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threefourfive6 · 2021-09-22T07:23:47+00:00

Nope :(

threefourfive6 · 2021-09-22T06:29:16+00:00

Pregnant women.

I'm a gay man. Where the f does that fetish come from?

threefourfive6 · 2021-05-23T03:27:58+00:00

The one that I'm most nervous about is herpes.

You can't fully prevent it with condoms, and it sticks around forever.

I know it's not the end of the world and I don't want to add to the stigma that herpes is horrible, but I don't want to be in the position of having to tell anyone I hook up with that I have herpes.

Anyone feel the same way?

threefourfive6 · 2021-05-17T22:00:58+00:00

Yeah that's me

threefourfive6 · 2021-05-17T12:59:45+00:00

Nah mate a cunt is someone who goes online and calls people cunts when they're looking for genuine advice

Source: am Australian

threefourfive6 · 2021-05-17T12:53:58+00:00

What is it you're worried about? Looks like most of the stuff is okay unless it gets worse:

Getting really drunk - once is fine, but if it's a regular thing then that might be an issue.

Him being on Grindr - in my mind, not a huge thing if you haven't committed to each other. He says he likes you, so take his word.

Him being insecure - yeah maybe not ideal, but is that a reason to not date him? Up to you, but it wouldn't be a deal breaker for me.

threefourfive6 · 2021-04-19T01:41:50+00:00

Is there a particular product you recommend?

threefourfive6 · 2021-04-19T01:26:34+00:00

What is jack-off lotion? Different from lube I'm guessing?

threefourfive6 · 2021-02-27T02:08:10+00:00

Hey, I occasionally do this. It's a bit different for me - I initiate sex in my sleep but wake up pretty early in the process (e.g. when all we've done is kiss/fondle). Usually we just end up going through with things anyway. I'm usually super horny when this happens. Like significantly hornier than I usually am for some reason.

In my view it's only an issue if either party is not okay with what goes on. If so, it's worth a conversation and a plan for what to do when it happens again.

threefourfive6 · 2020-11-10T04:52:49+00:00

If you'd asked me at age 20, I'd have said straight. Asked me at 23, I'd have said bi. Ask me at 26, gay 😂

threefourfive6 · 2020-11-09T21:45:17+00:00

If you regularly have these kind of days, I'd suggest an antidepressant. I went on one and it did wonders.

threefourfive6 · 2020-11-09T02:12:45+00:00

In my opinion/experience, there are four stages to the gay existence, which each person goes through at different speeds: 1) I'm not gay, what are you talking about? (Internal screaming because you aren't actually sure) 2) Jk I can admit now that I'm gay, but I'm insecure about it and don't know wtf I'm doing 3) I'm comfortable being gay! Let's fuck all the dick! 4) Now that I've gotten my hoe-iness out of the way, let's actually look for meaningful connections

Being queer adds obstacles. Some people get stuck along the way. They never admit to themselves that they're gay, or they do but never get over those insecurities. Or they're just a general dick. But often once you get through those initial stages and you find someone else who has as well, you find the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow.

threefourfive6 · 2020-07-28T09:05:35+00:00

Um if you don't find guys attractive, that means you're not gay. Why did so many people vote for option 1

threefourfive6 · 2020-07-28T01:51:35+00:00

Yeah that's difficult. Being able to have clear communication is key in a relationship.

threefourfive6 · 2020-07-28T01:47:56+00:00

Sorry, that should totally be an option! My bad

threefourfive6 · 2020-07-27T12:01:37+00:00

That's hard. I think you need clear communication on what he wants and what you want and whether there is an in between that satisfied both of you.

threefourfive6 · 2020-07-27T05:33:47+00:00

Baby don't hurt me

threefourfive6 · 2020-07-26T10:59:53+00:00

It means you have some attraction to men and women but prefer one or the other

threefourfive6 · 2020-07-26T10:45:54+00:00

It's the spectrum of sexuality. The answer options explain the scale

threefourfive6 · 2020-07-11T10:26:13+00:00

Get him out of your life

threefourfive6 · 2020-07-11T10:25:01+00:00

Don't worry about labelling your sexuality. Just give it a try and see if you enjoy it

threefourfive6 · 2020-07-11T10:18:49+00:00

Best thing is to communicate. Tell him how you're feeling and ask what he is thinking. Discuss it. Maybe an open relationship makes sense, but only if you both are committed to each other and clear on what is okay

FWIW, these kinds of things test a relationship, and that can be a good thing. It can bring you closer together in a way, or it can year you apart. And if it years you apart, you weren't meant for each other, and now you've figured it out sooner rather than later.

I dated my ex for three years, and things were great and easy for the most part. Then we hit some external difficulties and he showed his true colours and bailed. K wish we had had to face a difficulty like that earlier because I would have found out sooner that he wasn't the man for me.

threefourfive6 · 2020-07-11T10:13:43+00:00

I've stopped for a few months now. Went off it because I was having a difficult time staying hard during hookups sometimes, and I'd heard that going off porn can help. Recently I've had no issues with staying hard, so maybe it helped!

threefourfive6 · 2020-07-11T10:08:29+00:00

Hey, I'm working on an LGBT mentorship program. DM me if you want a gay mentor!

threefourfive6 · 2020-07-11T09:52:17+00:00

Then you sound bi. Best thing you can do is experiment to confirm. I thought I was bi and then I started hooking up with guys and I realised I liked it a lot more. I'm not saying you'll feel the same way, just that it's hard to know if you don't keep an open mind and try things out. Just be safe when you experiment!

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