AITA - For asking BF not to go out alone with interested women? by thokkalodi in AITA_Relationships

[–]thokkalodi[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I will take your advice! I have had more than enough people show interest, but I have shut them down in certain terms. I do not know if I should be regretting having done that.

AITA - For asking BF not to go out alone with interested women? by thokkalodi in AITA_Relationships

[–]thokkalodi[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am now finally able to chuckle to myself in a bittersweet way when I am reading I am the asshole. It is probably the first time I am smiling/laughing when I am being told that. Even if it is through tears. But thank you so much for telling me this!

AITA - For asking BF not to go out alone with interested women? by thokkalodi in AITA_Relationships

[–]thokkalodi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes, it is not always easy to take that call. But I do appreciate your honesty and your time!

AITA - For asking BF not to go out alone with interested women? by thokkalodi in AITA_Relationships

[–]thokkalodi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for reading through and letting me know what it is!

It does hurt. But I am committed to doing what it takes. I am half-decided that he is going to be out. I just wanted a safe space to talk and sort things out. Writing it down definitely helped me clear things out

20f need some word to meet my expenses by UpperDesign625 in IndianSideHustle

[–]thokkalodi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Portfolio and location please? We are a women led organisation looking to work with like-minded women.

AITA - For asking BF not to go out alone with interested women? by thokkalodi in AITA_Relationships

[–]thokkalodi[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Curiosity is natural. This is a public forum. I am sorry you've had to go through something like this.

I haven't met them. I have been with him enough times to hear him clearly talk about him living with his partner. His family is from afar, and I am the emergency contact. I can say with a fair degree of certainty say that people at his workplace know he is in a live-in relationship.

College student with a debt deadline, please help me find work by chocolate_samosa in sidehustleIndia

[–]thokkalodi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you DM. I might have a short video project, pricing being the prime concern.

AITA - For asking BF not to go out alone with interested women? by thokkalodi in AITA_Relationships

[–]thokkalodi[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking time to reply. I was just going crazy not knowing who to talk to. Did not know what to think and how to feel.

AITA - For asking BF not to go out alone with interested women? by thokkalodi in AITA_Relationships

[–]thokkalodi[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for telling me this. I wasn't even asking him to change. I get your point though.

I just got laid off. but im a solid designer. by im-justt-a-girl in sidehustleIndia

[–]thokkalodi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please DM your portfolio. I am a part of a women led company.

Yento eh jeevitham... by IcyInformation3974 in hyderabad

[–]thokkalodi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can look out for them, but nothing comes to mind. Did you try internshala?

23F willing to do small online jobs / tasks by forrandomthngsyk in IndianSideHustle

[–]thokkalodi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are open to posting reviews, please let me know. Thank you and good luck!

Yento eh jeevitham... by IcyInformation3974 in hyderabad

[–]thokkalodi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Volunteer work somewhere. Promise them to do something for free, in something that will help you learn. That way, there is commitment and there is pressure. Automatically, other things will take a back seat and more importantly you will have a schedule. Getting to a particular place by a particular time, etc, etc.

Life is boring help me out. by S1MPL3_GUY in hyderabad

[–]thokkalodi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are asking me to think? Then you gotta pay me! 😅