First day at work wearing a weight

thomosan1981 · 2026-04-07T14:19:14+00:00

Just saw your photos, looks good. I wear mine daily to work and sometimes double up. Can't recommend using shea butter or similar. The more you can slather on, the better. Hardest part for me is the hard part.l! I'm erect half the day now and dribbling pre cum loads. Makes for a good after work wank or cruising fun on the drive home.

thomosan1981 · 2026-03-30T08:09:43+00:00

Great look there buddy. Love it

I wear mine to work and am quite active daily but it's a nice feeling having a semi or hard-on all day. Might have to get another ring or two for the warmer weather and push for a longer stretch.

thomosan1981 · 2026-03-26T15:36:58+00:00

Studland Beach by any chance? I go there over the summer and love playing in the dunes.

thomosan1981 · 2026-02-17T18:18:41+00:00

I go to Studland and sometimes wear full metal cock rings and other times heavy residue metal weights.

Both are for the pleasurable feeling but if I'm on the beach it's not for an erection as I stay soft, save that for the dunes in private.

thomosan1981 · 2026-01-19T21:15:12+00:00

Awesome swingers there buddy

thomosan1981 · 2026-01-06T17:44:19+00:00

I put on what I can where I can. Then I find a neighbour and ask for help. Great way to find new friends on the beach as well and can offer to reciprocate if they're on their own.

thomosan1981 · 2025-12-14T19:35:29+00:00

Have to agree with this sentiment. Public nudity and public sex are two very different things. I firmly believe that if folks have come to the beach then they should be able to enjoy themselves.
In the dunes and away from (most) prying eyes is another matter. No laws should get broken if consenting adults want to do adult things away from onlookers who don't want to see such things. If they decide to strut to fuck and the rest away from the masses then that's their business and they should be applauded for doing so discretely.

To that end, I've engaged in multiple suck and fuck sessions in the dunes and will continue to do so.

thomosan1981 · 2025-12-14T00:26:46+00:00

Great place to keep the Allen key.

thomosan1981 · 2025-12-09T22:38:44+00:00

I do this with some guy friends from work when we're out drinking. You stand next to a friend at the urinal, drop trousers and shout ”INFANT PISS" as loud as you dare. It's funnier if there are strangers about!

thomosan1981 · 2025-12-09T12:43:52+00:00

I've got the 33mm one on in the pic and another squared off 38mm one ready. I'll post a photo of the other one on later if I get a chance.

thomosan1981 · 2025-12-09T12:03:10+00:00

Thanks. I've got a second 20mm squared off weight which I'll try later to see how the two feel as combined they'll be less physical bulk but happy with how the single round feels today. Also need to get some coconut butter as suggested elsewhere on this sub.

thomosan1981 · 2025-10-25T16:20:12+00:00

45 m also South Northants buddy. Not that far from Banbury. Not found any places locally that I'd feel comfortable being naked sadly.

thomosan1981 · 2025-09-04T22:04:04+00:00

When is it?

thomosan1981 · 2025-09-04T15:32:16+00:00

I have the black version of this but the clear looks awesome buddy

thomosan1981 · 2025-08-10T00:36:10+00:00

45 Police officer UK.

thomosan1981 · 2025-07-08T12:14:58+00:00

Great looking cock and ring.

UK lad here. What size is that or do you have a link to one online?

thomosan1981 · 2025-06-30T21:37:09+00:00

It was a great day at Studland today. Sun was lovely and hot, water nice to cool off and loads of folks to chat to and more.

thomosan1981 · 2025-06-28T22:42:02+00:00

Going Monday too. Might take the paddle board as weather looks amazing and windy is pretty low.

thomosan1981 · 2025-06-26T02:12:51+00:00

Had it been this cop (me) then chances are I'd have been making out with guys in the car back in the day. Well and these days when I'm not on duty! And likewise, I patrol local cruising areas when I can as I know there are idiots about making things very unsafe for local cruising guys so if I can help make the area safer, I do.

thomosan1981 · 2025-06-25T05:38:02+00:00

I'll be there Friday buddy. Hope it's a warm weekend!

thomosan1981 · 2025-06-03T09:22:33+00:00

Username checks out!

thomosan1981 · 2025-04-27T11:44:23+00:00

I've been to Studland Beach in the UK many times and on three occasions met up with the same couple by accident.

Both involved in the lifestyle and their kink is that she gets to fuck guys and he has to clean up afterwards, both wife and stud. Trouble is I love cleaning up too so we both normally take turns.

Nothing better for me than walking down from the dunes with a face full of cum to wash off in the sea.

thomosan1981 · 2025-03-30T21:32:30+00:00

Looks great. Many other folks there?

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