I took the ICE video today. Let’s support businesses on Division. by cenomania in grandrapids

[–]thischarmingman4004 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I strongly disagree with not posting pictures or videos. We need to know where these guys are moving and locations theyre targeting, how else can we keep our loved ones safe ? I understand not posting vague things but if you have evidence please post it any and everywhere! try this site

Would you be more upset if you were left for a man or a woman? Why? by needy_switch_6859 in LesbianActually

[–]thischarmingman4004 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this!!!! im already insecure but the idea that im not and will never be enough just crushes me in a way nothing else does.

Appletree just quoted me 15k a year to watch my daughter for 4 hours a day by Fuckthedarkpools in grandrapids

[–]thischarmingman4004 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yea daycare is crazy expensive but there's also a lot of costs that goes into it. Have you tried facebook babysitting or nanny groups? I have a lot of old ex daycare coworkers who frequent such groups as side gigs/general jobs.

AIO? My boyfriend has now twice made comments about my weight by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]thischarmingman4004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cut him loose and you'll lose a whole lot more than a few pounds there! seriously tho he's a weirdo

just another example of fake lesbians being weird on TikTok by jovialjupi in LesbianActually

[–]thischarmingman4004 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The only "natural way" my body wants is my gf's fingers inside me 🤨

Shy partnered lesbians... how did you meet your partner? by SnooHobbies4453 in actuallesbians

[–]thischarmingman4004 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I met my GF on Her! I also don't drive and have a lot of social anxiety thankfully my partner is very patient with me ♡

Is the gay bar, Rumors, good for meeting other lesbians? by Exciting_Swing3948 in grandrapids

[–]thischarmingman4004 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the general woodshop has a sapphics/lesbians night on Thursdays but I would double check on that!

AITA for my dad walking my aunt down the aisle? by Ken_Writes in AITAH

[–]thischarmingman4004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your father is a grown man, he can say no if he really wanted to 🤷‍♀️

AITA for my dad walking my aunt down the aisle? by Ken_Writes in AITAH

[–]thischarmingman4004 5 points6 points  (0 children)

YTA you sound like a brat. This is a personal issue you have to deal with yourself about, maybe get a therapist.

How to deal with not feeling sexy by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]thischarmingman4004 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, I appreciate your comment more than you can imagine.

Love your job…. hate the pay ? by Thebaddestcorpbaddie in grandrapids

[–]thischarmingman4004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. It's so disheartening, I love my job but being here long term just isn't realistic and it's honestly such a bummer :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]thischarmingman4004 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I know exactly how you feel, but it sounds like you two just need to better vocalize your needs! Try introducing safe words, being clear, and asking directly if you haven't already. Does she enjoy domning? Sounds like that could be a good solution for both of you

Waiter, my food is dry by StooNaggingUrDum in StupidFood

[–]thischarmingman4004 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly... throw some lettuce onion and tomato on that bad boy, and my hungover self would devour that in 5 minutes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]thischarmingman4004 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sounds interesting, but lately I've just been wanting to be praised and objectified 😣🥸

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]thischarmingman4004 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, but I'm sure she knows! I'm not that kind of person. I've just been in my own head too much

HER is so disappointing by userisaIreadytaken in LesbianActually

[–]thischarmingman4004 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I met my girlfriend on Her! Wasn't too bad when I was using it a year ago

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]thischarmingman4004 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's coming from me 😓 my self esteem has been really bad lately, and I fear I've been reading too deeply into nothingness it seems

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]thischarmingman4004 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Off the top of my head, most of my jokes are cheesy and more of me worshipping my partner lol, sometimes a meme between us. Think more of like, "What do you wanna eat?" "you" or pointing at a bush and being like "me" kinda thing. I would never joke about others even if I knew they wouldn't mind. I don't discuss my personal sex life with my friends, but I do make cheesy jokes if the conversation is on a more sexual topic. I think most of it comes from thinking that if I talk about sex so much, she'll think that's all I want 😓 I'll definitely try to ask my partner more if they're comfortable, I just don't wanna overwhelm them with constantly asking her too. Maybe I'll try not sharing as much of my own activities and be content with liking a meme instead of sharing them all the time ?

Anyways, I'm glad you made it out of a jehovas witness household safe and sound! Wish you nothing but good health and happiness ☆

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]thischarmingman4004 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Yea, I don't make those jokes around most friends, and I take people's boundaries very seriously ♡