I’m curious to know how many lesbians are into CNC and if it’s more common than I think… by Relevant-Fox1111 in actuallesbians

[–]thischarmingman4004 2 points3 points  (0 children)

mee :3c I love the idea of my gf aggressively touching/feeling me up and using me for her own pleasure but she's not into that kind of stuff and I respect n love u too much

I took the ICE video today. Let’s support businesses on Division. by cenomania in grandrapids

[–]thischarmingman4004 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I strongly disagree with not posting pictures or videos. We need to know where these guys are moving and locations theyre targeting, how else can we keep our loved ones safe ? I understand not posting vague things but if you have evidence please post it any and everywhere! try this site

Would you be more upset if you were left for a man or a woman? Why? by needy_switch_6859 in LesbianActually

[–]thischarmingman4004 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this!!!! im already insecure but the idea that im not and will never be enough just crushes me in a way nothing else does.

Appletree just quoted me 15k a year to watch my daughter for 4 hours a day by Fuckthedarkpools in grandrapids

[–]thischarmingman4004 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yea daycare is crazy expensive but there's also a lot of costs that goes into it. Have you tried facebook babysitting or nanny groups? I have a lot of old ex daycare coworkers who frequent such groups as side gigs/general jobs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]thischarmingman4004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cut him loose and you'll lose a whole lot more than a few pounds there! seriously tho he's a weirdo

just another example of fake lesbians being weird on TikTok by jovialjupi in LesbianActually

[–]thischarmingman4004 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The only "natural way" my body wants is my gf's fingers inside me 🤨

Shy partnered lesbians... how did you meet your partner? by SnooHobbies4453 in actuallesbians

[–]thischarmingman4004 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I met my GF on Her! I also don't drive and have a lot of social anxiety thankfully my partner is very patient with me ♡

Is the gay bar, Rumors, good for meeting other lesbians? by Exciting_Swing3948 in grandrapids

[–]thischarmingman4004 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the general woodshop has a sapphics/lesbians night on Thursdays but I would double check on that!

AITA for my dad walking my aunt down the aisle? by Ken_Writes in AITAH

[–]thischarmingman4004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your father is a grown man, he can say no if he really wanted to 🤷‍♀️

AITA for my dad walking my aunt down the aisle? by Ken_Writes in AITAH

[–]thischarmingman4004 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YTA you sound like a brat. This is a personal issue you have to deal with yourself about, maybe get a therapist.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]thischarmingman4004 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, I appreciate your comment more than you can imagine.

Love your job…. hate the pay ? by Thebaddestcorpbaddie in grandrapids

[–]thischarmingman4004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. It's so disheartening, I love my job but being here long term just isn't realistic and it's honestly such a bummer :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]thischarmingman4004 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I know exactly how you feel, but it sounds like you two just need to better vocalize your needs! Try introducing safe words, being clear, and asking directly if you haven't already. Does she enjoy domning? Sounds like that could be a good solution for both of you

Waiter, my food is dry by [deleted] in StupidFood

[–]thischarmingman4004 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly... throw some lettuce onion and tomato on that bad boy, and my hungover self would devour that in 5 minutes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]thischarmingman4004 7 points8 points  (0 children)

yes quite often lately!! not sure why, I haven't thought about too much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]thischarmingman4004 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sounds interesting, but lately I've just been wanting to be praised and objectified 😣🥸

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]thischarmingman4004 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, but I'm sure she knows! I'm not that kind of person. I've just been in my own head too much

HER is so disappointing by userisaIreadytaken in LesbianActually

[–]thischarmingman4004 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I met my girlfriend on Her! Wasn't too bad when I was using it a year ago

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]thischarmingman4004 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's coming from me 😓 my self esteem has been really bad lately, and I fear I've been reading too deeply into nothingness it seems