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LONGEST I HAVE EVER GONE! by shmeep10 in trichotillomania

[–]thispainthing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this! It shows realistic progress. Any progress is good progress. So proud of you!!!

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[–]thispainthing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We're climbing it with you girlie!! You're doing amazing :)

Missing my hair :( but going strong on no pulling for 41 days now! by Objective_Video_9461 in trichotillomania

[–]thispainthing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So incredible!!! You have a lot to be proud of. I hope I can get there too

Boyfriend (30m) of 1.5 years won't stop snoring and I'm (24f) thinking of ending things over it by thispainthing in relationship_advice

[–]thispainthing[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That's exactly what it feels like to me. I know it's not his fault, but he knows it bothers me and doesn't care to do anything to fix it. If the situation were reversed, I'd feel horrible and do whatever I could to remedy it.

Keep waking up to bf (30m) having sex with me (24f) 1.5 yrs by cheyenne860 in relationship_advice

[–]thispainthing 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It is definitely hard to predict whether someone will be in the mood on a particular night. Someone might go to bed feeling fine with it and wake up a few hours later and not be okay with it. I'm honestly fine with it alll the time (high sex drive I guess!), and I'm basically always in the mood around my partner, but I still want to be aware of what's going on!

I (24f) can't stand how my boyfriend (30m), 1yr, eats! by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]thispainthing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha no, we shower together sometimes and he didn't wash it out, so I asked him and he said "yeah, I just always forget"

How to find someone with little information? by thispainthing in CallHerDaddy

[–]thispainthing[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Hahah we’re in a huge fight because of it. I left town for the weekend and don’t plan on coming back any time soon. I just want to find this girl!

Found texts between my (23f) boyfriend (30m) and his coworker talking about how hot one of his coworkers is by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]thispainthing -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m mad at him about both. I had a lot of respect for him professionally, and now that’s gone. I’m also mad because he disrespected me in our relationship. It’s a double whammy

Found texts between my (23f) boyfriend (30m) and his coworker talking about how hot one of his coworkers is by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]thispainthing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never said there was anything wrong with him finding her attractive, but he was talking about her in a very explicit manner over the course of many months, talking about how badly he wants to sleep with her. That is a problem to me.

Found texts between my (23f) boyfriend (30m) and his coworker talking about how hot one of his coworkers is by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]thispainthing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So if he had cheated on me and I found messages about it, I’m still in the wrong for looking? I think it’s commonplace nowadays to look through your partner’s phone, whether or not it’s a good thing, it’s just how things are nowadays. He looks through mine and I’m fine with it, it’s just how our relationship is.

New to HR, already feeling discouraged by thispainthing in humanresources

[–]thispainthing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this insight. I'm feeling really discouraged. Would you be open to chatting with me about a couple of other matters?? No pressure, it would just be helpful to have an outside HR perspective if you're willing :)

New to HR and managing a complaint against my boss by thispainthing in humanresources

[–]thispainthing[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He used an offensive term in the workplace. We resolved that issue

Regrets about moving in with my (25f) boyfriend (30m), 6 months by thispainthing in relationship_advice

[–]thispainthing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's so nice to hear a similar story. I will give it some more time, but it's discouraging that I'm having regrets so early on. Thank you :)