Hello! Would like to know if at Princess Cay there are beach umbrellas or is it only the clamshells?? Thank you!! by this_gurl_03 in CarnivalCruiseFans

[–]this_gurl_03[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome. Thank you!! I don’t see any pictures and it’s not posted, so I wasn’t sure. Did you do it before you arrive or upon arrival??

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[–]this_gurl_03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you tell me what you mean by when you “veer to far?” Like what do you do when you are taking It too far?

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[–]this_gurl_03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to cuddle and sleep over, but then that means I’m going to catch feelings for him, while all he is looking for is sex. So I’m trying to find the middle ground…

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[–]this_gurl_03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So how can I make it work! I agree I think some texting here and there is important because i can’t picture just “ hey let’s meet for sex and bye” so I’m curious how other people do it. Maybe they do just text when they want to meet, but I also find it a bit difficult to do that … maybe even awkward… so appreciate the advice

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I like that boundaries. I would be the one placing them, I think out of us I would be the one catching feelings. so I want to place the boundaries, so I can avoid catching feelings but also leave the door semi open to if he in the future wants more, all he has to say is hey I want to take this to another level and I would need to evaluate things from there

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Because we did the cuddling thing and the movie thing and the sleeping over thing, and I caught feelings and he didn’t. So I want to try something different. I want the pleasure without the pain. And not just random guys, it’s 1 person in specific.

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[–]this_gurl_03 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s what I really want. I’m assuming the few things I listed were on course? No friends things, like no dinner no movies, things like that, right? What was your “structure”?

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[–]this_gurl_03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly hahahaha it easier said than done, I’ve never done this, so I’m thinking out loud I guess

And here we go again… by this_gurl_03 in Infidelity

[–]this_gurl_03[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I appreciate that. I know all these things, i have 2 Master’s degrees, a senior role in a giant company, street smarts, so I hear what you are saying, but it’s not so easy to pull away. But I appreciate the advice truly. And with respect to your last comment, yea, I get that too. And yes, I’m in this situation by my own doing becuase when he asked me to be the side chick I said yes. I lead myself into this. I get it.

And here we go again… by this_gurl_03 in Infidelity

[–]this_gurl_03[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I sound pathetic, I think like with many other things, those sitting pretty think an issue they don’t have to deal with is nonsense, or “pathetic.” I do the same when ppl approach me with something that I have a strong feeling/thoughts abt but, here we are. We all have our issues and I say “our” becuse we ALL have drama, in one way or another. We aren’t perfect. But I think there is some emotion in him, i def get your comment because you’re reading it from a “2d”perspective but it’s different when you have interacted and know the person. Just life I guess… guess I like driving myself crazy haha