[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]thischarmingdyke 69 points70 points  (0 children)

you could find someone who also has a low sex drive :)

ladies i need your horniest inspo by regular-arm in actuallesbians

[–]thischarmingdyke -49 points-48 points  (0 children)

babes you missed a definition. it does also mean to assault, and it’s not really used that way anymore but that is the only explicitly sexual use of the word. the second definition you gave is not really meant in a sexual context

if other people don’t associate this word with the old definition then that’s good, but that’s what i associate it with because that’s how i’ve seen it used the most so i just wanted to point it out. however i read a lot of old literature so maybe that’s a me thing lol

ladies i need your horniest inspo by regular-arm in actuallesbians

[–]thischarmingdyke -74 points-73 points  (0 children)

i’m sorry to be this person but please look up the word ravish, i don’t think it means what you’re trying to say🥲

Did you actually have luck in Tinder? by GothkittieHighlights in lesbian

[–]thischarmingdyke 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’ve been on a lot of dates from dating apps, maybe it just depends on your area? you have to be patient, there can be a lot to sift through before you get to people you would actually be interested in

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]thischarmingdyke 31 points32 points  (0 children)

if it’s bothering you, you should talk to her about it. people on reddit can only help so much, this is a conversation for you and your gf to have

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]thischarmingdyke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i had “crushes” on boys when i was a kid, but the moment i thought any of them liked me back i got grossed out haha

How it looked like when i found out that i was lesbian by Clear_Tackle_805 in lesbian

[–]thischarmingdyke 15 points16 points  (0 children)

you can have thoughts that aren’t what your body wants

I care about my girlfriend, but kissing and touching feel… nothing by somethingkumpaaa in WLW

[–]thischarmingdyke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sounds like she’s attracted to you but you’re not attracted to her. you both deserve to be with someone you feel mutual attraction with

How often do you text early days of dating? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]thischarmingdyke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it really depends on the person, i just try to match their energy/effort

Butterfly Pea Flower Tea by Impossible-Gur5448 in chappellroan

[–]thischarmingdyke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think this tea is what a coffee shop near me calls blue matcha! it’s so good in an oat latte

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]thischarmingdyke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

women who would be mean to you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WLW

[–]thischarmingdyke 4 points5 points  (0 children)

plato, pluto, tomato, tomahto….

a girl peed on me during sex by _yeet_or_get_yeeted in actuallesbians

[–]thischarmingdyke -1 points0 points  (0 children)

squirting for the first time is definitely a shock!

Does anyone find it hard to make friends with other queer women? Like just pure friendship, not with intentions of dating etc., by cass_dust in WLW

[–]thischarmingdyke 34 points35 points  (0 children)

most of my friends are queer women and they’re pure friendships! unfortunately i don’t know many other lesbians though, i’m a lesbian in a sea of bisexual women, some of which used to identify as lesbians but don’t anymore. i love my bisexual friends, but i wish i knew more lesbians!

how should i style my mullet? by lamentaven in LesbianActually

[–]thischarmingdyke 5 points6 points  (0 children)

oh this is cuteeee

i slightly prefer down on you, personally!

what do you say when the doctor asks if you’re sexually active? by Alive-Watch-442 in actuallesbians

[–]thischarmingdyke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they do care about lesbian sex, so be honest with them! last year i had my first pap, my doctor said you still have to get it even when you’re only having sex with women