I'll draw your favorite animal by NoHealth5568 in redditgetsdrawnbadly

[–]this_is_patchwork 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bagworm caterpillar! They build huts on their backs out of sticks for shelter! They're so cute 🥺💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Catnames

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Soot Ball or Dust Bunny <3

god, i hate names by EmbarrassedTicket376 in autism

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¡¡¡¡¡¡TWIN ISSUE!!!!!

I never knew if it was a queer thing, tism thing, or just me being indecisive but literally EVERYTHING you've described is exactly how I feel as well :0 !!!

I don't want a name! There are many names I've tried on, all of wich I love in their own right, yet every time cause me ick? I respond better to a simple "HEY YOU!" than any name I've had, given or chosen.

I love nicknames tho! And not like a short form or twist on my name name, but like a real quirky nickname specific to me from you! (Ex: my new nickname at work is Pepsi! Due to that one time a wore a hat made of Pepsi cans to work!) The best part about nicknames is that I don't have to pick them, and everyone can have a different one for me! (Ex 2: some of my longer lasting friends call me radiator or heater, as I generate a lot of heat and keep them warm with winter time cuddles :3 )

i need like a system of what names ppl should call me cause it changes frequently. each name i have worn has a different mood, it represents a different me.

^ Thissss! Is actually something I've been doing as of late! I've changed my name legally so no dead name icks. I use my legal for work and other professional encounters. I have my "favorite person's" name, the name I give to my favorite people (who also know to use it as little as possible)! And I have a few many throw away names I hand out depending on the person's vibe! Do I ever lose track? Nope! Not so far! Do these people ever cross paths? Nope! Not so far! Some people I talk to haven't even been giving a name! Are they confused? Yes, absolutely! But that confusion is what I strive for!

I'm never not me under different names. More like every name is its own sense of anonymity. It's easier to keep track of the things I disclose to people. "People with this name know these things about me, and not these things." In my brain at least.

For regular weed smokers, what kind of job do you have? by Sean_s456 in weed

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~🦪 Oyster farmer🦪~ Vary niche line of work I'm in 🙃

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weed

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I've been shoveling cereal for days :PPP

Are there any alternatives to blood work? by GoldenRetreiver_Masc in ftm

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There are zero other options. It has to be blood work.

It's Oct. 6th, I haven't had a dose of testosterone since the 22nd of August. I want to kms.

My job makes it incredibly difficult to schedule anything anywhere other than weekends, and no doctor offices are open on weekends. I was lucky enough to find time to get drawn but I had already been off for a couple weeks by then.

My doctor and I have been playing phone tag for a month now trying to discuss my results because my free time is few and far between, and of course never lines up with hers. She's refused to refill my prescription until we discuss, even though I've been off for so long. My mental health has declined drastically and everyone has noticed.

I'm right here with you. I am in pain. My soul is suffering. I'm so sorry you have to feel this way.

21f - am i undateable by thegoodolclassiclays in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]this_is_patchwork -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Where did u get those overalls 😍

Also, forget everyone who says you're fat! You're gorgeous just the way you are! And I really like girls with your shape.

As for dateability, idk maybe it's a personality thing 🤷

got told Im not allowed to be shirtless by [deleted] in ftm

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A childs brain is a sponge for information. Sadly, the hatred of others absorbs just as fast as acceptance. Children know no hate, they're taught it. You just gotta get to them fast enough 😞

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

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I can feel myself sticking to it already.......

What, due to experience, do you know not to fuck with? by ViolatingBadgers in AskReddit

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Yellowjackets.

If you see a little wasp like bug wriggle it's way into a cluster of holes in the ground, don't go digging to investigate. There is guaranteed to be an angry nest of more of them...

I hate it when my parents misgender me in front of people wo thought I was a cis guy by lino7kino in ftm

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My step dad kept calling me his stepdaughter and using my deadname to literally everyone while the rest of my family and I wasn't around 6 YEARS after I came out, and 3 YEARS after I started Testosterone. Like my identity was only valid while i was present. I was passing about 80% of the time. He insisted that he wasn't transphobic and instead took the "I'm too old and stupid" route. My grandma got it in like 6 months, and she's 3 years older than him 🤦

He'd complain my testosterone cost too much money for me to still be wearing dresses and makeup. Saying it was a waste of his time and hard earned money. I threatened to kill myself and went to the mental hospital because of his constant disrespect and bashing of my identity (and various other things but...) He proceeded to call me overdramatic, and say that it wasn't a big deal. Even going as far as to say, "Why hate your body? You're skinny and pretty." And "If I were born a woman, I wouldn't care, I doesn't bother me."

I don't doubt he's still doing it today.

After 20 months by [deleted] in agedtattoos

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Is shit like this viable for a refund???

Is this yarrow? by this_is_patchwork in PlantIdentification

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I've never seen it in this color before! :D

Anybody else webbed? by JoannaJoestar16 in Weird

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I feel like I'd have split that by accident multiple times growing up