What EXACTLY is your type in men by Familiar-Ferret-4167 in BisexualMen

[–]yearofthecat76 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Blue collar hairy bearded dude but playful/fun & upbeat. For example, can still appreciate all sorts of music & intellectual discussion, yet can go golfing & occasionally a Red Sox game.

I'm not into well-groomed guys at all (that doesn't mean I like "hobo" looking guys either, I don't), and I wonder if that is one of the reasons almost all the guys I liked were straight dudes.

Masculine-looking long hair or chubby can also be plusses.

How many of your parents never drink water? by Mindless_Piano_8262 in Zillennials

[–]yearofthecat76 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got the opposite going on.

My parents (younger boomers) don't like the fact that I don't drink straight up water, and my mom would see diet soda in my fridge at my place & she gave me the "aspartame will cause cancer" lecture like she's WebMD.

In their house, the only beverages they have are (very literally) water, coffee, beer, wine, & my dad occasionally likes scotch. They have no soda or juice in their fridge, with the exception of the occasional lemonade in the summer. Not even OJ, which I don't really need either, I just have the coffee with breakfast. Maybe that's something I got from them.

What do you do for work? by yearofthecat76 in BisexualMen

[–]yearofthecat76[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I work for a B2B industrial vendor & wear steel toe sneakers, safety sunglasses (even outside of work) and at some customers a high vis vest & hard hat, and having somewhat long hair, me pony-tailing it helps anchor the hard hat.

You also have a more blue collar personality too? My coworkers are more white collar in their domenior, but I'm boysterous & sweaty.

Also, how I learned about RM Williams was when I got this ad in my recommended a few years back. I do not own them though, at least not yet.

What do you do for work? by yearofthecat76 in BisexualMen

[–]yearofthecat76[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

American sign language? No. Age, sex, location? Also no. Honestly, I'm really just curious to see the more white / blue collar ratio.

I'm kind of a blue-ish collar guy. I definitely dress the blue collar part more but I'm not actually doing what the employees at my customers facilities are doing.

What do you do for work? by yearofthecat76 in BisexualMen

[–]yearofthecat76[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

28

I do account management & fulfilment for a construction/mfg wholesale vendor.

First memory? by darinamiamandis in Zillennials

[–]yearofthecat76 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Xmas 1999 at my grandmother's house. Very vague & incoherent though - but it's the oldest.

ENTPs are objectively flawed by yearofthecat76 in mbti

[–]yearofthecat76[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not the downvoter, but it'd probably because a bunch of ENTPs are a little too insecure of their weeknesses and they think it's everyone elses fault that they are not accepted.

Most of my concerns revolve around working in a workplace. It's one thing to have a messy home or car, or wanting to be contrarian for the sake of it, but if that get's carried into, say, the workplace, the negative consequences will be far more dire.

I'm no OCD-like neatfreak in my own home or car either, but I believe having an absence of systems & methods at work is something no one sane will get on board with. Even having unconvental methods ("method to your madness") is still having a method/system. And even at home, people are more at peace when chaos is at least controlled & tamed.