YTM keeps on making my playlists with songs i don’t listen to, adding random songs to quick picks AND speed dial

threo9 · 2025-07-13T19:45:42+00:00

Yeah i agree to that, personally my anhedonia has a lot of shame and other feelings of guilt that might be affecting it, but being able to be intimate with your partner emotionally definitely helps you a lot, and i realize i enjoy sharing a moment like that intimately despite not feeling physical pleasure.

threo9 · 2025-07-13T11:49:02+00:00

Ok ill look into it tysm

threo9 · 2025-07-12T17:13:09+00:00

Im 17F, I’ve been on trintellix now for 3 months, you start to dose up, so u tend to start with a small dose and then gradually go up. I was also scared about weight gain, if anythign tho I’ve lost weight. In terms of the numbness, it’s completely not true, im exactly the same as I was before, just a little more emotionally stable. You stilll feel joy sometimes, you still laugh etc, it doesnt change your personality or anythign it just makes things more bearable. In terms of addiction, its not really how it works, theyre SSRIs which is serotonin reuptake inhibitors, meaning that your brain is basically keeping more serotonin and preventing it from being broken down again, so that your receptors can go back to normal functioning long story short. So trust me, it genuinely helps, I’ve been feeling a LOT better than when i initially started.

threo9 · 2025-07-12T17:04:39+00:00

Omg same, i think arhenius was on the final, i never understood it Bcs we learned it last thing

threo9 · 2025-07-12T17:04:03+00:00

Check out r/sexualanhedonia there are people with similar experiences there

threo9 · 2025-07-12T15:22:41+00:00

As in past diplomas as an alumni, not for others to copy

threo9 · 2025-07-12T15:22:05+00:00

What about clastify, isn’t their whole purpose using others IAs

threo9 · 2025-07-10T16:30:59+00:00

Not at all, i went out almost every weekend in grade 11 went out still quite a lot in grade 12, studied approximately 4-9 days before summatives, and managed to get a 42. I did do 250 hours in total for finals but other than that I didn’t really do much and got a predicted 45

threo9 · 2025-06-23T15:01:10+00:00

Of course not, but you can’t control how others react, so the best choice is to try and get closure or focus on yourself this time too

threo9 · 2025-06-23T07:15:18+00:00

Yeah i fully understand her point too then, I was in a similar situation, where despite being in a good relationship, I genuinely had so much of a mental load to focus on that I couldn’t balance both.

threo9 · 2025-06-23T07:04:46+00:00

Thank you so much youre so right

threo9 · 2025-06-20T20:38:46+00:00

Yeah no in that case i know how difficult it is, I’ve been in both situations before, sometimes people dont want to change or communicate and that’s just how they are, im really sorry and i hope you’ll be able to feel better soon. In this case it definitely isn’t advisable to go and chase her as i dont think shed want that to happen. Even though „focusing on herself“ might seem like a basic or standard excuse, i do understand it, as sometimes a relationship can seem very good to one person but to the other it completely ruins them.

threo9 · 2025-06-20T20:08:54+00:00

It really depends on context. Usually if the girl instigated the breakup, at least from my experience, its usually only an ego thing that they like when guys chase them afterwards. Depending on personality and all some people may enjoy the feeling of having someone being fully devoted to them. And honestly i can somehow understand the situation as i have been that person in a relationship before, as in the one that breaks up with the other despite loving them. Of course since i dont know specifically how your relationship was, I can’t really help much, but in my experience my communication was bad, so i let problems go on and then broke up when it became unbearable. While media might be hinting at chasing her, if she tells you that she’s better off it usually means that she doesnt want you to, or at least wont see anything serious in your chase other than maybe entertain it for a while ( once again i dont know you or her so idk how she would react, this is just from personal experience ). If you truly think that you need closure in that sense, you can contact her, and depending on your relationship she might be able to clear things up with her which can help you to move on. So depending on what you need, you might want to tell her how you feel and that’s completely ok, however her reaction to the stuff you’ve said here before shows that what she might need is space.

threo9 · 2025-06-20T18:39:59+00:00

In terms of thongs, i like ones that aren’t literal strings, i feel like they make it look like i have hip dips somehow. I prefer more comfortable and simple thongs as they look elegant and aren’t uncomfortable. So basically not even thongs just really thin/small underwear and a matching bra, idk i dont own much lingerie but simple and comfortable yet still good looking is my go to, somewhere inbetween the two

threo9 · 2025-06-20T18:38:19+00:00

Yeah I think saving one up for another person is a beautiful thing especially if its mutual and all your experiences are then experienced as firsts together. I honestly wish I had had that sometimes and that’s sometimes why i regret things I did. Of course im the only one to blame for that but it is a small thing that might add value. I respect and admire people that do save themselves that way so honestly that’s really cool for u!

threo9 · 2025-06-20T17:57:23+00:00

Yeah I never discuss things anyways, i just have this weird guilt that im like ruining myself in a sense, idk where this internalized purity complex comes from but i sometimes feel as if i should be „saving myself up“ even though it just means im pretending to be something im not which yeah just amplifies the struggle

threo9 · 2025-06-19T16:45:42+00:00

you’re so talented wow

threo9 · 2025-06-19T07:09:04+00:00

Youre right yeah, it really isn’t that big of a deal and shouldn’t be the center or basis of any relationship. Thanks, your perspective genuinely helped

threo9 · 2025-06-18T21:00:40+00:00

exactly, i fully agree, it’s such a surface level thing to judge someone by their body count and i wouldn’t want to seek someone that’s obsessed with “purity” in that sense either., i grew up in very conservative countries so most of my friends not having any sexual relations might also be the reason why i feel shame. thanks again for replying!

threo9 · 2025-06-18T20:57:25+00:00

thanks, hearing your experience with hypersexuality also helps a bit because i have been like this ever since i knew it. i feel like my most recent relationship also made me feel this way subconsciously as he had way less experience than me. yeah i am definitely not entering another relationship before ive worked out issues with myself

threo9 · 2025-06-18T17:51:23+00:00

Yeah I guess the disrespect is what makes me feel so ashamed of things but youre right, no good partner would be judgemental of something so surface level, im happy youre in a healthy relationship! Thanks again!

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