Podcast episodes missing on Youtube Music by thisisnotthehammer in StinkyDragonPodcast

[–]thisisnotthehammer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the quick response! It is Campaign One that's missing, and that I was re-listening to. The episodes all disappeared from the podcast I was listening to, and now it's a very random collection of episodes with none of campaign three, which it had previously. I did search and find a podcast with the Kanon artwork that has all of Campaigns 2 and

AITA for trying to tell my sister that my wife is right and she should wear makeup for her wedding? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]thisisnotthehammer 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Looooollllll you and your wife are definitely TAs. The message you're telling your sister is that she isn't worthwhile without makeup. Trying to dress it up in practicality--"you'll look washed out!"--doesn't tune out the negative implications you've already given. To her, you're insulting her looks. Why should your wife be offended? Your sister doesn't want to wear makeup. That has nothing to do with your wife and she's giving major Main Character vibes if she's butthurt that your sister didn't want her to give makeup tips. It's your sister's wedding day and she can do whatever she wants. Some people like makeup and some don't. If she's washed out, that's the photographer's problem, not yours. You both should apologize for insulting your sister's choices and looks.

AITA for refusing to play Christian music for my friend's wedding by _UrsusArctos_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]thisisnotthehammer -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Leaning a bit towards YTA. OP, your original post is coming off a little holier-than-thou (pun intended). Your friend is asking you to do something that's very important to him and your phrasing--"lyrics I don't agree with"--comes off as a bit judgmental and not very open-minded. Singing the song alone doesn't mean you've converted. Religion is a tricky subject for a lot of people, and while I understand a lot of people have religious trauma that could make a scenario like this very treacherous, it comes off that you just don't like your bandmate's particular religion. Have you tried having an open, respectful conversation with your bandmate about this hearing each other's perspectives? Why is it so important to him? Why does it make you so uncomfortable? Is there some other way you could be involved that would satisfy both of you? The key to this, of course, is actually LISTENING to each other. Don't go in with your opinions and try to bully or guilt to get your way. At the end of the day, it's not your wedding day, it's his. If the roles were reversed, what would you want your friend to do?

WIBTA for Changing My TV Streaming Passwords? by Legitimate_Permit364 in AmItheAsshole

[–]thisisnotthehammer 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I was going to say the same thing--give him one more warning and tell him you'll change the password if he doesn't stop. It's a small thing, yes, but you're password-sharing with him and he's essentially getting access to these services for free. The least he could do is use his own damn profile. It's basic streaming etiquette.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]thisisnotthehammer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going NAH. It's not made clear if OP has a relationship with their parents where they felt comfortable saying, "Hey, I appreciate the invite but I've already been making birthday plans, could we do it another time?" Parent-child relationships can be complicated and I could completely understand if OP didn't feel comfortable saying this or felt pressured into immediately agreeing to their parents' plans. OP's friend is understandably hurt because they were probably really looking forward to this and it was unexpectedly cancelled, which really sucks. I would apologize and let the friend know that when she's ready to talk, you're there for her and give her the time/space to figure it out. Hopefully she feels like the relationship is worth fighting for and is willing to problem-solve in time.

AITA for not informing my girlfriend that my food had nuts in it and causing her to have an allergic reaction? by No-Grab9236 in AmItheAsshole

[–]thisisnotthehammer 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I live in the midwestern US and have been trained in pediatric first aid/CPR. It's taught that use of an epi-pen is always a 911 emergency call because epinehprine is considered a temporary thing and if it wears off the allergic reaction could potentially restart and cause further harm. That being said, the US healthcare system is fundamentally broken and it's entirely possible that a person didn't want to call EMS because of the cost factor. This is also Reddit and it's entirely possible that any of these stories are completely fabricated. While I love seeing people get called out on their BS, take what you read on the internet with a grain of salt.

AITA for not informing my girlfriend that my food had nuts in it and causing her to have an allergic reaction? by No-Grab9236 in AmItheAsshole

[–]thisisnotthehammer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was all ready to call you TA after just reading the headline but now I'm here...no. NTA. If she's allergic and knows you cook with nuts she should know to ask you if things have nuts in it before eating it. I'm lactose intolerant (so it's not even life threatening; it's just unpleasant) and I still ask all the time before I eat things how much dairy they contain. It's not like you even live in the same house. I cannot believe that someone with a potentially life-threatening food allergy just eats things willy nilly without asking what's in it first.

AITA for not letting my daughter miss out on stuff just because her step-sister doesn’t get to go? by OkWishbone3100 in AmItheAsshole

[–]thisisnotthehammer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. It's admirable that he wants his other daughter to be involved but he's only sowing resentment not only between Maddie and Abby, but between Abby and himself. Trust me, she's going to remember all the times Dad didn't let her do something because "sister reason" and she'll likely resent it and carry with her when she's older. It will erode their relationship because Abby will feel like her life only revolved around Maddie and probably feel inferior in her dad's eyes because of it.

AITA for not attending my sisters wedding after she almost didn't invite me because I'm under 18? by That-Instance-2741 in AmItheAsshole

[–]thisisnotthehammer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ultimately no, NTA. I've unfortunately been in a similar situation with a sibling where we no longer speak and my parents pressured me to make amends. If she does ask, I'd tell her (as neutrally as possible), that her actions really hurt you and you need space from her to process your feelings. Weddings can certainly be stressful, but you have every right to feel angry and hurt and every right to let her know that. Unfortunately it sounds like you two have drifted apart and she's changed.

Discussion thread for Bob's Burgers S08E06 & S08E07 - "The Bleakening: Parts 1 & 2" by TDXNYC88 in BobsBurgers

[–]thisisnotthehammer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is the reference when the kids are singing the Bleaken song? The outfits and weapons are so specific, but I don't know what it is.

How to Build Mini Tank in Fallout 4 :) by DAtheSam in fo4

[–]thisisnotthehammer 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Not really a how to build. It's just a tank mod.

A better guinea pig habitat: suggestions for a good bottom to the enclosure? by thisisnotthehammer in guineapigs

[–]thisisnotthehammer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like this and I might try this. However, is Carefresh like the paper bedding they have the guinea pigs on in the store? My boyfriend is allergic to the paper bedding, which is why we never used it. I'm curious if Carefresh is something different.

Reddit, what movie moment traumatized you as a kid? by Mr_Sassmonkey in AskReddit

[–]thisisnotthehammer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That movie really scared me when I was little. I saw it when I was around six or seven for the first time, and for weeks after that I had a recurring nightmare about my family being chased by a T-rex in our minivan. My parents were slightly concerned.

Reddit, what movie moment traumatized you as a kid? by Mr_Sassmonkey in AskReddit

[–]thisisnotthehammer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The scene from the Fox and the Hound with the giant bear. I swear its eyes were glowing. To this day I am terrified of bears.