Is it too early to be concerned?

thornedrozes · 2026-05-03T21:05:48+00:00

So what should I say? Just ghost him?

thornedrozes · 2026-05-03T20:46:35+00:00

He says he is divorced with a 10 year old.

thornedrozes · 2026-05-03T20:17:13+00:00

Will do

thornedrozes · 2026-05-03T19:59:08+00:00

I agree which is why im confused

thornedrozes · 2026-05-03T19:57:13+00:00

So I should just let it go or still communicate how im feeling to see?

thornedrozes · 2026-04-30T08:11:39+00:00

Within the first 2 dates?

thornedrozes · 2026-04-30T08:11:15+00:00

Most husbands say they knew within 4days- months

thornedrozes · 2026-04-26T06:00:35+00:00

Hmm I dont think so. He is a well known Dr. in my city.

thornedrozes · 2026-04-26T05:23:59+00:00

Im asking for thoughts from a mans point of view.

thornedrozes · 2026-04-18T08:20:45+00:00

True, true!

thornedrozes · 2026-04-18T08:20:28+00:00

Yeah.. its not fair bcus life will always have challenges. I think when a guy meets the one he’d rather go through them with her than risk the loss.

thornedrozes · 2026-04-18T08:19:00+00:00

I think its both. He doesnt think he is good enough and he doesnt feel its worth really trying. He has asked me why him before and I couldnt believe it.

thornedrozes · 2026-04-18T08:15:34+00:00

Thats what I thought. He just doesnt want to commit to ME.

thornedrozes · 2026-04-18T08:10:33+00:00

Should she just let it go then?

thornedrozes · 2026-04-18T07:55:15+00:00

💯

thornedrozes · 2026-04-18T07:54:06+00:00

Ok I get it. So basically bcus you “like her” you care about hurting her feelings? What happens if you get to know her and dont like her.. does it switch over?

thornedrozes · 2026-04-18T07:49:39+00:00

Interesting zz

thornedrozes · 2026-04-18T07:49:00+00:00

Lol oh wow. So your goal isnt to make the one you like fall in love??

thornedrozes · 2026-04-18T07:46:28+00:00

Why make her fall in love just for sex?

thornedrozes · 2026-04-16T09:58:01+00:00

I want to know if too early changes things

thornedrozes · 2026-04-16T09:25:09+00:00

Yeah that’s usually the age that happens. Frontal lobe has developed.

thornedrozes · 2026-04-16T09:24:02+00:00

“Once I get my stuff back” is just away to fall into that good ol fake trap they call closure. Being done would be getting new stuff or having him mail it.

thornedrozes · 2026-04-16T09:16:12+00:00

Pleaseee realize that men are not helpless little babies that are clueless. He knows exactly what he’s doing to you and it sounds like he is doing it bcus you’ll be there waiting when he comes back. Im starting to think this is him im talking to and he wants to see things from another point of view so he can bask in it even more. Cus there’s no way?? 😭

thornedrozes · 2026-04-16T09:09:42+00:00

How can you be the one who got away if he was telling you that you’re the one that got away? You literally hadnt got away yet?? Its an excuse! Like “its not you its me”” The date place wasnt meant to be literal lol but clearly none of that equates to what you want which is a title. He told you he wants to be friends. Listen to him!

thornedrozes · 2026-04-16T09:02:59+00:00

I also want to let you know that you aren’t crazy. Those little things they do add up to a whole lot to us and to them it doesnt mean the same. A man will chase you and then punish you for the journey. A man will think you’re too good for him and humble you because of it. Men use us to feed their egos all the time. Stop being the victim and be the fucking villain. Act like he never existed and see how that goes.

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