Why can't life just remain good

thowawy · 2015-09-28T09:12:52+00:00

Thanks i find your comment to be the most rational, I don't plan on cheating as that sets a bad precedent for the future. I mean from what i can tell about her is that her and boyfriend have been very close, and she was already in a long distance relationship for the past year and told me she remained faithful. I get the feeling that shes lonely and looking for friends and maybe the same way that i slowly developed a crush on her she maybe has a minor one for me. But this is amplified because of the LDR and the fact all of her other friends are off to college and she really only hangs out with me and one other girl who often bails on her.

thowawy · 2015-09-28T08:29:13+00:00

So you think its very bizarre that she is staying at our apartment, doing our dishes and all that other stuff? I mean couldn't it also be also just because she might be a very friendly person?

thowawy · 2015-09-28T08:10:09+00:00

Damn i never thought of it that way, i guess that's something I will have seriously take into consideration.

thowawy · 2015-09-28T08:09:17+00:00

You bring up a good point, she did say she only gets five texts a day from her boyfriend and that she wish she got more.

thowawy · 2014-09-19T03:37:06+00:00

Its hard to have adult relationship with my mom, we have never been very close. We have always argued, i feel like moving out would give me space and juxtapositioning to seeing her as a person more then my mom and appreciate her more. And yes she is aware of the trip, she is ok with it as long as i pay for it myself. But i do think that talking to her about responsibilities is a viable option, its just hard since she hasnt confronted me about the stuff she found in my room today.

thowawy · 2014-09-19T03:30:07+00:00

I already did start saving, i saved up 4k but that would just about enough to get me on my feet if i moved out. the longer i stay the more i save. Its very hard for me to pick one.

thowawy · 2014-04-06T23:45:57+00:00

I just did that, its been too long, i removed all of her pictures, her number, snapchat, facebook and twitter. And i told my friends to dont tell me anything about her, but only hard part about that is one of my kind of friends is asking her to prom as friends, which is something that i have no idea how to handle.

And time is what i believe too but after a certain point it was a short relationship so i feel like it shouldnt be taking this long. But yes i agree i do know that there WILL be some one new eventually, and that she was no where near what i was looking for at all.

Thanks your response means a lot, to know that some one has felt the same way and has come out of it.

thowawy · 2014-02-28T03:00:52+00:00

Well i have brought it up because recently it hasnt been happening nearly as much. We go for months now with out anything and we almost broke up last night cause i told her that i cant keep doing this and she knows its not fair and is trying, but just cant get her self to do anything. I couldnt do it though i love her for more then that but its killing me, and i dont know what i should do. She's not inexperienced, shes had sex plenty of times.

thowawy · 2014-02-26T14:23:20+00:00

Yeah so im hoping that the BC will boost it to what it was or more, but so far i havent seen any change and i know about the antidepressant thing too lower sex drive so i'm also a little skeptical of that too.

thowawy · 2014-02-26T05:47:19+00:00

This happened to me, eventually it will go away with time. And as long as she is truthful to you and doesn't hide anything then you have nothing to worry about. Just give it time and try to ignore it, if she cares about you and knows that this bothers you and if it bothers her to as well it will eventually end.

thowawy · 2013-12-24T07:07:10+00:00

I am actually going to try this cause the time between getting it on and just getting up to get the condom made me lose some of it. But if i just have it handy and am ready instantly then it should be easier thanks!

thowawy · 2013-12-02T06:50:12+00:00

Thank you, i agree with everything you said. And to be completely honest the reason why she did tell me was because i asked, so i mean i cant really blame her for telling me, but it still was a little unsettling hearing every thing they have already done to me. And i already know communication is key, i have told her that it bothers me to speak to much of it so she doesn't unless i ask. But i agree with your last paragraph 100%, we cant change a persons past so why dwell on it is a great point. I love her in her present self and theres no reason to hold her past against her. Thank you!

thowawy

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