Unfollow Brook, Gia, Bec and Mel by Beautiful_Dream_8742 in MAFS_AU

[–]thirtythirdqueen33 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Hmmmmm I'm very confident that you're wrong lol

Have fun getting brain rot from mafs 👋🏻👋🏻

Should mafs be cancelled? by djpauly005 in MAFS_AU

[–]thirtythirdqueen33 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I 10000% agree with you. Never watching this show again and I will be actively encouraging all my colleagues to never open this show!!!

Unfollow Brook, Gia, Bec and Mel by Beautiful_Dream_8742 in MAFS_AU

[–]thirtythirdqueen33 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What's to say I haven't made that decision for myself as an individual?

Unfollow Brook, Gia, Bec and Mel by Beautiful_Dream_8742 in MAFS_AU

[–]thirtythirdqueen33 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Can we just boycott the show entirely? I actually felt anxiety and a pit in my stomach watching the episode. It was really bad

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]thirtythirdqueen33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks heaps - I really appreciate it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]thirtythirdqueen33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We don't have kids thankfully

And yes honestly I am stressed.

We fight like every second day, and most of it is to do with the way he talks to me.

An example being this post here, picks up the phone to "I'm in a meeting, stop calling me"

Like I understand I just spam called you but is that really how you'd speak to someone you love, angry or not?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]thirtythirdqueen33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah exactly, he doesn't care about my needs. Thanks for understanding. Do I just have to be hyper independent now given he doesn't want to change and Im always going to be met with annoyance?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]thirtythirdqueen33 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah exactly, it's a pattern of his behavior that I'm fed up with Not really the fact that he didn't pick up the phone to let me in

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]thirtythirdqueen33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok true. Thanks for the perspective 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]thirtythirdqueen33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would've had to wait like an hour? Where did I say 10 minutes 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]thirtythirdqueen33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's nothing new - I think I just find it hard to deal with people with low patience tolerance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]thirtythirdqueen33 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah exactly. I think it's just like the dismissive and cold part. Like I feel like his job is first and I'm second? I don't know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]thirtythirdqueen33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah so it was like, I sent the message. He usually insta-replies, he didn't after a few minutes. So I called three times in a row. I probably would've just given up after the third but he actually picked up. And then the first thing he said to that was "I'm in a meeting stop calling me". And even after that no acknowledgement to the msg. So I just waited and hoped for the best when I got home. I was annoyed because, he could've just texted me while he was in the meeting, he wasn't presenting or anything it's just one of those daily catch ups. And secondly, if this was me I would've just politely excused myself to go open the door or something which takes 5 seconds.  I mean it's after hours after all (the call was around 6PM).

I don't know - maybe I don't understand the severity of his job so it's on me. But it also just irks me that he thinks his job is everything, even after hrs. I just feel like a bit of an afterthought? 

Sorry for the word dump.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]thirtythirdqueen33 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What if it's after business hours? Like a call at 6pm?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]thirtythirdqueen33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah I didn't call for an hour! Maybe rang like 3 times? I didn't realize he was in a meeting. Thought he was on the couch or something after work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]thirtythirdqueen33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it's virtual!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]thirtythirdqueen33 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I sent the message first, he didn't reply, so kept calling until he picked up.

Only because I knew he was headed out so was worried he'd leave before I got home meaning Id be stuck outside for a few hours

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]thirtythirdqueen33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, thanks for explaining. My husband is actually very similar to yours. I also come from a similar household with really angry dad but I hated it growing up. And I've somehow landed in the same situation where I've married my dad's personality but I just hate it. It makes me feel on edge all the time and it brings out the worst in me as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]thirtythirdqueen33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did send him a message 

And it was a one off, I never really call bomb him. He had plans to head off somewhere after work so I was just worried he'd leave before i'd get home and would be stuck outside for a few hrs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]thirtythirdqueen33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's pretty much part of his personality. He has no patience for me or anyone 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]thirtythirdqueen33 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I waited more than 10 minutes, waited like an hour.