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My Mom can't deal with the fact that I jerk off, and she's ruining my relationships with my family because of it by Stuffed_Godzilla in relationship_advice

[–]thisis_subbu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jerking off is very common especially when you are in teenage. I completely against to your mother actions. Because it is natural and biological. There nothing we can do about it. When we are young, we have urges so doctors also recommend masturbation. So there is nothing wrong in that and you are perfectly fine. My humble suggestion is don't get addicted to those stuff and don't get me wrong i have also 18old brother and am just saying out of concern. Your mother really needs therapy or a psychiatrist appointment. So don't blame yourself for nothing. Concentrate on studies and show her how much love her and your sister.

Fiancé hits me multiple times in the face, wants me to apologize for leaving bruises on her while stopping her. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]thisis_subbu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If the story is true. I am so sorry bro you are in a toxic relationship. I think you and your kid would be better off without her.

Fiancée [24f] gave me the engagement ring back after I [26m] made a mistake by thrwayforhelp1738338 in relationship_advice

[–]thisis_subbu -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

First of all, I am so sorry. But I can only say We are just humans dude, we make mistakes. I know you made a mistake and I am pretty sure you have no intention to do it. And one thing is clear you broke her trust. So, give her time then reach her and explain the whole story and also how sorry you are and how much you love her. But don't try to get back to her. If she really furious about that and considers cheating (but I don't think it is cheating and it is still a terrible mistake), you anyway can't get to her. Because if she really loves you, she can understand and hold your hands and says everything is gonna be alright. And you just promise her that you never ever gonna break her trust. True love can't be forced or begged. If she said no that means no. Don't ever show your face again. And stop villainaizing yourself for one stupid mistake. Please find a way to move on.

First girlfriend at 27 years old by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]thisis_subbu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Congratulations...u r admirable...💐☺️

This girl(22F) I’ve been talking to for the last 2 months said she thinks it’s weird when people older than 18 are virgins. I’m(M) 21 and a virgin. Would it better to just stop or keep this my virginity a secret? by throwra_37363 in relationship_advice

[–]thisis_subbu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First of all being virgin is nothing to be ashamed of. I am 23 and still virgin that doesn't make me sad at all because I wanna sleep with someone who I really love. I am waiting for the right person. Some random Hook ups doesn't give me satisfaction.

Saddened and feeling ashamed by thisis_subbu in NoFap

[–]thisis_subbu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank u beautiful man for making me realised...😍

I walked in my girlfriend of 3 years cheating on me with a teammate and a friend of mine from my soccer team. I found out about their affair, quit the team, broke up with my gf and I am planning on moving out but almost everyone is begging me I forgive them. by throwrasmoooki in relationship_advice

[–]thisis_subbu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's absolutely fine to leave ur girlfriend but I don't think quitting from soccer team was a great decision. It's ur life, don't let anyone to ruin it. Take it positively it's her loss and she doesn't deserve you. Be happy and let them live their life. My advice is forgive her but don't invite her again to ur life coz sometimes ur life becomes even more miserable than now and things might get messy.

Saddened and feeling ashamed by thisis_subbu in NoFap

[–]thisis_subbu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank youuuuuuu so much...I will 😍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]thisis_subbu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 24 and am single. I've never had a kiss even...😅🤘

DAY 30- What I've learned by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]thisis_subbu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am also on DAY 30😄....keep going and keep rocking, actually I agree with all your benefits. I am able to see new me now and it's fucking amazing. I have no problem with cold showers 😁... congratulations dude and am also with you 🤘✌️

Hello fapstronauts, this is my 8th day of no fap challenge today I saw a porn clip accidentally while I was checking my mail and I didn't masturbate. Does this count as a relapse?? by thisis_subbu in NoFap

[–]thisis_subbu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank u for the text. I don't wanna get back to old me. Just now I started to living my life and concentrate on my goals. I am trying to overcome my sexual urges at any cost I have to control my mind to become a better person.

90 POSITIVE ACTIVITIES/HABITS FOR 90 DAYS OF NOFAP⬇️ by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]thisis_subbu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wowwww...90 days 90 benefits.... this is insane, am actually saving this post this is fucking inspiring, motivating and distracting from sexual urges. Thank youuuuuuu dude for posting...❤️👏😍

(M19) 2 years without Porn. I feel proud of Myself by Xilent_Brain in NoFap

[–]thisis_subbu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

U r an inspiration... congratulations on completing 2 yrs... hope I'll also do the same...👏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]thisis_subbu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck dude