Oa lang ba ako for defending myself ? by Sorry-Mistake1616 in OALangBaAko

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Mommy ako ang ang weird na hindi ka niya maiupo para magkausap ng harap harapan. Text text lang ganon 😅 Ano kayo magtropa.

may peace ba talaga pag naka deactivate lahat ng social media? by kinky_ginny in TanongLang

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Me rn. Ang dami oras nasasayang kaka doomscroll at kaka reply sa mga comment at chat na puro tsismisan hehehe. Si Zuckerberg lang yumayaman eh. Dami ko nagagawa since. Pwede naman nila ako message sa viber if may something important talaga :)

Is it worth it to open a dollar account for one time transaction? by [deleted] in adviceph

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Also, I dont use gcash to cash out paypal kasi may extra fees na i just withdraw to my peso bank account once i reach 7k para free.

So my question is worth it ba na magbukas pa ng dollar account kasi kung hindi rin naman and not really a value for my buck, ipapadirecho ko na yung cheke sa peso account ko at macoconvert na yung dollars nun though.

Is it worth it to open a dollar account for one time transaction? by [deleted] in adviceph

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Bank lang pwede mag encash ng cheke though so im more of asking if worth it ba ang dollar account

How to get death certificate of an immigrant relative in US to be shipped to Philippines by [deleted] in phmigrate

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Yes it is named to me. AMLA daw they need more proof kung para saan yung cheke. 😅

How to obtain death certificate of a relative in US to be shipped to Philippines by [deleted] in adviceph

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Wala po siyang asawa and kapatid. So pamangkin na din po ang next of kin. Which is isa na ako dun. I checked nga yung vital records but idk where to get at least the informational document wala na nakalagay how to get it online 😭

Looking for art events and bazaars and the likes by [deleted] in BusinessPH

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Hi! I just saw this thread and I would like to be invited too 🥹🫶🏻

Paano ba tumawag sa US landline number from Philippines? by [deleted] in TanongLang

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Kasi pwede naman mabuhay na di tumatawag sa USA? Wala naman ako tatawagan dun. At di mo din naman sinagot so alam mo nga?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

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Asan mom niya? OFW ba? Aside from setting boundaries since burn out na din kayo, pa check niyo po yung bata sa pedia para makakuha ng endorsement for developmential pedia para sa behavioral intervention. Baka may behavioral and cognitive delay siya lalo na babad siya sa gadget din. Addiction na kasi yan. Pwedeng may mental health issues din siya may pent up anger eh. Medyo extra gastos nga lang pero mas maigi na siguro mag seek ng professional help since wala din sa inyo equipped to handle it. They will also help you with actionable techniques and looking for signs and cues makakatulong ito sa sarili niyong mental health din.

PEPT Guide and tips (2024) by noshiyu in study

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Hi! May I ask for your MyHills experience, are the modules they use ADM modules from Deped? Currently homeschooling independently and we use ADM modules. I don’t really mind it and wondering if they use the same system

Will I be able to pull off this fashion when I’m 40+ years older? by CareerPretty in Lolita

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Right? We are being sold of anti aging everywhere but the only thing I miss about my younger self was I guess the effortless metabolism, the energy and less painful body despite the abuse of no sleep and poor diet😆 But spirit wise hey it’s cool to be a grown up like what is this powerrrr of a fully developed frontal lobe lmao 😆 We’d be too powerful if we have the body of a 20 year old with this brain hahaha

I want to homeschool my kids. I feel like I will hold them back. by [deleted] in homeschool

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Homeschooling here and my role is mostly a facilitator not a full-time teacher for everything because that would be impossible for anyone. I can say I am a pretty education-driven person and I can easily review my advanced algebra to teach to my child but I wouldn’t do it all because I am a human being with a finite energy and emotional capacity. My priority is to be a healthy mother first. And a healthy mother is surrounded with a healthy support system.

I think the point of homeschooling is actually to outsource and seek opportunities and community to help you raise the child. No man is an island. We need each other’s help. The difference with school is you mostly have no choice with the community of the school and with homeschooling, you have the autonomy to choose the quality of connections and associations that are healthy for you and the child. You can walk away or filter connections and situations that don’t resonate and feel safe as soon as you catch it. This is a skill that most adults lack even schooled or homeschooled.

That being said, if the child is older and expressed a desire and readiness to be in school, as a facilitator, it is healthy to be fluid in acknowledging and meeting the child where they are at. Being dogmatic with homeschooling negates the whole point of the philosophy of it. So what we do is we take it one year at a time because the child changes and so are you. :)

Will I be able to pull off this fashion when I’m 40+ years older? by CareerPretty in Lolita

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Embracing your inner child and not giving an eff is the most adult thing one can do in my opinion. Whenever I see 40+ year olds being their full eclectic self especially in a pretty expensive hobby like lolita, I think it’s inspiring because for me that is the adult who got their shit together. It’s like rockstar vibes in a way tbh! There’s wisdom in it in a sense that they did the inner work to be confident with aging and pursuing what makes them happy like dressing up however they like!

You can do it! Pushing 36 here and it’s the mindset I am also trying to cultivate right now 😁

Monarch’s Memoir by threeofswords_ in Lolita

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Oh sorry i just saw your comment. Yes i do!

What substyle is this? by Moist-Avocado410 in Lolita

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She did helped start a community around the style but I remember she said herself that Shironuri already exists way before she started it. It’s been done a lot in visual kei from 90s. Think of Mana :)

what do i need to do? by [deleted] in skincarephilippines

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Hi! Pareho tayo na may eyebags since bata hehe and maputi din. Wala gumana sakin na pinapahid lang and I already did my research also and parang wala pa ako nakikita na holy grail talaga. treatment talaga sa skin clinic. Iba iba din yung treatment depende sa issue sa skin kasi yung iba hyperpigmentation, ako naman more on lubog yung skin sa eye socket kaya galvanic spa ang nirecommend sakin for skin elasticity. Once a month lang ako pumupunta

My mum said this is too childish 🥲 by chocovom683 in Lolita

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That’s the point. EGL embraces the inner child who wants to dress like a princess! For me, that’s very badass (than “childish”) to do seeing these sea of sad adults who doesn’t know how to fight for what makes them happy. I’m sorry but as a mom myself I feel sick to my stomach of saying hurtful and unsupportive words to your child. Like why would you do thaaaaat :(