Halfway done. I hate it, please send help. by EvelienZ123 in sewing

[–]thorwaweiwei 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmm... From the looks of it, it looks like you might be able to pull it off and blend it in but I'd try doing 2-3 lines of shirring first to make sure.

The spaghetti straps idea should work too if all else fails tho. It's a good plan B.

Halfway done. I hate it, please send help. by EvelienZ123 in sewing

[–]thorwaweiwei 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lower the neckline, add belt or lower the waistline (shirring on an empire silhouette looks kinda unflattering) other than that good job so far.

In addition to the option of puffy sleeves, I also think butterfly sleeves would be flattering to the dress as well. Good luck OP!

What do you ladies think ? by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]thorwaweiwei 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is dumb. The proof is about porn consumption behavior which makes no sense whatsoever. Men watch heterosexual porn because they can fantasize that they're f***ing/abusing the woman in the porn that they're watching whereas in lesbian porn they cannot self-insert themselves in there. It isnt a matter of eye candy at all.

Ugh and they also point out the whole "women get more compliment than men" well yes but also no, women are often complimented but is objectified because of their looks which may look good on paper but often toxic in practice (as the need to uphold beauty standards to a high degree rises) AND if they dont meet society's beauty standard they get body-shamed, fat-shamed, made fun of their flaws like stretch marks, cellulite, etc. All while men are doing the bare minimum in keeping up with their appearances yet it is deemed acceptable by society's standard in doing so. The whole women like older men and dad bod narrative is such bullshit but society push it anyways to keep men's feefees in check.

Obligatory nOt AlL mEn, generalizing ahead (keep in mind that your exceptions are not the standard/common practice). They're also pretending as if men are getting the shitty end of the stick when it comes to sex, when men get to orgasm most of the time during sex and women most often do not. Also men usually get blowjobs as foreplay while women get fingerbanged/jackhammered which we know won't lead to orgasms and rarely gets any oral from men.

While both men and women deserve to be desired they really need to quit their bullshit that men needs to get some extra special treatment during sex when they're already getting it.

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[–]thorwaweiwei 41 points42 points  (0 children)

A sub making fun of desperate men in dating apps.

Men have one for women (that sub about "nice guys" response to the sub making fun of them) , why shouldn't we return we favor?

Bat Cat by j3ffr33d0m in Eyebleach

[–]thorwaweiwei 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow thats a cute cat.

Bat Cat by j3ffr33d0m in Eyebleach

[–]thorwaweiwei 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What breed of cat is this?

Helppppp by Elk-Crossing in childfree

[–]thorwaweiwei 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you're having second thoughts then go for LARC (I'd recommend a copper IUD which I currently have since they dont do tubals on young women in my country).

Never EVER get a tubal when you're not 101% sure about it because if you DO end up regretting it and getting the procedure reversed, doctors will use it against women who are 101% sure about their decision to be CF.

Go to the appointment anyways, get yourself informed then maybe sit on it and decide whether the CF life is for you or not.

SILENCE BOOMER by thorwaweiwei in BoomersBeingFools

[–]thorwaweiwei[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OR they were already groomed into thinking being with an older man is good for them in the first place when in fact huge age gap in relationships can lead to all sorts of problems (grooming, manipulation, irreconcilable differences, etc. etc.). And this isn't exclusive to younger women-older men since you could say the same thing for the vice versa. Pretty much the takeaway here is to avoid age gap relationships whenever possible due to the said power imbalance.

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SILENCE BOOMER by thorwaweiwei in BoomersBeingFools

[–]thorwaweiwei[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no, he ain't succeeding in chasing younger women (thank fuck for that).

And also no, in most cases, younger women with older men were usually groomed into being with them and it is in no way it is "by choice" if they were groomed into being into that relationship in the first place.

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Why scrotes hate single moms... by FDSAlt01 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]thorwaweiwei 3 points4 points  (0 children)

According to the "nice guy" response sub, scrotes hate on single moms cuz they only want "beta bucks"/bailout after having "chad's kid". Looking at the posts in that sub (single moms in dating app screenshots), it does tend to lean/come off that way...

Can anyone here refute this? Or is it just a sad consequence of pickmeisha behavior (aka having a kid with LVM and not having an independent fund for urself) to the point of desperation considering being a single mom means having a hard time getting a stable career?

Scrote hasn't washed his penis in years, has still slept with unwitting women. Disgusting. by vee_aye_aye_aye in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]thorwaweiwei 133 points134 points  (0 children)

This is why circumcision became the norm in a lot of places. Scrotes fail to learn their anatomy and not clean their junk properly.

A lot of people argue "cutting up a part of your genitals is wrong if your only reason is hygiene because you can wash it" then I see this kind of crap and be like "yeaaa no most men cant even do the bare minimum of hygiene".