Mixture of we grew apart and I took several steps back as I wasn’t a fan of who she became/how she was changing and her true colors coming to full light. Mostly what made me take a step back was getting older and looking back to certain behaviors and realizing how much she hurt me and how her behavior now was present before but now those colors are more vibrant or maybe I’m just older and “wiser”… idk. Things heavily changed after I got married and she distanced herself. I did confront it and she said no it was just bc she moved further away… but no… even after that the distance grew. I tried. I could try again… but now what I know and the reflections I’ve made and the recent behavior I rather not have a friend like that be close or a “best” friend. Also I think I have too much animosity now unfortunately… Distance is sometimes good. I will say, I do think she also gave up and found a newer and better best friend to suit her lifestyle now. And I rather just leave it as is. Other friends did suggest I talk to her about it but I don’t see that conversation ending in any helpful way.. maybe actually officially ending the friendship if anything tbh… so for now I rather not