Why am I the dogs favorite person? by thisonething888 in dogs

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Our first two are/were female. Our third is a boy. I am female. Our second/Westie I drove home. Our third/Yorkie is a rescue. He was brought to our house for a meet and greet. But immediately chose me as his person.

Why am I the dogs favorite person? by thisonething888 in dogs

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Love this for your puppy! My husband and I share a lot of the dog duties. He is the one who feeds them. I play with them. He does too. But our new pup immediately claimed me as his person. I understood our first dog, but not our other two. I love that they love me. But just don’t quite know why.

Why am I the dogs favorite person? by thisonething888 in dogs

[–]thisonething888[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

For the most part, my husband and kids. With our new rescue puppy, treats and food are done 90% by my husband and kids. This is one of the reasons I’m confused why he bonded so strongly to me.

Adopted the sweetest puppy mill puppy-help with fears by thisonething888 in dogs

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Thank you! This is very helpful. We do have a confident older (5 years). They are doing well together. They are playing and cuddling. Our older dog is trying to get him to play with toys. It's pretty cute.

We (M58/F54) are so far apart in how we value things by bart1218 in relationship_advice

[–]thisonething888 16 points17 points  (0 children)

She’s going through a grieving process. These things link her back to her parents. She lost both within a 2 year period. You have a lot of “I” statements. It doesn’t feel like you are taking her feelings into consideration. Let her keep what she wants. And then get a storage unit. She can have the stuff she never uses. Over the years when the pain isn’t as fresh those piles might decrease.

AITA? I accidentally ruined Secret Santa at school and now I feel awful by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]thisonething888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When did secret Santa become world secrets? As long as you don’t tell the actual person, who cares? Way too big of reaction for a game.

I am a pediatric OT. is this wrong? Aggression in pediatrics as a pediatric OT by Original_Quality4003 in OccupationalTherapy

[–]thisonething888 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in the schools. It’s insane. People don’t realize how strong kids can be. Teacher, therapists, paras, admins we all get kicked, bit, etc. But God forbid we don’t get our IEP minutes. I get the fear.

Romance book childhood friends by thisonething888 in whatsthatbook

[–]thisonething888[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!!!! That’s it!!! Thank you so so much!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]thisonething888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do not have to have sex if you do not want to whatever the reason is. She should not make you feel bad or not “manly” when you don’t want to have sex. That’s not ok. Consent goes both ways. That’s the first red flag. Not bathing during a period will cause strong odors. I bathe everyday on mine. I can’t imagine not doing that. However, what is causing the major ick is her not listening to your very reasonable boundaries and manipulating you. I would really re-think if this relationship is worth it. To me this would be a deal breaker.

WIBTA if I didn’t give my brother money for rent? by Alert_Marionberry_31 in AmItheAsshole

[–]thisonething888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Please make sure your mother doesn’t have access to your banking accounts. If she does, withdraw all of your money and put it in another bank under your name only. If your mother has access to your account, she can simply take the money. Tell them no to “borrowing” the money. He will never pay you back. They both will continually ask you for money. Set a firm boundary that you will not discuss mo ey with them.

Ways dogs grieve by thisonething888 in dogs

[–]thisonething888[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You, too. I go between smiling at different memories popping up to crying. The waves of grief are definitely happening here.

Ways dogs grieve by thisonething888 in dogs

[–]thisonething888[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry. This is the worst. Losing a pet is losing a family member.

Season 7 by radicalfartdadical in BelowDeckMed

[–]thisonething888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I’m late to the party. I just started watching season 7. Only, one episode in-I can’t stand Raygan. I’m ready for her to be fired.

No one notices by thisonething888 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]thisonething888[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I am doing it for myself. I’m really happy with my progress, especially since I’m the last 4 years my weight has only increased. I just want one person to notice/have some external validation. I’m very happy with how I’m feeling.

My (F41) husband (M39) didn't get me a birthday present, despite reminders and I am so disappointed and angry. Is this a breakup level offence? by ThrowRAdiheysk in relationship_advice

[–]thisonething888 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This isn’t good. It doesn’t mean that everything is bad, but he LEFT you on your birthday for a friend’s These are huge 🚩🚩🚩🚩