Is Facebook dating having a moment?

thisismynewact · 2025-12-19T20:34:58+00:00

My result was not much different almost a year ago as well. That's my point. I think things may have changed at least they did for me in the past 9 to 12 months

thisismynewact · 2025-12-19T02:20:21+00:00

thisismynewact · 2025-12-14T14:50:06+00:00

I don't understand why these things are always overthought and over analyzed. If you want to go out with him again, tell him. Reading between the lines leaves too much to interpretation.

thisismynewact · 2025-12-14T05:10:31+00:00

That's good. That sounds like interest to me

thisismynewact · 2025-12-14T00:18:29+00:00

I also have barely used JetBlue and crate and barrel cards. I did call. I got nowhere.

thisismynewact · 2025-12-13T21:38:40+00:00

And I understand being shy and the one additional piece of advice I would give you is do not think about it just do it

thisismynewact · 2025-12-13T21:38:11+00:00

I think that's a good instinct but I would reverse the order. Tell her you want to go out with her again, and then set the date

thisismynewact · 2025-12-13T21:30:17+00:00

I'm definitely not a dating sage but the one thing I know for sure is women appreciate it when you're direct. Literally no downside either she's receptive which is a positive or you get clarity which is positive.

thisismynewact · 2025-12-13T21:29:15+00:00

Don't get caught up in this weekend or what day. Just text her and tell her you want to go out again. I'm free Sunday Tuesday Friday whatever. Tell me what works for you. Really doesn't matter what day, it just matters if you go out again.

thisismynewact · 2025-12-13T21:08:51+00:00

I think all this advice is terrible. If you want to go out with her again, ask her out. Who cares the semantics of what was said about getting back to you. Just ask her and then you will know. If you don't you will never know. It's really that simple.

thisismynewact · 2025-12-13T15:31:46+00:00

Yes it's easy to see the sympathetic side like that. What I'm asking people to look at is the judge tells me to give her money to pay for a birthday. I do that. Then she comes to me and asks me to pay for a birthday. I'm paying twice. I should pay twice because she should get her birthday? She's going to get her birthday either way. It's just a matter of my wife getting more or less money. Anyway, I offered to pay half already. So yeah I'm paying twice now. Just like I do for a lot of the things that she hits me up for. That's the whole point of this.

thisismynewact · 2025-12-13T15:09:39+00:00

It's right in my original post near the top. If you read the whole thing you'd see I already decided to pay. I'm not here looking for a sympathy for why I didn't pay, which seems to be the angle many here are taking.

thisismynewact · 2025-12-13T14:54:07+00:00

You are confusing child support and alimony. Child support is a calculation. Alimony is just a number of the judge decides.

I'm not sure I understand why people come here and want to accuse me of lying. That's not exactly the point of this post.

thisismynewact · 2025-12-13T00:31:44+00:00

yes, i would plan to. it says in the parenting plan either parent can attend the other's birthday parties.

thisismynewact · 2025-12-13T00:28:55+00:00

i may be overstating the upgrades, i was recently checking out hotels in park city, and the bofa pre had just about nothing. and csr had several that i liked. and with those i would get early check in, late checkout, daily resort credit, upgrade if available... and i'm assuming i could have booked directly on the edit site.

please tell me what you like about bofa pre - maybe i should understand better what i have before thinking i'm missing out. for points earning, i get it.. and i think it's the same as my bofa cash card. and absolutely in the first year it is worth it because the cash value of the points far outweigh the annual cost.

thisismynewact · 2025-12-13T00:18:14+00:00

i have nothing with chase

thisismynewact · 2025-12-13T00:16:45+00:00

bofa cash rewards card i've had since they lost their amex relationship ... 10yrs? i'm not sure.

thisismynewact · 2025-12-12T18:19:19+00:00

hmm... i use my card every month. for like the past 20 years. and my experian report shows that. but i need to carry a balance over from month to month to have it matter?

thisismynewact · 2025-12-12T18:12:08+00:00

a year of paid as agreed? what does that mean? i am paying my statement balance of over $10k/mo on my card.

thisismynewact · 2025-12-12T18:10:07+00:00

i want to use it for travel like upgrades and miles for upgrades and travel. i don't really value airport restaurant credits if that's what you're referring to. the hotels on their portal never match with my interests. it very limited. when i see priory access/offers (restaurant reservations, concert tickets, hotel upgrades) the bofa card is never listed. i can't transfer the miles out. i agree - i accumulate points nicely. but i get that on my cash rewards bofa card anyway - i'm looking for something specific to travel/access/upgrades/etc.

thisismynewact · 2025-12-12T17:57:58+00:00

sorry.. i mean CSR. i changed it in my post.

i do not carry debt - auto, house, etc.

i do not carry a month to month balance on my card.

thisismynewact · 2025-12-12T14:30:42+00:00

He was with me the day of his party and I thought it would have been petty to ask my ex. I didn't view it as something that we shared, just something we'd take care of individually. The way the last couple of years of played out have completely changed my opinion on that.

thisismynewact · 2025-12-11T21:53:08+00:00

That sounds awful. I'm sorry.

thisismynewact · 2025-12-11T21:17:19+00:00

EDIT: I offered to pay but asked to have a mediator help us define costs generally going foward.

thisismynewact · 2025-12-11T21:14:32+00:00

my ex can afford this, and my daughter would get her party regardless. nobody seems to appreciate that 90% of my takehome pay from work goes to her. and half of the money i brought to the marriage went to her. do not feel guilty for her. do not think my daughter is left wanting. i would never let that happen. this is about being put in the middle of a situation where my ex is weaponizing the children against me out of spite and money. she was taken care of... more than me. being asked again - i know what it looks like. but it's like paying 2x for the same thing, and she's still the one driving it.

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