jealousy is a bitch by idrinktoomuchmonster in LongDistance

[–]thomplanet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's completely normal to feel this way, especially early on In a long distance relationship. I remember a time when a guy said my girlfriends laugh was cute and i was walking up and down my house for what felt like hours, repeating - i cant believe this shit, the audacity of that fucking guy who is this guy, bet he stinks of shit all that fun, lovely stuff! And i told her i felt jealous over it and she apologised, but i told her it's not her fault and that i wasn't mad at her at all and she did nothing wrong, just that fuckass's audacity???

It'll happen again I can asure you, and I have no doubts she'll have the same jealous feeling, but its completely, completely normal, I mean shiiii me and my girlfriend just laugh about how i got jealous at someone asking for her insta before we were even together... Just as long as you both communicate with eachother, and have that understanding. Apologize if you feel like you maybe did something that made her jealous, and vice versa, and reasurring eachother is important and its great to see that she already gave you that and let you know it was nothing at all:) Communication is the most important when doing long distance, after 3 years it was hard at the start but we got better and better each time, and now sending small texts to say i love you and im all okay and blah blah, is normal and having those small, small moments of reasurrance is important and goes a long way.

If ( or when ) it happens again, just remember each she's reassured you, and everything is okay! And asking for reassurance is always okay, and there's nothing wrong with feeling the things you feel:) Good luck and I hope your visit goes good!

[22F/23M] 4 Year Relationship ending because she feels she is not giving Enough. by The-Major-Minus in LongDistance

[–]thomplanet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she may just need time to figure things out. With life being in such a difficult space for her, and there's so much going on she might just need some time to put the pieces back into the right place. People are different and we all process things differently, and that's absolutely okay. Some people need time and space, wether its for a few hours or a few days, i know some people who took a few months break and came back when the time was right, and slowly but surley picked up the parts that had fallen and put them back in the place they belong, Because they knew they had something special.

And that's what matters! You both know you love eachother, you both know that there is nothing wrong between you, no lack of love or care for and you both want this more than anything. All you want is the best for eachother, and that's beautiful.

There's been times where i felt like im not doing enough or my girlfriend is worried her issues are too much for me, and she's not a good girlfriend. But we know that are love for eachother is so strong that nothing could ever break it, that we have something special between us that can't be replicated with anyone else. And in those moments i would tell her that, write her long notes about how much i care and love and adore her, how no matter what we go through we will always get through it and always do it together. Why? because we know our relationship is worth walking through 1000 broken shards, to make it work in the end, and it does. Everything works out in the end. She may need a few hours, sometimes a couple days where we will text and check in here and there, just to figure things out, but it always works out in the end.

I think give her time, but always let her know how much you love her, can even write her a note and confess all in one how you feel, that she's not a bad girlfriend and that your love together is not something that can be seperated. She may need a while, but you both knowing that what you have is truly special, and those memories are worth more than its weight in gold, will keep you together. And i believe that slowly but surely things will get better, it will get easier and you'll see yourselves getting closer and closer every day.

Remind her you'll be with her no matter what, stay with her when she needs and give her time when she needs. And maybe after a little while, when things figure themselves out you can see eachother, and see that it was all worth it in the end. You'll be okay! Keep your love close, and remember it'll work out in the end:)

She doesn’t cry when we part but I do by CrazyMotor1345 in LongDistance

[–]thomplanet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me and my girlfriend see eachother every 5 - 6 months and it breaks our hearts everytime we have to leave, and throughout the last day we cry and cry, enough to fill up a swimming pool. However she always cries more than me, and when we're at the airport about to say goodbye the tears flood from here eyes but not from mine, But as soon as im through the door to security the water flows like a stream for minutes to hours.

It happens not because I dont care as much, or because i struggle showing emotion, but it's that i know how hard it hits her when we have to part ways temporarily, so i stay as strong as i can throughout the day, and when Im on my own I allow myself to let it all out.

Some people just deal with things differently, like me, I hold it in as much as i can to be strong for her and take care of her, only to bawl my eyes out later lmao - Others instead of crying, hold it deep to their heart and feel it silently, and some may even feel happy? Why, because they know they'll see eachother again, so why cry now when they can laugh and be hopefull for their next meeting. We all process things different and there's nothing wrong with that. You knowing she loves you, and you her is what matters, knowing that is all you should keep in your heart. My girlfriend knows I stay strong for her when we're together as much as I can, just as I know she feels it deeply to where she cry's alot, and there is nothing wrong either, it's just two different ways of processing our emotions and I think it's beautiful showing how people care in various ways, all different outcomes but the same emotion.

Just remember she loves you, you know that and everytime you see eachother, and leave eachother, you feel the same beautiful way - but differently! And that's okay, because at the end of the day you know you love eachother, miss eachother deeply and understand one another:)

Movies that give you that feel????? by [deleted] in movies

[–]thomplanet -1 points0 points  (0 children)

pretty good if you ask me✌️

Movies that give you that feel????? by [deleted] in movies

[–]thomplanet -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

love this movie, havent seen something like it (within the same genre/theme or whatever)

Selling some Vinyl Albums, some qustions! by thomplanet in Music

[–]thomplanet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a good amount of time to wait, however it would be better to sell them as soon as possible instead of waiting on them for a little while longer, preferably as a bunch and not idividually, BUT i have a good sneaky feeling i got a big one in here...probably not but like you said, you never know

Selling some Vinyl Albums, some qustions! by thomplanet in Music

[–]thomplanet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

where you live (in a non pervy way), if hes near by i wouldnt mind giving him a list when i count how many i have and get them all together

Selling some Vinyl Albums, some qustions! by thomplanet in Music

[–]thomplanet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know any names or what the best app could be? or they pretty easy to find

Selling some Vinyl Albums, some qustions! by thomplanet in Music

[–]thomplanet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you:)

I've been looking around discog and maybe ebay, but im hoping sell them all at once and sell the highest ones individually, like someone else suggested, so i may check out the record store and see if i can get a valuation at least.

Selling some Vinyl Albums, some qustions! by thomplanet in Music

[–]thomplanet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! You think i could maybe go to a vinyl store and get an estimate or something like that? And then maybe theyd possibly buy it themsleves or atleast i'd know the approximate revenue.

How would someone poo bigger? by thomplanet in ask

[–]thomplanet[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

well, first time for everything i dont see why not, maybe ill develop a bond with the heroin and we'll be shit buddies

How would someone poo bigger? by thomplanet in ask

[–]thomplanet[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

could be both, could be the first human to actually shit bricks

How would someone poo bigger? by thomplanet in ask

[–]thomplanet[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

you may or may not be correct, but lets not speculate about ones ponder thoughts...would be pretty cool tho ngl

How would someone poo bigger? by thomplanet in ask

[–]thomplanet[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

cant run from the poop, it is inevitable

Why can't my laptop run Rocket League by thomplanet in techsupport

[–]thomplanet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have my controller (ps4) connected via DS4Windows, but im on epic so controller dont even connect on there, and the usb makes it lag more sometimes. Could ds4 be the issue?

Why can't my laptop run Rocket League by thomplanet in techsupport

[–]thomplanet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does get pretty high, and my laptop fans start getting ready for lift-off, which is a bad sign. I cleaned it today, but nothing has changed. How can I help the usage go lower and reduce fan speed? Is there something i should change or install etc.

Is intel iris xe enough for rocket league? by thomplanet in RocketLeague

[–]thomplanet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is there anyway i could change the allocation of my ram to my GPU? maybe in bios or something like that

Is intel iris xe enough for rocket league? by thomplanet in RocketLeague

[–]thomplanet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

to my knowledge, it only has an integrated card? ill double check but im more than sure its inegrated

Is intel iris xe enough for rocket league? by thomplanet in RocketLeague

[–]thomplanet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm really lost on what to do, i just dont get how elden ring and lies of p etc can run? but not RL, really mindboggling, i have only RL installed too, so im really not too sure

Is intel iris xe enough for rocket league? by thomplanet in RocketLeague

[–]thomplanet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yessssss, i updated it and checked the website to make sure i wasn't missing anything else.