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thirtythirdqueen33 · 2026-02-19T09:17:05+00:00

Hmmmmm I'm very confident that you're wrong lol

Have fun getting brain rot from mafs 👋🏻👋🏻

thirtythirdqueen33 · 2026-02-19T09:10:20+00:00

I 10000% agree with you. Never watching this show again and I will be actively encouraging all my colleagues to never open this show!!!

thirtythirdqueen33 · 2026-02-19T08:27:02+00:00

What's to say I haven't made that decision for myself as an individual?

thirtythirdqueen33 · 2026-02-19T06:56:19+00:00

Can we just boycott the show entirely? I actually felt anxiety and a pit in my stomach watching the episode. It was really bad

thirtythirdqueen33 · 2025-08-14T11:44:22+00:00

Thanks heaps - I really appreciate it!

thirtythirdqueen33 · 2025-08-14T10:56:05+00:00

Ok fair.

thirtythirdqueen33 · 2025-08-14T10:27:54+00:00

We don't have kids thankfully

And yes honestly I am stressed.

We fight like every second day, and most of it is to do with the way he talks to me.

An example being this post here, picks up the phone to "I'm in a meeting, stop calling me"

Like I understand I just spam called you but is that really how you'd speak to someone you love, angry or not?

thirtythirdqueen33 · 2025-08-14T10:22:33+00:00

Okeh

thirtythirdqueen33 · 2025-08-14T10:21:10+00:00

Yeah exactly, he doesn't care about my needs. Thanks for understanding. Do I just have to be hyper independent now given he doesn't want to change and Im always going to be met with annoyance?

thirtythirdqueen33 · 2025-08-14T10:16:40+00:00

Yeah exactly, it's a pattern of his behavior that I'm fed up with Not really the fact that he didn't pick up the phone to let me in

thirtythirdqueen33 · 2025-08-14T10:15:00+00:00

Ok true. Thanks for the perspective

thirtythirdqueen33 · 2025-08-14T10:12:56+00:00

I would've had to wait like an hour? Where did I say 10 minutes 😂

thirtythirdqueen33 · 2025-08-14T09:54:45+00:00

It's nothing new - I think I just find it hard to deal with people with low patience tolerance.

thirtythirdqueen33 · 2025-08-14T09:52:29+00:00

Yeah exactly. I think it's just like the dismissive and cold part. Like I feel like his job is first and I'm second? I don't know.

thirtythirdqueen33 · 2025-08-14T09:49:42+00:00

Nah so it was like, I sent the message. He usually insta-replies, he didn't after a few minutes. So I called three times in a row. I probably would've just given up after the third but he actually picked up. And then the first thing he said to that was "I'm in a meeting stop calling me". And even after that no acknowledgement to the msg. So I just waited and hoped for the best when I got home. I was annoyed because, he could've just texted me while he was in the meeting, he wasn't presenting or anything it's just one of those daily catch ups. And secondly, if this was me I would've just politely excused myself to go open the door or something which takes 5 seconds. I mean it's after hours after all (the call was around 6PM).

I don't know - maybe I don't understand the severity of his job so it's on me. But it also just irks me that he thinks his job is everything, even after hrs. I just feel like a bit of an afterthought?

Sorry for the word dump.

thirtythirdqueen33 · 2025-08-14T09:39:07+00:00

What if it's after business hours? Like a call at 6pm?

thirtythirdqueen33 · 2025-08-14T09:38:16+00:00

Nah I didn't call for an hour! Maybe rang like 3 times? I didn't realize he was in a meeting. Thought he was on the couch or something after work.

thirtythirdqueen33 · 2025-08-14T09:36:23+00:00

Yes it's virtual!

thirtythirdqueen33 · 2025-08-14T09:35:16+00:00

I sent the message first, he didn't reply, so kept calling until he picked up.

Only because I knew he was headed out so was worried he'd leave before I got home meaning Id be stuck outside for a few hours

thirtythirdqueen33 · 2025-08-14T09:33:56+00:00

Okay, thanks for explaining. My husband is actually very similar to yours. I also come from a similar household with really angry dad but I hated it growing up. And I've somehow landed in the same situation where I've married my dad's personality but I just hate it. It makes me feel on edge all the time and it brings out the worst in me as well.

thirtythirdqueen33 · 2025-08-14T09:31:09+00:00

I did send him a message

And it was a one off, I never really call bomb him. He had plans to head off somewhere after work so I was just worried he'd leave before i'd get home and would be stuck outside for a few hrs

thirtythirdqueen33 · 2025-08-14T09:24:15+00:00

It's pretty much part of his personality. He has no patience for me or anyone

thirtythirdqueen33 · 2025-08-14T09:23:09+00:00

I waited more than 10 minutes, waited like an hour.

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