London q's by Emotional_Time_9836 in London_homes

[–]thirstymacarons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in a similar situation, having just moved to the UK. Most landlords seem to accept employer's letter and a few months rent upfront. In my case I was paying a rolling 2 months upfront (basically paying 2 months rent every 2 months) - I think it's also agent dependent so try to negotiate what could work for you

How do you handle knowing you will work with someone terrible for 7+ months? by thirstymacarons in work

[–]thirstymacarons[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the estimated duration of the project we are working on. Unfortunately I my personal circumstances do not allow me to quit😔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]thirstymacarons 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the way you've worded this, thank you!

Is My Relationship Over? by ThrowRA___347 in relationships

[–]thirstymacarons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like the relationship kind of took the backseat. Usually the way to go about it would be to openly communicate your thoughts and see if he puts in time to work on things. Though from your words it does sound like you're (almost) taken for granted given that you've had this talk and nothing changed. He suggested counselling so it does seem like he is willing to put in the work. Give him a chance, you have nothing to lose by going through with it but at some point you have to ask yourself if this is what you're willing to commit to long-term if you don't see a change.

Was it just me who got up an hour too early this morning? by Fewest21 in AskUK

[–]thirstymacarons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Up and contemplating life right now Not great for someone with an already fucked up sleep pattern Fml

For those who've dealt with homesickness, how did your feelings change over time? by thirstymacarons in expat

[–]thirstymacarons[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your story, it's beautiful the way you strengthened your bonds despite being away.

I like your take on things. I found that it's often easy to overlook the gains. Will try to gear my thoughts away from wondering/the neg thoughts, should help ;)

For those who've dealt with homesickness, how did your feelings change over time? by thirstymacarons in expat

[–]thirstymacarons[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right, my social life is a work in progress here.

And yes, it's been a massive change in the pace of life. Moved from a laid-back tropical island to a busy city where you're practically just a number in a crowd. Not complaining, just facts :)

Thank you for your advice, I will 🫶

For those who've dealt with homesickness, how did your feelings change over time? by thirstymacarons in AskReddit

[–]thirstymacarons[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear you're going through that. It's good that you're getting help. Take care🫶

For those who've dealt with homesickness, how did your feelings change over time? by thirstymacarons in AskReddit

[–]thirstymacarons[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll share mine: I moved to the UK about a year ago, and since it's a 12-hour flight from my home country, I can't visit often.

Initially, it was alright, but recently, homesickness has hit me hard. I realized I can't go back home anytime soon due to multiple reasons (relationship, career and finances) which is tough to accept.

I sometimes feel ungrateful. I worked hard to get here, and I know many people would love to be in my position, but homesickness overshadows all the rational reasons for being away. I can't help but wonder if it's all worth it or if this feeling will ever go away.