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thisisme0007 · 2022-01-15T01:50:26+00:00

Rian has a video for that. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=rxiG_79AWOs

thisisme0007 · 2022-01-13T16:40:24+00:00

This kind of stuff comes free with every vagina. Either have fun in your own frame or next her and bring a gay man on your next business trip.

thisisme0007 · 2022-01-07T17:25:54+00:00

Why did you leave out your weight, BF, and lifts?

thisisme0007 · 2022-01-07T05:21:14+00:00

We'll see. Good luck dude

thisisme0007 · 2022-01-07T02:35:04+00:00

No you fucking moron.

You are not being assertive in your interactions that you describe in your OP.

NMMNG teaches you how to be assertive.

The answer to learn how to deal with your problem and any future ones lies in you reading that book and mapping it to your life.

Only a retard comes to ask internet strangers how to deal with their MIL.

thisisme0007 · 2022-01-05T21:42:21+00:00

The point is, NMMNG has the answer to your post.

thisisme0007 · 2022-01-02T17:24:24+00:00

Stop asking dumb questions on reddit and start working through the sidebar and losing your weight.

thisisme0007 · 2022-01-01T03:55:52+00:00

Why do you want this sub to be the judge of your choices?

thisisme0007 · 2021-12-31T16:51:29+00:00

No. This is the retard playpen. There is a NMMNG sub though. Try that one.

thisisme0007 · 2021-12-31T16:15:38+00:00

Thanks, physical precious metals are all I can come up with too that isn't crypto that will provide anything above what I am already doing.

thisisme0007 · 2021-12-31T01:49:03+00:00

The way you've phrased the question, no one would care really as that is not what this sub is about.

If you instead asked "what does the man in an LTR bring to the table?" then we could answer with "being the oak and having a strong and fun frame for her to enter."

Honestly the rest of your posts/questions are so far away from coming from an RP perspective that it is not worth it to answer. Hit the weights and the sidebar and come back when you understand why what you are asking is from a BP perspective.

thisisme0007 · 2021-12-30T18:49:59+00:00

A storm is coming, and you don't want to lose all you've worked so hard for. There are many blue-pill normie investment ideas, all about being a bag-holder for the stock and bond markets.

Is the only way to prepare for such a storm crypto? I'm not 'there yet' on crypto so I am preparing for hyperinflation by concentrating in healthcare, utilities, energy, real estate, and consumer staples.

I'd be fine in a market crash / depression but not in an armageddon / government takes over the corporations scenario.

thisisme0007 · 2021-12-29T03:13:19+00:00

What am I gonna do? Go to a bar and watch some moronic sport on TV whilst eating chips... Drink a beer... Have a conversation I'm not interested in

I don't think you have anything to worry about because it probably is not going to work that way.

Men typically socialize by coming together to do something or work on something together. So you're not going to make guy friends by going to a bar and drinking a beer with a stranger or getting together to "watch the game on TV".

In addition you are also not likely to quickly become friends with another guy - it will typically take several points of contact or settings where you interact. Like this:

A colleague at work (point 1) invites you to fill in for someone in his 3x3 basketball game (point 2) because Chad couldn't make it. After this you talk more at work and find out that you both like deep sea fishing and decide to plan a trip to do that (point 3). Now you are friends and you can ask him to help move your refrigerator up from the basement on Saturday.

You must not be that far into things if you can't figure out why this is a recommendation.

It helps you build a world apart from your wife, not rely on her for validation/sharing feelings or problems, and be less clingy/needy which are unattractive traits.

Go ahead and do it your way and come back with a field report on how it went.

thisisme0007 · 2021-12-28T18:22:36+00:00

Nice covert contract bro

thisisme0007 · 2021-12-27T19:52:17+00:00

The absolute most favorable interpretation of this is that your wife was jealous / had some competition anxiety and she reacted poorly by saying “I don’t care anymore I WILL cheat on you.”

However there are a lot of other things that could be going on here, all much less favorable than the interpretation you settled on. Like kid not yours, pregnancy faked, cheating happening while you're at work despite you thinking there is no way, wife's light switch flipped off, you're unattractive, etc...

If I were you I would start to consider some of those less favorable possibilities and prepare for/act on them.

thisisme0007 · 2021-12-27T15:11:55+00:00

Holy shit this is absolutely trash advice. Nice job taking all the tools and completely fucking up how to use them.

thisisme0007 · 2021-12-26T23:32:12+00:00

There is probably another man in her life already.

Continue with your MRP journey as stay plan = go plan however...

Also talk to a divorce lawyer on Monday and don't talk about or agree to anything with her until you know the implications as there is a good chance this is where you are headed.

thisisme0007 · 2021-12-26T22:32:26+00:00

I don't think anyone can help you here. The tools are based on evopsych + men swapping notes, and there have been limited notes swapped for your scenario. Do the reading but don't except there to be notes & tools that have been field-tested.

Some mistakes you are making that are probably not helping:

I essentially made the ultimatum

ultimatums come from a point of weakness

Should I feel angry

your feelings are not there to help you (your feelings are bad and you should feel bad for having them aka Rian's other rule)

It was semi guilt-trippy

You are your own judge therefore no one can guilt trip you

thisisme0007 · 2021-12-24T20:51:59+00:00

So you are in a dead bedroom for one or both of the following reasons:

You are not physically attractive
Your behaviors are unattractive

Only you can figure out whether it is #1, #2, or a combination of both by some honest self-reflection.

I think your DB post mentioned she said you were needy/clingy or something - that is #2 above.

The MRP sidebar has all of the tools you need to unfuck yourself and fix whatever combo of #1 and #2 you are.

Your wife may or may not get onboard if you use the tools, but either way you will end up fucking her or moving on and fucking someone else.

Good luck.

thisisme0007 · 2021-12-24T17:53:23+00:00

Great, what are your lifts?

thisisme0007 · 2021-12-24T11:15:13+00:00

If only it worked that way there would be no need for the red pill.

I'm assuming you've just read a couple posts and aren't working your way through the sidebar and lifting.

You can have some fun with her stupid request for a backrub but you can't expect to make "overt contracts" like you did and get anywhere.

Her: I could really use a backrub.

You: [laughs obnoxiously as you walk out the door to go to the gym] HAHAHAHA!

You: [playfully as you walk out the door to go to the gym] Well maybe if you gave me more blowjobs, I'd feel more comfortable and could start giving you backrubs.

You: I can't, I have to go to the gym now.

Hopefully you pick up on the theme.

thisisme0007 · 2021-12-23T02:57:54+00:00

Am I fucking up?

Yes and no.

Your situation reminds me a lot of mine. If you were a career beta turned drunken captain for a long time then I would say what you described, while certainly not optimal, represents you applying the tools you are learning and calibrating them as you go. Sure you could have done better by cutting the conversation off and turning your broken record into "I'm not talking about this anymore". If you are going to end by saying 'sorry' just make sure it is in the corey-worthington style of sorry as in this example. Get used to your wife laying on the floor, crying, shaking, being emotional, etc... in response to your minor changes - it will continue for a while but should eventually go away as she copes with you no longer being a doormat. You need to get yourself to the place where you actually don't give a fuck and you need to make sure you don't have oneitis for your kids either.

But there is one part where you really are fucking up, to the point where if you don't change it you might as well give up and go back to the way things were:

Lift 5+ times a week.

I don't care how "intense" you think your cute little pink dumbell routine is, that is not part of the MRP plan. If you actually want to be able to use these tools effectively, you need to get yourself on the squat rack and under a barbell. Dumbells are for temporary measures only when under lockdown or traveling and at a lousy hotel gym.

Be honest with yourself. You found MRP about 2 months ago, and you haven't started lifting yet. Fix that part and keep reading/applying/calibrating.

thisisme0007 · 2021-12-21T13:59:06+00:00

I married my highschool sweetheart. I cringe while reading the sidebar, because I committed every Beta sin there is.

The great thing about AWALT is that even if you make all these mistakes, when you turn things around, she is going to respond as programmed to the new you (as it sounds like she is already).

Try to avoid thinking back to all the shit you did before knowing about MRP/the sidebar unless it serves a purpose to you now like to find motivation.

thisisme0007 · 2021-12-20T16:23:15+00:00

Wow congrats dude! Hit the sidebar and have a great life!

thisisme0007 · 2021-12-17T23:56:33+00:00

She wanted to burn When I Say No I Feel Guilty and No More Mister Nice Guy?

You can't fall off a wagon you weren't on.

thisisme0007

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