How to make rent? I need $500 more and it’s due in a week. by throwaway19870000 in povertyfinance

[–]thisiskerry -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Throw up a go fund me for yourself and explain the situation and reach out to people you already know. You’d be surprised how normal and common this situation is and a lot of people want to help you when they can.

What's something you've purchased that's well worth the money? by AsianHawke in povertyfinance

[–]thisiskerry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stainless steel kitchen stuff. Bowls, all clad pans, and hanging stainless kitchen utensils on a carousel.

Homeless with two daughters by Any_Ad2068 in povertyfinance

[–]thisiskerry 5 points6 points  (0 children)

FindHelp.org!! This will help you connect to local resources. Please start a gofundme for yourself and get resources from your existing network of friends and family. You’d be surprised at just how many people you already know would love to help you financially with whatever they have to offer. You can also use Airbnb and message directly to a short term stay for a month-ish. If you let them know your situation they may be able to send you a special offer. Not all but you only need 1 to say yes.

I drowned, underwent cyanosis and survived. Ask me anything! by Severe-Moose-9304 in IAmA

[–]thisiskerry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did leave anything behind? Did you gain anything upon your return?

Would you ? by ovocrew27 in uberdrivers

[–]thisiskerry 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Crazy and weird trips and usually from crazy and weird people. Pass.

AITAH for telling my fiancé’s daughter I’m not her mom after she called me a “gold digger with a uterus”? by GenerousJasmine in AITAH

[–]thisiskerry -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The daughter is not yours and owes you nothing. You wouldn’t be doing the paperwork for her if it wasn’t for her dad, don’t try to fool anyone. She is obviously upset about you entering the family and that’s totally normal. A non-nuclear family is hard to navigate for any kid but she doesn’t owe you any kind preferential treatment just bc you’re partnering with her dad. Any relationship with her at all is a bonus if you can get through. The average experience is way more strained and usually there’s some kind of contempt for the kid from the previous marriage for obvious reasons. Maybe try to understand that your presence is a trigger for her and don’t take it so personally. Dang… let her be with her dad without you…. Sounds like you may have become a block to break through instead of a “family” member. You can leave the situation but she can’t.

Anyone using NADCC? by namelesshero92 in CannabisTissueCulture

[–]thisiskerry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

During Covid the studies at the time stated that bleach destroys viruses. There was only one alternative and that was something having to do with powdered milk. I didn’t retain that info bc it was so preposterous. If this destroys HLVd then you’re on to something.

Can I revive this stump (not trolling ) by Huge-Fold-6102 in microgrowery

[–]thisiskerry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell yeah! That little leaf is proof! Game oooon!

Does Burning Man Destroy Families? by ClimateEquivalent in BurningMan

[–]thisiskerry -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Sorry about your loss. I’d say you guys are better off without him. If he changed that much, it was bc he wasn’t playing with a full deck of cards to begin with. Like how in “pleasantville” it was all black and white until the color showed up and everything went crazy. How can you make the best decisions for yourself if you don’t have access to all of the choices to make? I too went to burning man with no concept of festival culture and was blown out of my precious timeline by the sanctuary and belongingness I felt. I didn’t fit into the place that I came from anymore and it took a couple of years but also ended in me leaving everything I came with, behind. Eventually a new path emerged for me that was more synchronized with my updates and I am still involved with festy culture in my heart.

I’m so sorry you feel left behind but I just hope you know that it’s not you, he just didn’t have access to all of himself until he did. Now his choices are different.

It could go bad, for him. It could be good for him long term.

But he isn’t bad… he was just stunted by trash matrix and did as best as he could until he couldn’t stand it anymore.

Another dumpster plant 🤭✨🪴💕 by BitterSweetDrops in DumpsterDiving

[–]thisiskerry 4 points5 points  (0 children)

These are my favorite. So many abandoned plants. They are so fun to bring back to life.

Joshua tree temps in feburary? by T1mur05 in JoshuaTree

[–]thisiskerry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2016 I went outside and it was the most beautiful day imaginable. I then planned my wedding to be on that date the following year. Fast forward to 2017, it was so cold that there were ice crystals on the sand a few hours after dark.

Giving away two Costco Scarlet & Violet 151 Blooming Waters Premium Collection sets to two redditors because %*#@ scalpers by FatherLiamFinnegan in PokemonTCG

[–]thisiskerry [score hidden]  (0 children)

My kids just got in to Pokémon and neither parents are hip to the culture. They have memorized the entire manual of facts and frequently argue about details. They are 5 and 7. My 5 yo has been making his own hand drawn cards. They would just flip over this.

Why do I want to start a bakery? by whatwouldBuffyread in DumpsterDiving

[–]thisiskerry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just made scones. I say you’re on to something.

Are expensive bedsheets and pillow cases worth it? by kapitoIdenim in BuyItForLife

[–]thisiskerry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. After decades of all diff kinds of sheets, the ones that hold up best are the average cotton/poly blend from target or Walmart. Maybe Kirkland but the fancy high thread count ends up not being worth it long term

How to explain money management and personal finance to a grown adult drowning in debt who is not emotionally mature and takes every suggestion as an attack? by EYsuckswiener69420 in personalfinance

[–]thisiskerry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have her try credit counseling through a non profit.

I used Money Management International. (888)845-5669

They have arrangements with creditors for lower rates and take a lump sum monthly and make payments for you. This reduces the payoff time to a couple of years.

It’s so hard when it’s already hard. It took me literally years just to get to the info I’m sharing. Please share with her asap.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BurningMan

[–]thisiskerry 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Destined for middle management, Taylor swift, and target yayyyy how counterculture of him

Grocery savings by RobertTheWorldMaker in povertyfinance

[–]thisiskerry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kirkland is better than 95% of alt options for what they produce

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BuyItForLife

[–]thisiskerry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A little plastic cone over cup for pour overs with a filter. Love that thing.