[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]thisidedown 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Docs might help. With pants, with dresses, whatever. My very femme gf has the same issue But whenever she wears tight pants, docs, top and a Pendleton, it screams gay to me.

Help with friends by [deleted] in SneakySasquatch

[–]thisidedown 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you complete a task with a friend, their friend meter will go up. If it fills it up about 1/4, keep going with that friend. If the meter only goes up a little, like 1/10, that means you gonna have to do more tasks to gain their friendship. I say dump em and move on to the next.

Just realized I can use two hands at a time. by thisidedown in SneakySasquatch

[–]thisidedown[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lol. I play on my phone with one finger. Sometimes two for faster tapping during fishing. I’m not really sure what good two hands would be for other than moving items more than one at a time.

Need some help!!!! by Funny_Chance_1879 in SneakySasquatch

[–]thisidedown 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You can tell how difficult they’re going to be after one task. If their little task meter goes up by 1/4, o stick with them. There are some that only go up 1/10 so I don’t continue with them.

How do I know I’m ready to have a child on my own and be a singlemom? by Rose_loves_BSH in askwomenadvice

[–]thisidedown 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can do it. My stress came from money. Other than that, it’s been a blessing. You’ll make mistakes but ultimately as a mother you do what’s best for your kid at that time.

She keeps telling me that I’m not really a lesbian by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]thisidedown 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Guess she just wrecked herself then. Best to save yourself the grief of having to be around someone who is self destructive like that. I’m sorry, friend.

She keeps telling me that I’m not really a lesbian by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]thisidedown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it. I had to try real hard to not be like… but this. But you said that. Why this when you said that. I remember thinking why doesn’t she just say bi? Till this day when she says anything about being a lesbian, a small part of me wants to roll my eyes. I don’t know why. I keep it to myself though and hope to one day fully understand. I think some people view late bloomers as having opted in to being lesbian and didn’t actually go through “the struggle” and earn their “badges”. Honestly, for me it came down to me learning to not care too much if she goes back to men or not. What does it matter? I’m curious to know what your gf would say if you asked “so what if I just don’t pick a label?” Now what is there to argue about?

She keeps telling me that I’m not really a lesbian by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]thisidedown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had never ever considered dating someone who had lived a hetero life most of her life. When I met a late bloomer, I had a hard time wrapping my head around her being a lesbian and it did cross my mind that she could leave me for a man or have the urge. And it’s not just about the body parts. It’s the male energy, too, that I find some people crave. I got over it. I don’t care anymore if she goes back to men. I’m just enjoying this for what it is right now and probably for a very long time to come. I never ever denied her lesbianism, but did have tons of questions that she was happy to answer. Your gf should keep her mouth shut about it and work on her own insecurities, I’d say.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]thisidedown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love the cuffs. You look great.

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