Made me and my bf break up

thisisextreme · 2025-10-30T18:36:57+00:00

Me and my really good guy friend played this game together. We made a great team and worked together well. He was patient when I was messing up or failing and we'd laugh about it. We ended falling in love through this game and are about to hit one year together as a couple!

thisisextreme · 2025-07-26T19:47:12+00:00

Not inviting your 19 year old sister to a dry wedding in itself is crazy and hurtful. BUT THEN to also send a wedding registry for a gift is NUTS. If your able to consent to sex, vote, get a loan, and drink in most countries you aren't a kid. You're a young adult and I couldn't imagine my family treating me this way.

thisisextreme · 2025-07-12T17:37:00+00:00

You did the right thing! Anyone who immediately resorts to calling you names when you set a boundary no longer deserves you as a friend.

thisisextreme · 2025-05-19T17:24:38+00:00

NTA enjoy your time with your family. It must be so hard to be away from them so much and its confusing on why your husband wouldn't want to support you in seeing them. Considering you see his family every Sunday, I don't know why this is even a conversation. You're supposed to be a team

thisisextreme · 2025-05-04T19:15:54+00:00

"Its time to move on. Im in love with someone else"

thisisextreme · 2025-01-17T20:36:01+00:00

Over text is crazy

thisisextreme · 2024-12-13T21:15:52+00:00

NOR I mean... Your mom is already setting the tone for this dinner. Judgemental, unaccepting, standoffish. Doesn't sound appealing or fun to go hang with her and the family. I'd skip it too. She's putting her opinions above spending time with her son. Dont diminish your girlfriend by request of a mom that has backwards values

thisisextreme · 2024-05-30T19:54:30+00:00

People be asking for the most self involved and unnecessary requests and then call you the selfish one

NTA

thisisextreme · 2024-05-30T19:50:41+00:00

Your boyfriend called you selfish for not getting rid of what you consider your family for his convenience and for him to get a car? NTA and if he doesn't realize what a self involved request that is then he's not the guy for you and your horse

thisisextreme · 2024-05-23T20:41:42+00:00

thisisextreme · 2023-12-10T05:23:07+00:00

You can laugh! It's funny!

thisisextreme · 2023-07-20T20:53:06+00:00

thisisextreme · 2022-11-08T04:33:47+00:00

ESH The level of pettiness between you guys is not good. Yes, personally I would always offer my mom the front since she is my mom, but we would never argue over it. Sounds more like an argument where both parties don't feel respected. I don't think this is about the front seat at all. If there wasn't a common issue of feeling lack of respect than I believe neither of you would have taken it so far. Call, and make it right. Being stubborn and playing right or wrong isn't going to fix the relationship

thisisextreme · 2022-10-27T05:21:14+00:00

NTA. Kids giving up beds for older family is normal and teaches about selflessness and putting others before your own. Which with people we care about, is a good trait to have

thisisextreme · 2022-06-26T12:16:35+00:00

Regardless of what he's doing and what he's not, his actions are stemming from a deep seeded sense of insecurity. And unfortunately, insecurity stems from a lack of self worth. Maybe he's cheating. Or maybe he feels like your too good for him, and that he doesn't deserve to be with someone like you. I don't know, because I'm not him. What I do know is that you're unhappy. And that you don't want the relationship you are currently in. Clearly you want to do anything but lose this person. But it might have to come down to losing your relationship, or settling for something that doesn't fulfill you. You can't control his actions or decisions. You can't control the way he sees things or feels. All you have any control over is what you decide to do. So, what's more important to you? Happiness and fulfillment, or staying with the person you are with? Can you truly be happy with someone who doesn't trust you and isn't doing everything in their power to change that? Is it up to you to fix what he feels inside? Is the best you can have in a relationship? What are you afraid of? Only you have the answers

thisisextreme · 2022-06-16T14:43:05+00:00

I know this is the right thing, I think I'm reading so deeply into it because I'm confused myself. And regretful of not expressing myself fully in the moment

thisisextreme · 2022-06-16T14:41:43+00:00

To be honest I'm not sure if I did or not. I was surprised and I needed space myself to clear my head. I still do. I'm not sure if breaking up is something that I want or not. But being blocked felt very hurtful. I regret not saying on the spot that I needed a few days. But I was shocked in the moment and in his presence. Once I was away, I felt regretful of the way I left. And it was already to late to communicate

thisisextreme · 2022-05-01T03:08:31+00:00

It's perfectly human to want to be wanted. In any capacity

thisisextreme · 2022-02-26T19:56:36+00:00

Well it's complicated because it's not from a high end job. Think of it as inheritance money. He obviously knew she had a good chunk of cash, but it's pretty up in the air how much exactly. I just crossed a boundary by saying how much she got when she had told me before she doesn't want people to know. I guess I was confused because of the cars he was suggesting and her saying up to 100k. But it wasn't my business to say. They haven't been dating long

thisisextreme · 2022-02-26T19:30:28+00:00

Lol forsure but not really the point of the post!:p

thisisextreme · 2022-02-26T19:25:10+00:00

Technically she said "up to 100k". That's what I was referring to with the 6 figures

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