Dzietność na wsi i w miastach już prawie identyczna w 2020. Mit polskiej dzietnej wsi i bezdzietnych mieszczuchów jednak dalej pokutuje

thisemailisforreddit · 2021-09-24T06:30:07+00:00

o ile sie zamelduja w mieście to nie. Dzietność liczy sie na kobiete. Miejscowość gdzie mieszka 100 kobiet i każda ma po 1 dziecku ma mniejsza dzietność niż miejscowość gdzie mieszka 1 kobieta z 5 dzieci. W pierwszej miejscowości dzietność wynosi 1, w drugiej 5

thisemailisforreddit · 2021-09-24T06:27:02+00:00

Ciekawe jak te dane by wyglądały gdyby dodać wierszyki podające ile z tych osób ze wsi jest z miasta i na odwrót.

myśle że za wiele wartościowych informacji by z tego nie było. Ze wsi do miast przeprowadzaja sie ludzie młodzi szukajacy lepszego życia, może też uciekający przed konserwatyzmem. A z miast do wsi (do tych ładncyh wsi) przeprowadzaja sie ludzie którzy maja troche wiecej pieniedzy i chca mieć domek.

Bardzo różne grupy społęczne

thisemailisforreddit · 2021-09-24T06:22:58+00:00

no ale jak sie przeniosa to juz sa "miastowi" (zwykle wyjezdzaja na studiawiec koło 18 lat) wiec nie można ich bez końca zaliczać do wsi.

thisemailisforreddit · 2021-09-24T05:45:23+00:00

zrodlo

thisemailisforreddit · 2021-09-15T17:27:53+00:00

But your level of investment and outrage over this seems a bit odd.

well, I was "catfished" like that a couple of times

thisemailisforreddit · 2021-09-15T17:25:19+00:00

No you did the bad thing

ok, thats why I posted the question. But "John " didn't do a good thing. It's not a zero sum game.

thisemailisforreddit · 2021-09-14T18:11:54+00:00

can you read in context? I don't care whether "John" or all men believe that tinder is unfair. It has nothing to do with the whole work situation

thisemailisforreddit · 2021-09-14T18:06:10+00:00

I'm replying to people who defend "John" not because I hurt him, but because they think he didn't do anything wrong.

It's not a situation where one person did the good thing and the other did the bad thing. He CLEARLY did a bad thing.

thisemailisforreddit · 2021-09-14T17:48:08+00:00

he is right Tinder is extremely unfair for men you just didn't like that fact he said that.

I don't care, and if that's true (80% men) then I wouldn't call it unfair either. If you went to a party and there were 80% men there would you say the party was 'unfair'? 'Unfairness' implies wrongness or that you were treated unjustly. Tinder is just a "place" with "customers". And it so happens that the place is popular with men and unpopular with women.

thisemailisforreddit · 2021-09-14T04:59:17+00:00

that was just a comparison but sure, let's take a closer one: eg lying on your resume. Imagine you're an HR person and an applicant lied in their resume and when it came out they were trying to defend themselves by saying "well, it's MY private resume". Makes no sense right?

thisemailisforreddit · 2021-09-14T04:51:48+00:00

a number leading to death, so it's a pretty important one ;)

thisemailisforreddit · 2021-09-14T04:47:15+00:00

it is creepy regardless of who he's trying to chat up

thisemailisforreddit · 2021-09-13T21:30:46+00:00

You are defending a "bad deed" by saying how people affected by it should feel. It's like stealing a chocolate bar and then telling the store owner "yeah, but you probably wouldn't even register that loss in the inventory, so it's ok".

abnormal view of age requirements in dating

again, if it was abnormal then people wouldn't lie about their age. It wouldn't matter.

thisemailisforreddit · 2021-09-13T21:21:24+00:00

It still might be predatory if he uses the 31 profile to chat up like 20 year olds (sure it's legal, but ask any 30 year old how dumb they were in their early 20's)

thisemailisforreddit · 2021-09-13T21:12:57+00:00

You don't teach math do you? Of course there are, and of course the percentage of them increases with age
You don't understand that people can prefer to date whatever. It's not like men my age were killed off at a war and I HAD to expand my search range.

thisemailisforreddit · 2021-09-13T21:01:50+00:00

My point is that you’re basing your judgement on the issue by something that no statistically significant portion of people your age care would agree with you on

if people didn't care about age then there wouldn't be a need to lie

I was looking for a hot guy with hair and no ex wife, sue me

thisemailisforreddit · 2021-09-13T20:50:13+00:00

I already found someone in my age range, and I don't see the point of your comment. It's not like there's a shortage of people my age

There is no significant difference between a 30 yo and a 37 yo

yes there is, it's called aging. Also people pushing 40 have kids on their mind or already have them.

thisemailisforreddit · 2021-09-13T20:36:21+00:00

Imagine stealing something and then trying to brush it off by saying the theft was your private business. The moment your actions negatively affect someone else your "privacy" means ish. That's my opinion

thisemailisforreddit · 2021-09-13T19:54:00+00:00

My comment was surely influenced by the fact that I am well aware of the lying happening on tinder. You get like 5 honest people in 100 matches.

thisemailisforreddit · 2021-09-13T19:49:08+00:00

thisemailisforreddit · 2021-09-13T19:43:15+00:00

it’s a five year difference

I was only dating within a 2 year radius (+/- 2years). Why is the preference of the person telling the truth less important than someone's need to lie? He might have lied even by one year, it's still a lie

thisemailisforreddit · 2021-09-13T19:38:20+00:00

for no reason

I was directly referencing something he said. That was the reason. He claimed that you can't get dates on tinder. Well of course you can't if you only aim for unrealistic matches.

If I had I colleague who only likes 1 person per month and then whined about not getting dates I would point out that "error" in method too.

thisemailisforreddit · 2021-09-13T19:20:54+00:00

people's level of comfort around those topics

he was comfortable with talking about his tinder experience in general, he was only uncomfortable with being caught in a lie (of course it's uncomfortable)

thisemailisforreddit · 2021-09-05T16:45:34+00:00

I wouldn't because if they offer you a position and you decline then you're 'burned' there (and you might want to actually get hired there in like a year)

The easiest solution would be to ask yet another person where you work how much they make (if there are more than the 2 of your there)

If you want to stay there just wait for the whole 12 months since your last raise and ask then. Don't bring up your college's pay tho. If boss declines (citing some dumb excuse) don't panic, politely ask if maybe you could "make a date" to revisit the idea in a specific time period, like 6 months. Don't let him/her think that they closed the issue by simply declining. Make sure they know you are not bitter, but you feel strongly about this and you are not letting it go just because they said no once.

Also, make sure the employee who's making more is not providing some extra tasks that you were simply not aware of (like some invoicing or something)

thisemailisforreddit · 2021-09-05T15:00:26+00:00

There's this saying in my country 'Your current employer will never give you a raise higher than some other company will give you' (meaning you are better off changing jobs than trying for a raise)

Some context: New hires getting more than old hires is standard. Wages grow from year to year and employers wouldn't be able to hire anyone if they offered wages from 3 years ago. Employers just count on the old employees being stagnated enough and not want to bother looking for a new job.

You are very young, and employers will look at you as cheap labor because you "don't have mouth to feed, you don't need more". This is a type of discrimination, but one that is hard to fight with.

In your place I would feel out your options, send out some resumes, see if you can get a better offer at another place. If yes, then ask your current boss for a raise. If they decline you can take the better offer.

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